Do you feel differently having sex with an escort as opposed to a non-escort?

[doodlebug]

I used to think sex with girlfriends was much better, and it was.
Recently I found a top class escort, we just clicked.
Now, I'm sure she's better.

I bought a lotto ticket in the hope of spending more time with her.
How sad is that?

Not sad at all, in fact its definitely not sad...especially if you win and share with me, LOL

[anitasizzle]

I feel like more of a consumer when Im with an escort

Keep feeling that way, and when you stop then I'd say it's time to stop punting.

[john connor]

would always have said relationship sex was better but there are some escorts out there where time spent with them is equally for me as good as any i have had in a relationship. to a degree we can all get less excited about the same person all the time and as one gets older this even gets more of an issue. when u are in your twenties romantic love and great seems a lot more realistic.
but then u get married, have kids, get a morgage work long hours get home tired and along the way all that hot sex u used to have goes on the back burner. thats why i feel sometimes when u encounter an excellent escort who gives a really good GFE you may feel levels of excitment and emotion that had been forgotten for a while.

[davedrave]

Folks,

I raised this question in the chat room earlier today and it led to quite an interesting debate among the small group that was present at the time.

Thought I would ask this in the forum. To be clear, I am asking about personal feelings and if they are different when engaged in any form of intimacy and sex with an escort versus a non-escort?

So, tell us how you feel...

Regards.

hy hobby i missed that conversation lol,well for me i always make love to my girlfirend its not that we do things that i wouldn`t do with an escort(iv told you what shes like ;-) )its just the close`st iv felt is with her,i enjoy sex alot so thats why i see escorts,i dont see any difference in the two just one thing and thats love,that is the most important thing to keep an eye on,you cant get feelings for these amazing women,you can like them they can like you but thats it,hope im making sense.

[CANALI]

Folks,

I raised this question in the chat room earlier today and it led to quite an interesting debate among the small group that was present at the time.

Thought I would ask this in the forum. To be clear, I am asking about personal feelings and if they are different when engaged in any form of intimacy and sex with an escort versus a non-escort?

So, tell us how you feel...

Regards.

I'm more open with an escort and ask for what I want. With a non escort I would be a bit shy in asking for 'stuff'. However non escort sex always feels more intimate even on a first encounter. There is no money involved so it's nice to know that the lady is with you because she 'wants it' ... Also, non escort sex with a regular girlfriend is usually bareback which is the icing on the cake

[jammy69]

It is largely the same for me regardless of escort or non escort, I have to have some sort of connection with the lady I am with. If it's not there with an escort the act does not get finished and we chat, simple really.

Have to agree with you. A great encounter with an escort can have the intimacy of one with a non-escort. But if you don't click, then bad sex is bad sex, whether you're paying for it or not.

[Stephanie]

Have to agree with you. A great encounter with an escort can have the intimacy of one with a non-escort. But if you don't click, then bad sex is bad sex, whether you're paying for it or not.

The flipside of that coin: a great encounter with a client can, and does have the same intimacy as say, with a boyfriend, lover..
That's what I aim for in my meetings.. I certainly find it personally more satisfying...

[Cable87]

All good points so far folks

I've had both amazing sex, bad sex, and everything in-between with both escort and non-escort, and the overall quality of the sexual encounter can and does certainly have an effect on your feelings. I've met escorts that are such friendly and genuine people, and the sex is so nice and the feeling of intimacy so seemingly genuine that it can feel exactly like it does with a girlfriend, at least for the duration of the encounter. It's in encounters like this that feelings can come around, and where comparisons and confusion can arise. The best of escorts can give this kind of experience to their clients; it's just important to keep in mind that it's part of the experience, and not exactly 'real'.

[laura kiss]

If is about havaing sex with my boyfriend(ex boyfriend)or with a client,maybe i choose the client,much more better...
Sex without discuss,he don´t care about ny live and i don´t ask him nothing personal with just fuck and enjoy

[mutley]

Keep feeling that way, and when you stop then I'd say it's time to stop punting.

Spot on Anita , sex with an Escort is an unemotional contract whereas with a non escort most probably means that there is a mutual attraction . I find it sad/amusing that occasionally punters become involved in a delusional fantasy love affair.