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    Default As the name suggests, any advice?

    First post, and it's looking for advice, ha, anyway, I was just wondering how you would go about this "escort" thing if it's your first time?

    I'm a 22 year old male, just out of a 4 year relationship about 2-3 months, she finished it, so confidence is shot, go out with mates, try to talk to women but end up like a blubbering fool, also, couldn't be bothered about jumpiing right back into the dating world and would like to give this a go, even if it's a once off.

    So yeah, any advice for a noob? Or should I even be considering this at my age? (A know a lad that done it once or twice but he's 30 and don't really feel comfortable talking to him about it, haha).

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    Quote Originally Posted by AbsoluteNoob View Post
    First post, and it's looking for advice, ha, anyway, I was just wondering how you would go about this "escort" thing if it's your first time?

    I'm a 22 year old male, just out of a 4 year relationship about 2-3 months, she finished it, so confidence is shot, go out with mates, try to talk to women but end up like a blubbering fool, also, couldn't be bothered about jumpiing right back into the dating world and would like to give this a go, even if it's a once off.

    So yeah, any advice for a noob? Or should I even be considering this at my age? (A know a lad that done it once or twice but he's 30 and don't really feel comfortable talking to him about it, haha).

    So you have been going with a girl since you were 18, and after 4 years its all off.... now you want to try an escort after 3 months of blubbering.....


    Gera life bud...

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    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    So you have been going with a girl since you were 18, and after 4 years its all off.... now you want to try an escort after 3 months of blubbering.....


    Gera life bud...
    Yeah, man, I'm obviously not going to go into details about why it ended, I find myself not even bothering to "chat up" women when I'm out, and the lad I was referring to suggested this, specifically this site.

    Don't understand at all as to why you can't comprehend it, you make it out it as if I'm "trolling" of sorts, it was a rather simple question, just thought someone that had being doing this for a while could throw a bit of friendly advice, ya know.

    After seeing some of the escorts on this site, is that surprising that I'd want to try one?

    EDIT: Just saw the replies, nice one lads, as for not having troubles, you'd be surprised, confidence as being at an all time low, not just from a relationship stand point but from having a rough two years personally. But yeah, it should be straightforward enough but I just wanted to get the jizzt of how you would approach, thanks anyway lads.
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    I thought your name said Absolute Nob! Sorry x

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    Quote Originally Posted by AbsoluteNoob View Post
    Yeah, man, I'm obviously not going to go into details about why it ended, I find myself not even bothering to "chat up" women when I'm out, and the lad I was referring to suggested this, specifically this site.

    Don't understand at all as to why you can't comprehend it, you make it out it as if I'm "trolling" of sorts, it was a rather simple question, just thought someone that had being doing this for a while could throw a bit of friendly advice, ya know.

    After seeing some of the escorts on this site, is that surprising that I'd want to try one?

    EDIT: Just saw the replies, nice one lads, as for not having troubles, you'd be surprised, confidence as being at an all time low, not just from a relationship stand point but from having a rough two years personally. But yeah, it should be straightforward enough but I just wanted to get the jizzt of how you would approach, thanks anyway lads.
    Noob... you are doing just fine. You already know about 'trolling' and you have correctly attributed yourself the title ‘noob’. You must have had a loooong discussion with your ‘friend’ before logging on…

    Best of luck bud…. Im sure you will make the right decision…

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    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    Noob... you are doing just fine. You already know about 'trolling' and you have correctly attributed yourself the title ‘noob’. You must have had a loooong discussion with your ‘friend’ before logging on…

    Best of luck bud…. Im sure you will make the right decision…
    Haha, sound. As for the long conversation, Him- "Check out escort Ireland", Me - "Ah alright" - *end conversation*

    :P

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    welcome
    if you really only want it to be once, then I'd continue trying the chat up approach for a while.
    Once you start you'll never stop.
    Thank you all the ladies I had pleasure of meeting. Forever grateful for the memories

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    Quote Originally Posted by AbsoluteNoob View Post
    First post, and it's looking for advice, ha, anyway, I was just wondering how you would go about this "escort" thing if it's your first time?

    I'm a 22 year old male, just out of a 4 year relationship about 2-3 months, she finished it, so confidence is shot, go out with mates, try to talk to women but end up like a blubbering fool, also, couldn't be bothered about jumpiing right back into the dating world and would like to give this a go, even if it's a once off.

    So yeah, any advice for a noob? Or should I even be considering this at my age? (A know a lad that done it once or twice but he's 30 and don't really feel comfortable talking to him about it, haha).
    Mate just pick up the phone and give a girl ya like the look of a ring. Pretty straight forward I woulda thought. Oh for the old days when ya had to take the whole thing on faith (much more exciting now that I think about it)

    Sorry to sound grumpy lad. Yer a young fella and clearly havent too many troubles to be dealin with.
    Bada Bing!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lincoln View Post
    Mate just pick up the phone and give a girl ya like the look of a ring. Pretty straight forward I woulda thought. Oh for the old days when ya had to take the whole thing on faith (much more exciting now that I think about it)

    Sorry to sound grumpy lad. Yer a young fella and clearly havent too many troubles to be dealin with.
    Remember the old days Lincoln , exciting would be one way of describing but I can think of a few more words as well .: lol
    Never mistake kindness for weakness .: doc

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    Quote Originally Posted by dr love View Post
    Remember the old days Lincoln , exciting would be one way of describing but I can think of a few more words as well .: lol
    Ah I loved the brothel-era Doc. Wasnt all wine and roses I'll grant ya but it was mostly grand
    Bada Bing!!!

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