Never!

[skywalker85]

One thing, a bit of future advice for you. Never do all the running. Let the woman sweat it a bit from time to time.

Great bit of advice

[Aggie]

Cant speak for your sitch Dreamer, but metinks you are living up to your name a bit...lol

These girls are priofessional lovers, girlfriends & friends. they are actresses. They learn quite fast the right things to say & the right things to do to keep you interested. Of course they will act out more with the guys they prefer as clients, its human nature. But bear in mind a regul;ar client is regular cash, its business. I have been there a number of times. But having learned the Client/Escort ropes now it amuses me when I get the ol' cliches... "You are my Favorite"... "I dont kiss the other guys the way I kiss you"... "I love you too"... etc...etc...

Its easy to get caught up in the game, and usually if you are not smart, get hurt financially and emotionally in the end... I could give you many examples of our fellow punters that have been caught, some quite seriously...

Its just a game guys... just a game...

It amazes me how ppl believe in that cliche.I'm a very bad actress,and once I've been told it was a good acting on my part...made me speachless

[JAMESCORK]

What do you expect them to do? Tell everyone they are an escort? Common ffs its not like your everyday job. You lot are quick enough to review them quick enough to call in and ask for stuff yet you think they are liars and bad people because they dont tell the whole place about their jobs??????? You lot are comical.

Relax bud... the fact that they cannot tell family and friends means they are forced to live a lie...no one considers them liars or bad people, its like being a mysterios spy... you cant divulge your true identity cos its part of the job...

And whatsmore ... more often than not we are comical... stick arounf and you will see... welcome aboard bud..

[slevet]

I've pretty much got rid of my page as best I can,

Its an awkward situation and I won't go into details too much...

I know escorts have feelings TCD.. Its when escorts give us "the lines" that JC mentioned..thats when it crosses the line.. I've visited plenty of escorts but playing games with someones emotions is different!!

There is a fine line of making someone feel special and then falling for them...

Reality is I fell for things she said that obviously were not true so yeah I'll be fine in a day or two but sucks all the same because it isn't fantasy, fun or a release when it crosses the line...

Whats an ecsort but a business woman and whats the purpose of business? To make repeat customers to make more money for a better living. How does an escort get repeat business? By making the guys feel special and how does she do that? By making him feel different or better or whatever and its emptional but who does the falling? The escort? Nope the guy does. I have called to escorts and have dated escorts and i can tell you the difference between the two is like ice and fire. If a guy cant seperate them then pack up pinting because he will be in for a lifetime of emotional turmoil created bu himself.

[wanted the best 69]

Relax bud... the fact that they cannot tell family and friends means they are forced to live a lie...no one considers them liars or bad people, its like being a mysterios spy... you cant divulge your true identity cos its part of the job...

And whatsmore ... more often than not we are comical... stick arounf and you will see... welcome aboard bud..

james having seen both sides of this, i can only say i agree in part with you and amber, BOTH sides lie to a degree, but think of it does a punter walking out his halldoor say" oh yes dear,just off to see jenny the escort" like wise some escorts are born liars, believe i met some, just as in normal live i met them there too.
the real point is this just as in real life good and bad are to be found, so too in the world of escorting,trick is know which one is lying

[slevet]

Great bit of advice

Well its a 50/50 deal with me. Plenty of women around. If a woman wont meet half way then she is looking for a doormat not me. Im all for listening, protecting, caring and providing for a woman when she is past the finish line and we are a solid item period. Until then its a two way deal like a probationary period. If she acts the asshole im gone. I have a life to live ,not a puzzle to solve :-)

[slevet]

Relax bud... the fact that they cannot tell family and friends means they are forced to live a lie...no one considers them liars or bad people, its like being a mysterios spy... you cant divulge your true identity cos its part of the job...

And whatsmore ... more often than not we are comical... stick arounf and you will see... welcome aboard bud..

All Cork people are comical. They sleep with strapons and speak like a drunk parrot.

[doodlebug]

Only point I would make is escorts are humans, and for every punter who gets emotionally hurt there is an escort who is hurting too. Her decision is very often between commercial reality and emotional reality. Not a choice I for one would want to make.

[JAMESCORK]

james having seen both sides of this, i can only say i agree in part with you and amber, BOTH sides lie to a degree, but think of it does a punter walking out his halldoor say" oh yes dear,just off to see jenny the escort" like wise some escorts are born liars, believe i met some, just as in normal live i met them there too.
the real point is this just as in real life good and bad are to be found, so too in the world of escorting,trick is know which one is lying

Ok this is getting into a moral discussion where its not intended to be... There are liars and there are honest people... we are not talking about a individuals moral standing on honesty here. An escort could be a very honest person but still is forced to live a lie because of her chosen profession. She tells white lies to ugly mugs like me to make me feel good. She acts out little white lies when she moans and groans when I am giving her a good batin... But we all should realise that these lies are expected as part of the game... it has no bearing on the true HONESTY of the escort....

[tigertrunx]

Hi, the best relationship to have with an escort is a business relationship, sure there are some girls who make u feel more special than others but that's just them being good at their job. Of course many know how to play the game n keep u comin back for more but lets face it they must like u a tiny bit, coz say u were turnin up every week n being a feckin ignorant cunt n treatin dem like shit and still handin over da cash.....wud they still c u? I'm guessin prob not. Of course escorts are going to be more friendly towards nice safe, respectful clients who treat them well during their appointtment....thats just human nature n yeah they want u to come back coz u got cash n r a nice guy.....just like women in the real world

TT