In a Dilemma and need advice

**lovethegirls** · 23-06-11, 13:40

Originally Posted by comicbookguy

OK, Used to see this girl for a while in a 'Friends with Benefits' capacity for about a year and I broke it off because she was starting to get serious, Don't get me wrong she is a stunning girl with an amazing body and the sex was amazing, I just did not want a relationship and I made that clear from the start.
We have always remained friends and last night she offered to reignite the 'Friends with Benefits' clause and as yet I have not responded because I am afraid it would ruin the friendship that we have and I still don't want to be in a relationship.
So my question is should I go for it and risk it or back away politely and hang on o the friendship ???

Any and all comments welcome ????

No no no. Dont do it trust me no no no.

**skywalker85** · 23-06-11, 13:45

GO 4 IT, if ya dont you will never no if it would have worked out or not, and if it doesnt then it was never ment to be.
But ofcourse do what you feel is best 4 you, lifes all about taking chances

Right jus nticed you dont want to be in a R.ship just yet, well then you hav answered that already yourself Remain Friends and if anything develops well then let it take its own course

another things is if you see her walking down the street with another man, dont get jealous as you had your chance and didnt take it,
then you will be feeling worse off

**WD-40** · 23-06-11, 13:53

its hardly a dilemma,
last thread i read the guy was felling sorry for himself cos he punts too much and spent 1600 euro in a day or sumtim...............i say, fuck it mate your rich.

now your confused bcos your friend wit the amazing body wants to fuck you...........

may all our problems be little ones eh

**comicbookguy** · 23-06-11, 16:11

Thanks ALL

Much to think about !

**mathsteacher** · 23-06-11, 16:16

what age is this girl?
if u want i can go and have chat with her and see how she feels.

**comicbookguy** · 23-06-11, 16:20

Originally Posted by mathsteacher

what age is this girl?
if u want i can go and have chat with her and see how she feels.

She is 35 and I am 37, i just want to be certain of what I want before speaking to her.

**NaughyYanna** · 23-06-11, 16:23

oh mathsteacher, will u do the talk talk or just talk talk?

Originally Posted by mathsteacher

what age is this girl?
if u want i can go and have chat with her and see how she feels.

**mathsteacher** · 23-06-11, 20:06

35 nice, yeah mate take your time dont rush in, and send me on her number

Originally Posted by comicbookguy

She is 35 and I am 37, i just want to be certain of what I want before speaking to her.

**comicbookguy** · 23-06-11, 20:07

Originally Posted by mathsteacher

35 nice, yeah mate take your time dont rush in, and send me on her number

999 or 1-800 you wish

**mathsteacher** · 23-06-11, 20:07

i think u have got wrong end of stick here anna, naughty anna!

Originally Posted by Naughty'anna

oh mathsteacher, will u do the talk talk or just talk talk?

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