Punting Lessons Learned

[Franken996]

A buddy of mine here in States just hit a big posting milestone on the Forum we inhabit (here in US). Below are some insights he offers..thought they'd resonate here :

( btw..."Hobbying" = Punting, "providers" = escorts)

‘Personal Hobbying Lessons Learned’ (to reduce the risks, control cost, and increase quality of sessions). Not in any particular order and not necessarily for everyone.

1. Hobby without guilt. There is nothing wrong with hobbying if it is done right with the right thinking and approach .Feeling guilty will only degrade all aspects of your life.

2. If you find yourself thinking too much about the hobby, determine what is lacking in your personal life and address that.

3. Avoid making enemies in the hobby. Realize current friends can turn against you. Be very careful making friends with people who are short-tempered, volatile, or have a history of taking revenge on people they perceive as slighting them.

4. Use strict security on computer-related hobby files, logins, etc. Using encryption software or whatever it takes, make it so if I died tomorrow there would be nothing to spoil the memory of me in my SO’s mind.

5. Avoid seeing providers who are short-tempered, volatile, opinionated, domineering, unhappy, jealous, conflicted about providing, or show low self-esteem.

6. Avoid high volume incall providers, or risky incall settings in general.

7. Stick with providers that are $300 or less an hour, except for special extras.

8. Stick mostly with low volume, outcall only independents. Think of the cost of a room as a security fee.

9. Only see providers who are well reviewed, who demonstrate good judgment, intelligence, discreteness, and respect for personal boundaries.

10. Treat each provider with respect and kindness. Be sensitive to their likes, dislikes and personal boundaries. Be more loyal and helpful to provider friends than the anonymous hobbyists on the boards. They are more vulnerable than fellow hobbyists.

11. Find providers who make me speechless when I see them naked, very obviously enjoy the sex, really care about my pleasure, and are fun to talk to.

12. Repeat with providers you really like, seeing someone new only a few times a year. Sex is better with someone you have a connection with. Seeing a handful of providers regularly (some more frequently than others) works best for ensuring consistently high quality sessions.

13. Allow providers to help you pursue sexual fantasies you otherwise would never be able to experience. This is easier and more enjoyable when it is with a lady you already know well.