Regular Girl

[dr love]

I have a lady I see quite regular Amber , I see beyond all the makeup and such as it is a whole different experience .
We are like friends we both know there's a line not to cross and beacause of that we are completely at eas in eachothers company .
But we just clicked it's unique and wonderful .
On my last visit we chatted for hours she was just in her robe and still had amazing sex .
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[jammy69]

I'm guessing a lot of you chaps have certain ladies that you see regularly. Today I saw a client again and he turned up too bloody early (I said 3pm dammit) and I had no clothes or make up on! Not even a slick of bloody lipgloss. I was annoyed as I try to take a bit of pride in my appearance. It lead me thinking.

My question is this.

Do you hope/expect that the more often you go and see her the more effort she will put into her appearance and the session? Maybe she will start offering an extra service or allow a little extra time.

Or does a part of you hope/expect that over time she will be comfortable enough with you to perhaps wear no make up or not need to do that really awkward sexual position that makes her back feckin kill?

I'm not talking about hairy legs and a headache- you guys ain't married :P But just generally feel a bit more chill.

Opinions and experiences welcome

That's a very interesting question and I'd love to hear the opinion of some of the ladies as well.

I have started seeing one lady on a regular basis, with two future visits planned in the next ten days or so. It's a personal choice; I'm more comfortable visiting one escort I know I can have an amazing time with as opposed to seeking new experiences.
Just because I'm seeing her regularly does not mean that my expectations of the service change. I would not expect her to have to make any further effort in her dress sense or make up and I certainly would not expect any services that weren't on the menu to begin with.

However, she's in the driving seat and if she wanted to be flexible in her time keeping or any other aspect of our time together then that's up to her. As a client you can't go expecting these things though and if you do, then you've crossed some line that really shouldn't be crossed. I guess one of the concerns of seeing someone regularly is the strengthening of the emotional bond you have for this person and how this may cloud your judgement sometime in the future.

[JAMESCORK]

Excelent post Ebs. I'll try and think this through. But bear in mind this is MY opinion and not necessarily the norm.

Should you allow yourself relax into a regular visit and maybe nor make the effort with dress and makeup cos it's just JIMBOP.

NO!!!! I have a few regulars and the reason they are still regulars is because they always make the effort. I had previous regulars but I felt they acquired that exact attitude and their appearance and service waned. No it's not ok to expect to offer a less enthusiastic performance just cos it's jimbop. The reason you are my regular is because I prefer you to other girls. As soon as your standard drops below the standards of a new girl.... I'm sorry. But there are regulars and regular regulars... i.e. girls that you are so infatuated with they can do no wrong. These may get away with it.... A bit... Lol.

[ladiesman217]

I'm guessing a lot of you chaps have certain ladies that you see regularly. Today I saw a client again and he turned up too bloody early (I said 3pm dammit) and I had no clothes or make up on! Not even a slick of bloody lipgloss. I was annoyed as I try to take a bit of pride in my appearance. It lead me thinking.

My question is this.

Do you hope/expect that the more often you go and see her the more effort she will put into her appearance and the session? Maybe she will start offering an extra service or allow a little extra time.

Or does a part of you hope/expect that over time she will be comfortable enough with you to perhaps wear no make up or not need to do that really awkward sexual position that makes her back feckin kill?

I'm not talking about hairy legs and a headache- you guys ain't married :P But just generally feel a bit more chill.

Opinions and experiences welcome

I don't see anyone regularly, have only seen 1 escort on more than 1 occasion. I must answer no to all your questions Amber. Even if I visited the same lady 100 times, never in a million years would I expect her to put more effort into her already impeccable appearance nor would I ever expect her to allow me to stay longer than agreed. That being said, I have stayed longer than my allotted time once or twice, but that was purely down to both of us having a good friendly chat and not realising the time

[sperminater]

Ok here goes I see one particular girl all the time and guess what I'm hooked, now she gone away so I'm cold turkey at the moment but I don't want to see and other ladys, I would have to say I'm compleaty satisfied sounds a bit sad really but that's me now I'm no fool I don't expect the same in return, but I'm happy out so I'm on here for the fun and boy it's fun

[Morpheus]

Excelent post Ebs. I'll try and think this through. But bear in mind this is MY opinion and not necessarily the norm.

Should you allow yourself relax into a regular visit and maybe nor make the effort with dress and makeup cos it's just JIMBOP.

NO!!!! I have a few regulars and the reason they are still regulars is because they always make the effort. I had previous regulars but I felt they acquired that exact attitude and their appearance and service waned. No it's not ok to expect to offer a less enthusiastic performance just cos it's jimbop. The reason you are my regular is because I prefer you to other girls. As soon as your standard drops below the standards of a new girl.... I'm sorry. But there are regulars and regular regulars... i.e. girls that you are so infatuated with they can do no wrong. These may get away with it.... A bit... Lol.

Couldn't have said it better myself J.C.! My sentiments exactly. It's what makes going back to certain ladies all the more worthwhile.

[Lucy Chambers]

I lurve regular clients. You have got the awkward bits out of the way and it is easier to build up a rapport, in and out of the bedroom. Plus, they know me a little by then so my sense of humour (admittedly macabre) doesnt worry anyone too much. As to the makeup, by the time I have finished an app, my mascara is down to my chin and my lipstick is somewhere around the balls, so maybe it is better to start clean

[wakka]

I lurve regular clients. You have got the awkward bits out of the way and it is easier to build up a rapport, in and out of the bedroom. Plus, they know me a little by then so my sense of humour (admittedly macabre) doesnt worry anyone too much. As to the makeup, by the time I have finished an app, my mascara is down to my chin and my lipstick is somewhere around the balls, so maybe it is better to start clean

My kinda girl!!!! lol

[wolfie]

I lurve regular clients. You have got the awkward bits out of the way and it is easier to build up a rapport, in and out of the bedroom. Plus, they know me a little by then so my sense of humour (admittedly macabre) doesnt worry anyone too much. As to the makeup, by the time I have finished an app, my mascara is down to my chin and my lipstick is somewhere around the balls, so maybe it is better to start clean

ha ha ha. You gotta love this girl

[Forrest]

After 5 years of variety, and repeat visits to a few different escorts, I found a regular lady that just captured my heart, and made me feel totally relaxed in her company.

Regardless of how many times we met, the routine was exactly the same.

1) Pm to arrange a suitable day and time.
2) Text an hour before the appointed time to let her know I was on my way.
3) Phone call when I was parked, so she would know it was me ringing her doorbell shortly.
4) Relaxing, friendly, passionate and very satisfying companionship. Every time!!!!
5) A consummate professional, providing a top class service.

It shouldn't matter how often an escort and client meet, they shouldn't take each other for granted.
Have mutual respect and nothing can go wrong.

I miss you Jasmin. I hope you are enjoying life back home.