Do you feel differently having sex with an escort as opposed to a non-escort?

[Lucy Chambers]

If is about havaing sex with my boyfriend(ex boyfriend)or with a client,maybe i choose the client,much more better...
Sex without discuss,he don´t care about ny live and i don´t ask him nothing personal with just fuck and enjoy

You know, the way you write and the things you say remind me of someone. Odd, she looked a little like you too. She got banned though

[Lucy Chambers]

Spot on Anita , sex with an Escort is an unemotional contract whereas with a non escort most probably means that there is a mutual attraction . I find it sad/amusing that occasionally punters become involved in a delusional fantasy love affair.

Hmmm. And you also remind me of someone. This is like the thread of the banned. Or soon to be

[Experienced Punter esq]

Lucy winding up for a bitching session?...

[Lucy Chambers]

Lucy winding up for a bitching session?...

I leave that you and Ric Flair darling. You have both had infinitely more practice in it than I

[mutley]

"Sometimes its better to keep ones mouth shut and just give the impression of stupidity than to open it and remove all doubt ."
Rather an apt saying when threads are butted in with pointless personal agend.

[Lucy Chambers]

"Sometimes its better to keep ones mouth shut and just give the impression of stupidity than to open it and remove all doubt ."
Rather an apt saying when threads are butted in with pointless personal agend.

Its only pointless if it has no point though. I think you forget, I made you a promise

[laura kiss]

You know, the way you write and the things you say remind me of someone. Odd, she looked a little like you too. She got banned though

Lol,pm me your email adress and i will send u a verifacion picture...

P M S L

[medicine man]

Folks,

I raised this question in the chat room earlier today and it led to quite an interesting debate among the small group that was present at the time.

Thought I would ask this in the forum. To be clear, I am asking about personal feelings and if they are different when engaged in any form of intimacy and sex with an escort versus a non-escort?

So, tell us how you feel...

Regards.

I have been single for several years now.

With whomever I share an intimate moment I invariably feel a great deal of warmth and respect.
Or I wouldn’t be sharing anything with the lady.

This feeling I have for escorts and non-escorts alike. Both generally leave me feeling good about myself (as well as life, the universe and everything else). I can only hope that I leave at least a smile upon their face.

But unlike the married and attached folks, I do just then wander off into the sunset on each occasion and consign the experience and feeling to a fond memory

[Pinkeye]

I think it feel different. No matter how good the GFE experience is (and I'm not trying to offend anyone here), it is never really going to be real. Plus there is always the added spice of danger when visiting an escort that yo just don't get with a real girlfriend :P

[Wildthang]

Anyone who was in the chat when Hobby asked the question already knows my view. For those of you who were not present at the time let me share it with you.

Of course I feel different having "sex" with an escort than I do with a lover.......... I don’t really go in for the sensual touchy feely stuff with an escort cause I know she has most likely already seen a number of clients that day and the last thing she really wants is me drooling all over her! But in saying that if I pick a lady up on a night out... it too would be rare for me to go for all that touchy feely stuff too! It has a place n time .... but in that situation I find myself fucking in its purist form!

Now many escorts will come on here and say that they truly enjoy all the guys attention including guys getting all sensual and caressing, kissing , cuddling and massaging them! and without sounding like a cold hearted cunt! they have to say that........ cause anything else is just bad for business. After all let us not forget what it is we are all involved in? a business transaction! you might lie to yourself and think the lady in question really likes you....... but ask yourself one question! would she still like you and share her time with you if you had no money??

There for the feeling you experience during your time with an escort is not "love" in its true sense, more so you are loving the act of sexual encounter from a physical perspective........ which can sometimes become blurred n confused whilst in that said act of making so called love( which should actually be called fucking).


So yea I do feel different! With an escort it is more about me......... well actually it is all about me and therefore I will sotimes go through the motions of mutual attempted satisfaction ... but really I couldn’t give a d amn if said escort is sexually satisfied or not......... as long as I am! I can already see them queuing up to state how I was never able to satisfy them anyway......is that a bad thing... for some guys maybe... for me....... couldn’t give a flying f**k....... I had a great time and that’s what it is all about for me.

So as to have a comparison.... when I am with a person who I truly love from an emotional point and not just "love f**king"........ then I would be at the opposite end of the spectrum of what I just mentioned and in that situation I would be mr sensual and do my utmost to ensure said persons satisfaction and enjoyment is reached before I would even consider my own sexual satisfaction and if that person is truly your lover! then she too will be striving for the same goal and hence the selfless act of true love is experienced.

Now it has been mentioned before about the so called "click factor" we all know what it is and we all have or should have at least one lady we consider ourselves to have "clicked" with.......... now time in this or these ladies company is a whole different thing!

Now I know hobby didn’t ask if you feel love during an encounter with an escort..... but I just f**king love having sex with an escort who I feel I have clicked with.... this for me is the "holy grail " of being a punter. Time in this ladies company is something special...... and something to be truly savoured and enjoyed to its highest level! the sexual act in this situation is truly something wonderful and totally different from a regular punt! But not only is the sexual encounter wonderful I find just spending time in this ladies company a wonderful and enjoyable experience and the sex to be a bonus. it is still not love in its true form.... but none the less I "love" it.

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