Who on here has a GF/Wife but still sees escorts....?

[doodlebug]

I think I will start dating an escort that way I can combine the two worlds, a good relationship and great sex with an escort!!!! Any offers, LOL

[king nothing]

Thanks for all the honest and friendly advice. Its given me a lot to think about. On the one hand I dont want to lose my GF or hurt her in any way but on the other hand my bad side wants to go crazy and play around with escorts. So I'm torn between the two things. I'll have to think long and hard about what to do. It aint easy!!!!

Thanks again to all who replied so honestly, it is appreciated.

[kerry lad in town]

try everything else with your wife/gf before you make that call i am married over 20 years and did feeling guilty the first few times. once you make that call you will become addicted and you'll end up here every nite.

[pforce]

on the other hand my bad side wants to go crazy and play around with escorts

give yourself to the dark side.....

[Vindictus]

Think once, think twice... fuck it, even think thrice if the mood takes you.
What do you stand to gain?
What do you stand to lose?

Punting is wonderful when it's a win/win situation.

Will it be a win/win situation if you do it?

[Morpheus]

Ok heres the thing....I am 26. I have been with the same girl for the past ten years and I love her. She was one of my only two girls to ever sleep with. As you can imagine, I am a little bored sex wise....I need to have variety to get satisfaction.

I know this is terribly shallow and selfish...but lately I have had serious temptations to call up an escort, just to try something different.....I know that though I will enjoy it, I will be crippled with guilt afterwards, and if my GF ever found out she would never forgive me. I wonder if there are any other users on here who are in a similar situation?

I know I should try new things with my GF to spice it up, I have done but I still have the temptation to ring an escort.

How many of you guys cheat with escorts, honestly?
How do you deal with the guilt?
How do you not get caught?

This is a pretty weird post, so apologies for the nature of it.

I can honestly say that like Benny, I am not cheating on my wife or my girlfriend. Purely because I have neither!!

I will say one thing though. Once you see an escort - you will be biten by the bug. There is no truning back. I don't mean to say that you will necessarily become addicted, but if your think the temptation to see an escort is great now, it will be all the more greater once you've taken the first step into this world.

The appeal to men to see escorts is universal for so many reasons. It is the ultimate male fantasy. The advice given by Vindictus and others is really good - you need to weigh up what you stand to lose and what you stand to gain, before taking the plunge.

I have been in semi-long term relationships in the past before I started seeing escorts. However, now that I see escorts, I can honestly say that I am spoiled for the real thing.

My own suggestion is that you hold off. You're young and in a loving relationship where you still have sex. Granted the excitement and lustre of your sexual relationship has faded but as others have suggested you can try to spice it up (not that it will take away from the temptation to see escorts). There are posters on this site that have been in very long term relationships where the sex has ceased. To me that's a carte blanche to see escorts because they are the ideal solution to staying in a sexless marriage / relationship where you still love the other person.

If you do decide to take the plunge, we'll obviously welcome you with open arms into this madhouse. But you will have to live with the guilt and will have to lie and make sure you don't get caught out.

[DaithiMac]

Hiya
Have u thought about asking ur loved one would she b willing/interested in the both of yee visiting an escort together? Loads of escorts cater for couples.Then there is no guilt but a marvellous shared experience. Maybe if ur honest with her and tell her u love her and only her but are keen to spice up ur sex-life she might like the idea?
all the best
David

[sperminater]

Your getting sound advice here I've given you my pennies worth but dude out of the last 3 pages I sum it up
1 go for it and see the sexist women on the planet
2 go for it see the hornyest women onthe planet
3 tell you gf and let her enjoy it with you
4 roll play
5 your very young go out and spend 200 quid get pissed and try to get laid you could be lucky but most likely you will be caught and you'll feel like shit and everytime your phone rings youll shit yourself
6 look at the girls on my reviews and say feck it look at that lucky b******* and lookat all those mad sexy ladies on the forum
7 don't do it and you'll never know but you will when you turn 40
8 Dont get caught
9 don't get emotional
It's your life but there's some simple tips

[DubJames]

id probably do the same. i just love the buzz of meeting new girls and the fact u can try new more open minded things with escorts. also hope im wrong but doubtful tbh!!!!

[john connor]

morpheus pretty much sums it up. as i have gotten older it is clear to me that love and sex seperate a little.
many women can love a man greatly but their sex drive lowers and add in kids etc it can vanish.
you are one step away from doing this and just think carefully because once you start you will not stop.
the guilt will fade very quickly and yes there are risks to your relationship but you know that already.
i think if you are on this site you will end up seeing escorts at some stage. i think on your death bed you will not look to heaven and regret sleeping with more women. what ever you choose good look with it.