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    One of the things I have learnt about myself from this 'hobby' is that I have been turned on during bookings by ladies that I might normally not consider as physically attractive as other 'stunners'. I can really fancy a particular woman but even so, for whatever reason, I wont be as turned on as much as I might have expected. Is that the ' click ' factor or is it something else ?

    On reflection, I think the main reason is where I sense an absence of any 'distance' or any sort of barrier between me and the lady concerned. Its when everything is just easy for some reason. Do others feel like this ? What factors make the difference for you ? I put this qusetion to both escorts and guys, as no doubt it applies both ways.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ksteve View Post
    One of the things I have learnt about myself from this 'hobby' is that I have been turned on during bookings by ladies that I might normally not consider as physically attractive as other 'stunners'. I can really fancy a particular woman but even so, for whatever reason, I wont be as turned on as much as I might have expected. Is that the ' click ' factor or is it something else ?

    On reflection, I think the main reason is where I sense an absence of any 'distance' or any sort of barrier between me and the lady concerned. Its when everything is just easy for some reason. Do others feel like this ? What factors make the difference for you ? I put this qusetion to both escorts and guys, as no doubt it applies both ways.
    Good question, for me it is an attitude thing, pysically I don't one particular type, but if the escort has a genuine smile and makes me feel at ease then generally I can connect, being more mature (in age at least) I don't expect the escort to find me drop dead gorgeous so maybe my "click" factor doesn't come with the same expectations, if you get my meaning.

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    Sensual French Kissing is a big turn on for me and transforms any liaison. cf recent thread.

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    Sexiness is something that just 'is'. It is brought to life by certain pairings. Some people have it, some don't.

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    Yea same here I now look at women differently you see a stunner and say I've seen better in the flesh with a bit more on there bodies and when our both together it's so different there's that click factor sex appeal etc and a lot of escorts ooze it I'll tell you something girls could learn so much from escorts it's the confidence they have in themselves and the effort they put in men just love sex appeal. I could go on but I'll leave that for another thread I have so much respect for escorts and what they do for us

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    Quote Originally Posted by ksteve View Post
    One of the things I have learnt about myself from this 'hobby' is that I have been turned on during bookings by ladies that I might normally not consider as physically attractive as other 'stunners'. I can really fancy a particular woman but even so, for whatever reason, I wont be as turned on as much as I might have expected. Is that the ' click ' factor or is it something else ?

    On reflection, I think the main reason is where I sense an absence of any 'distance' or any sort of barrier between me and the lady concerned. Its when everything is just easy for some reason. Do others feel like this ? What factors make the difference for you ? I put this qusetion to both escorts and guys, as no doubt it applies both ways.
    ive reread this twice i dont understand the question
    a thousand kisses deep..

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    Quote Originally Posted by ksteve View Post
    One of the things I have learnt about myself from this 'hobby' is that I have been turned on during bookings by ladies that I might normally not consider as physically attractive as other 'stunners'. I can really fancy a particular woman but even so, for whatever reason, I wont be as turned on as much as I might have expected. Is that the ' click ' factor or is it something else ?

    On reflection, I think the main reason is where I sense an absence of any 'distance' or any sort of barrier between me and the lady concerned. Its when everything is just easy for some reason. Do others feel like this ? What factors make the difference for you ? I put this qusetion to both escorts and guys, as no doubt it applies both ways.
    dear have you been drinking?i dont understand a thing....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ric Hardgear View Post
    ive reread this twice i dont understand the question
    I think he means that he has been turned on by women he wouldnt normally expect to be turned on by. Whereas somone incredibly attractive might not turn him on as much as he would have expected. In other words, it's not all about looks, it's sexiness and the click factor

    I think...
    Last edited by UKHeather; 11-06-11 at 21:03.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UKHeather View Post
    I think he means that he has been turned on by women he wouldnt normally expect to be turned on by. Whereas somone incredibly attractive might not turn him on as much as he would have expected. In other words, it's not all about looks, it's sexiness and the click factor

    I think...
    so ksteve is asking are looks more important than chemistry ,or as he has found out which we all know chemistry is far superior to looks
    a thousand kisses deep..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ric Hardgear View Post
    so ksteve is asking are looks more important than chemistry ,or as he has found out which we all know chemistry is far superior to looks
    I think he has just discovered chemistry and is still a little overwhelmed by it lol

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