No way am I paying for sex

[Cable87]

Well said gentleman!

We ALL pay for sex, one way or another, no matter which way we slice it.

I've got 2 non-escort ladies I'm seeing at the moment, one a young sexy blonde from Finland, the other a fit 41 y.o. from West Cork. With the Finnish one it's been either travelling over there (which I've done twice) or having her over here (she's coming tomorrow!), but then it's money for travelling the country and B&B's and such. The sex is fantastic and so are the naughty outfits she wears for me, but it's still costing me money to see her!

For the older one from Cork with whom I have a more casual occasional arrangement, she hates going out in her home town, so it means a trip down to Killarney for me (a town both of us like), which I've done every few months in the last year or so. But, even cutting as many corners as possible, I'll still spend essentially 100 Euro or just shy of it for my trip to see her, that being the costs of round-trip transport, 1 nights' accomodation, and dinner & breakfast-- not to mention approx 5-6 hours of travel EACH WAY, so I can basically spend about 5-5 hours with her! But to be fair, she gives a blowjob of equal (or perhaps better than some) quality to some of the escorts I've seen, so I try to think of it as being worth the trip!

But make no mistake gentleman-- we ALL pay for the sex we get, one way or another, whether it be with our time, money, patience, mental/emotional energy, or some combination of all these things.

[Mousey]

Gentlemen, are you collectively insinuating that all women are whores?

Hmmm?

[Cable87]

Gentlemen, are you collectively insinuating that all women are whores?

Hmmm?

Not at all Mousey-- I wouldn't use that word for ANY woman, escort or not. All I'm saying is that women are, one way or another, require an investment from us guys of some kind or another, whether it be our money, time, effort, etc. And no one said it's not enjoyable! I enjoy the work I put into my ladies, escort and non-escort alike!

And hey, women could certainly turn around and say the SAME THINGS about us! that WE require loads of their time, money, and effort, and we can be right bastards to deal with, no doubt about it. Think of how much time and effort the ladies in our lives (whether escort or not) put in to us lads, or things they do for our benefit-- going to the salon, staying slim and fit, buying sexy clothes that get us drooling-- these things are just as much for us as they are for them!

So in a sense, women 'pay' for sex just as much as we lads do, only their money is going into different things than ours, it all still benefits us!

[royaler]

Following on from yesterdays post I was talking to a friend of mine and said to him would you ever see an escort? Shit no way never!! Why I asked? You never know what you'll get!! So I said do you think so? Reply "look ya never know who they have been with and anyway there's no way I'm ever paying for sex.... So I said ok you were caught with another friends wife a few years back you were kicked out of the house you bought diamonds holidays even a new car so you get back home again which you did thankfully and now you can't go out the door without 20 calls to see where you are is that right? Yea! He said. Well my reply hit him with a bang "your fuckin paying for it now sunshine hahaha "

Great reply Sperminator and well summed up!

[sperminater]

Gentlemen, are you collectively insinuating that all women are whores?

Hmmm?

No way my man.. I love women it's the stigma of escorts !!!!!!!!! It really pisses me off

[Pinkeye]

Ha ha. I always think it's funny when a guy says he'l never pay for sex...he'll just pay for the dinner/drinks/cinema/etc. Escorts are an awful lot cheaper and are always happy that you don't want to hang around for hours after sex.