I don't know if you are willing to travel or not, but there is a girl based in Limerick who you might try. I just missed her when she was in Drogheda a few months back, but when i talked to her she said she was a submissive. I don't know about the deepthroat, but the rest are on her list and she says she does them.
https://www.escort-ireland.com/13572...sh-escort.html

Another girl claiming to be a submissive was in Dublin a few weeks back.
https://www.escort-ireland.com/19028...sh-escort.html