Forward planning.......

[BACMAN36]

I'm finding spontaneous punts far more hit and miss. Does mean you have to be a bit more organised and plan it out a bit, but there are certain ladies I want to make sure I don't miss out on cause their not here all the time. Have two pencilled in for July!

Used to find the same hit or miss thing with spur of the moments. Since I discovered PM I have been a happy bunny.

[Stephanie]

I've always made mine the day before. Has worked out well for me thus far so why fix that which is not broke

Gentlemen, if you would allow, now for a girl´s perspective regarding the question: advance booking or spur of the moment...


As I don´t like to be rushed in any aspect of my life, it naturally follows that in Escorting also I prefer advance bookings..

It gives me an opportunity to properly prepare myself not only physically, but also mentally and emotinally

for that particular visitor´s needs, wants and desires..

Each person is different, therefore to make a meet memorable I aim to match my communication and mood and my own

desires to that of the particular person visiting.

Of course I also accept last second bookings (for example when I have a cancellation), but in my limited experience,

repeat customers will be those who had the foresight to book in advance as I would be able to provide an even more personal encounter.

There are exceptions to that generalisation of course, as I am lucky to have a couple of friends who are always on a standby for possible

cancellations... But, all of that said, I feel I will be much more likely to be able to give my whole 100 percent if I have sufficient notice,

sufficient time to think of you, sufficient time to prepare...


Now, I´d be curious as to what other girls think...

And would the above be enough of an incentive for you gentlemen to think ahead (work schedules, life commitments allowing) ?

Cheers and enjoy whatever you may be doing

[BACMAN36]

Thanks for that Steph.

Always good to get a ladies view on all these matters.

Any other ladies care to comment?

[doodlebug]

Gentlemen, if you would allow, now for a girl´s perspective regarding the question: advance booking or spur of the moment...


As I don´t like to be rushed in any aspect of my life, it naturally follows that in Escorting also I prefer advance bookings..

It gives me an opportunity to properly prepare myself not only physically, but also mentally and emotinally

for that particular visitor´s needs, wants and desires..

Each person is different, therefore to make a meet memorable I aim to match my communication and mood and my own

desires to that of the particular person visiting.

Of course I also accept last second bookings (for example when I have a cancellation), but in my limited experience,

repeat customers will be those who had the foresight to book in advance as I would be able to provide an even more personal encounter.

There are exceptions to that generalisation of course, as I am lucky to have a couple of friends who are always on a standby for possible

cancellations... But, all of that said, I feel I will be much more likely to be able to give my whole 100 percent if I have sufficient notice,

sufficient time to think of you, sufficient time to prepare...


Now, I´d be curious as to what other girls think...

And would the above be enough of an incentive for you gentlemen to think ahead (work schedules, life commitments allowing) ?

Cheers and enjoy whatever you may be doing

Stephanie, your planning and execution as detailed show why you have such good reviews. My forward planning, unfortunately, now revolves around planning when I might get the cash injection needed, so it is more spontaneous than forward planning.

x

[Stephanie]

Hi Stephanie when i say a spur of the moment thing i mean i would make my appointments on the day that i would like to see someone.I would say i would give 2 hours notice.Would you say this is a fair amount of time to give?

I think i have only made one of my appointments the night before.Thank you for your post Stephanie it will make me think about how much notice i give in the future.

Hello Spur,

Thank you for responding to my post.

To answer your question: I suppose it would depend on the lady you call. I do not know how other girls work, and I am very new

in the business... I have to say though that I think I am very fortunate in that I am usually booked a day

or two in advance.. So, unless there is a last minute cancellation, it is unlikely that I would be able to accomodate your request at

a 2hrs notice..

BUT: for some unknown reason, there are days when I get way more calls than I could possibly entertain or even schedule for the

following day or two, and there are days when I get only a few calls, which for whatever reason I do not accept.. And so there ARE

days when I am willing and able, and have no appointments.. So, luck of the draw with a 2hr notice.

Also, it just depends on your preference. Do you prefer to spend the night before a date anticipating, fantasizing or do you prefer

to just jump into a spontaneous spur of the moment encounter? Both are fun with the right person, I'd say

[jammy69]

Steph - with you I'd rather spend days (or in this case weeks) fantasising and building up to our encounter. The anticipation just adds to the excitement.

[Stephanie]

Steph - with you I'd rather spend days (or in this case weeks) fantasising and building up to our encounter. The anticipation just adds to the excitement.

It is pretty special, eh?? xx

[Morpheus]

Do you arrange your appointments on the spur of the moment or plan ahead?

I'm a fairly obsessive sort of person and would love to plan my appointments in advance. I also know my work schedule for the months ahead so this would make it possible to make advanced bookings (eg. 1 week in advance for a lady based in Dublin or a month in advance for someone touring).

However, it doesn't always work out that way! PM is a great tool for making appointments. However, the ladies that use PM on this site are in the minority (IMHO).

There is also the difference whether it is a first time booking or a return visit. I find it's much easier to make a return booking in advance because the lady already knows me and knows that I keep my appointments and am punctual.

I find it's much harder to book in advance with someone new. Probably because many ladies have been burned by new clients booking and then not turning up. I do find that ladies who use PM are far more willing to take new bookings in advance. I think it's partly because the lady can get a sense of me from our PM communications and also check out my profile and other reviews.

Stephanie has kindly shared some insights into how an escort may view bookings. (Thanks Steph – very insightful). However, every lady is different. I’ve found that some girls don’t like to take bookings too far in advance (eg.more than a few days in advance) – I presume so that the lady has some freedom to change her own plans without being tied down to advanced appointments.

So my practice is to make return visit appointments a couple of days in advance (eg. 2-7 days) depending on the lady’s preference (which I will have gathered from meeting her before), while I’d make same day bookings with a girl I’m seeing for the first time (e.g. 2 hours in advance). The problem arises of course when the said new girl isn’t available! Then I end up phoning one of the ladies I’ve seen before to get an appointment that same day – which kind of defeats the purpose of forward planning/booking!!!

As I said at the beginning I don’t always get to book the way I’d like to book appointments! Pretty much the same with every other aspect of my life!

[BACMAN36]

Ta Morpheus,

You put quite a bit of work into that reply.

Always wondered why so few ladies have a PM a/c. Any ideas?

[Rayden]

Ta Morpheus,

You put quite a bit of work into that reply.

Always wondered why so few ladies have a PM a/c. Any ideas?

Not all quite as independant as they seem I would guess.