The effects of a negative review

[mellors]

This was brought home to me the other day when visiting an escort. Her friend,another escort, had received a bad review and apparently her phone had virtually stopped ringing since. Had a big impact on this girls business. Don't want to put a link to this review, that would be unfair on the escort, but i did read it and it seemed quite scathing in what the reviewer said, some of it unwarranted in my opinion. Now, I haven't met the girl so can't comment on her service,but he was very critical of the location. saying it was the worst ever, I've been there and it isnt, in fact i thought the opposite. He also commented on her being disinterested in talking and making conversation, the escort in question speaks very limited English, something that is plainly obvious. Don't know, just seems a little unfair that one persons opinion can have such a big impact on someones livelyhood.

[blue8671]

I agree that bad reviews do impact a great deal on any girl unlucky enough to receive them, and worse still I know that some guy's use the threat of a bad review to try and get a higher level of service or a reduction in cost of there appointment. I find this a totally disgusting practice that should not be tolerated as using threats of any kind against a girl is a disgrace. On the rare occasion that i review a girl I try to be totally honest and it would take something really unacceptable for me to consider giving a bad review, the problem is that a lot of us rely on reviews as the deciding factor when we are trying to decide between one or two girls we would like to meet and I hope that others have been as honest as I try to be. I really dont know of any way that it can be done in a less blunt and if I'm honest degrading way to talk about another human being. I'm certainly glad that punters are not reviewed as it must be soul destroying to try and give a good service only to find that you later are getting verbally torn to shreds in a forum such as this.

[mathsteacher]

yeah its a difficult one mellors, its like a catch 22 situation, us clients provide the money to fund all of this and like to be warned/alerted to a poor escort however in my opinion no honest client wants to affect someone's livehood.
I think experienced clients can read between the lines and understand that factors such as location/apartment generally arent the make or break factors.
i also feel the person reviewing is important, if its his first review or his 41st review, so when i see a negative i look to see if he has other reviews, next i look to see has he reviewed escorts i have already seen and what was his experience with them. also i think its important to see the escorts reaction too, certaintly this escort could comment on the location i feel. however replies where the escort continues to reinvent new reasons generally sound alarm bells for me. overall its hard for the escort and for the client

[mellors]

Exactly the way i read and research reviews. It was a very negative review throughout, being negative about location and lack of conversation for like i say a very obvious reason, would make me ignore the review. Unfortunately, in this case it seems we are in the minority as clients. I agree about your point about responses!, however, her knowledge of written English is obviously not good enough to state her point of view

[ksteve]

This was brought home to me the other day when visiting an escort. Her friend,another escort, had received a bad review and apparently her phone had virtually stopped ringing since. Had a big impact on this girls business. Don't want to put a link to this review, that would be unfair on the escort, but i did read it and it seemed quite scathing in what the reviewer said, some of it unwarranted in my opinion. Now, I haven't met the girl so can't comment on her service,but he was very critical of the location. saying it was the worst ever, I've been there and it isnt, in fact i thought the opposite. He also commented on her being disinterested in talking and making conversation, the escort in question speaks very limited English, something that is plainly obvious. Don't know, just seems a little unfair that one persons opinion can have such a big impact on someones livelyhood.

If she was genuinely reviewed unfairly, then she should respond properly and reasonably to the review. If she does it can turn a negative into a positive !

[ksteve]

Exactly the way i read and research reviews. It was a very negative review throughout, being negative about location and lack of conversation for like i say a very obvious reason, would make me ignore the review. Unfortunately, in this case it seems we are in the minority as clients. I agree about your point about responses!, however, her knowledge of written English is obviously not good enough to state her point of view

Will her escort pal, another pal or internet tools not be of sufficient help to get over this hurdle .? The english can be very plain and rudimentary to get over this .

[mathsteacher]

yeah if she can somehow comment (or instruct her friend to) on the location and how english aint her first language and if she mentions her language (maybe basic english) in her profile then she certaintly will reduce the impact of the review and as ksteve says maybe turn it into a positive. A reasonable response is required thou, as unreasonable one's i feel are obvious to fellow clients

[harry10]

This was brought home to me the other day when visiting an escort. Her friend,another escort, had received a bad review and apparently her phone had virtually stopped ringing since. Had a big impact on this girls business. Don't want to put a link to this review, that would be unfair on the escort, but i did read it and it seemed quite scathing in what the reviewer said, some of it unwarranted in my opinion. Now, I haven't met the girl so can't comment on her service,but he was very critical of the location. saying it was the worst ever, I've been there and it isnt, in fact i thought the opposite. He also commented on her being disinterested in talking and making conversation, the escort in question speaks very limited English, something that is plainly obvious. Don't know, just seems a little unfair that one persons opinion can have such a big impact on someones livelyhood.

Maybe the review system is a little to blunt.
It is probably different for everyone but what would need to happen for a punter to leave a negative review.
The condition of their accommodation should not be a determinator. Either should lack of English.
IMO a negative review would need to be justified and the service received would need to be poor.
I would hope that anyone leaving a negative review would be giving an honest assessment of the meeting and not trying to jeopardize someones livelihood.
However if the review system is to have integrity negative review are just as important as positive ones but are probably more difficult to write.

[MrNiceGuy2010]

This was brought home to me the other day when visiting an escort. Her friend,another escort, had received a bad review and apparently her phone had virtually stopped ringing since. Had a big impact on this girls business. Don't want to put a link to this review, that would be unfair on the escort, but i did read it and it seemed quite scathing in what the reviewer said, some of it unwarranted in my opinion. Now, I haven't met the girl so can't comment on her service,but he was very critical of the location. saying it was the worst ever, I've been there and it isnt, in fact i thought the opposite. He also commented on her being disinterested in talking and making conversation, the escort in question speaks very limited English, something that is plainly obvious. Don't know, just seems a little unfair that one persons opinion can have such a big impact on someones livelyhood.

aye i know what you mean.I seen an escort who was upset about a bad review and she was talking about stopping because of it.Having said that i went 2 a escort who had got a recent bad review.Info and pics where fine and previous reviews before that where great.Turns out i had a lovely time and did not see what the fuss was about.Same thing the last punt,girl pulled 2 N/A's on her last review's,i went 2 see her and i was blown away(best punt yet).

[Size]

Everyone's thinking is different. I do check the bad reviews but unless the lads said "no that's not her in the picture" or "very bad service like a dead meat i left asap" or "i had an argument with her she refused to refund my money even i didn't touch her at all" those reviews about an escort 's honesty or service problems. Other than that i don't really think some bad reviews should be allowed at all. Like sometimes a lad left an escort a bad review because she has anal listed but said no to him. But imo the anal has anal giving and anal receiving two types. If the escort only will.do anal giving. Then u shouldn't even ask for receiving. At least shouldn't leave a bad review for it. Any sex against a woman's wish we call it - rape. If she lied, a bad review is she.deserved. But if only because she only refused someone's unwanted request then the bad review should be deleted or change to yellow warning colour for Both side.