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    Default relationship question....

    im in a relationship now for a few months. sex is great. i have one issue tho. she often goes down on me, which i enjoy very much. however she doesn't like me going down on her. its not an issue with technique. the few times she has allowed me she has always climaxed. when i quizzed her about it she said that it was because of the smell, as in she thinks her fanny smells and that i might be put off by her by that!
    thing is she smells great down there...really great! in fact she always smells great! i really enjoy oral sex. its an important part of sex. so how do i manage to change her mind on this?
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    keep telling her
    nothing like oral off a guy that truly enjoys it xx
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    Maybe get a shower together 1st an wash eachother down there, mayb that way she will feel more confident

    Then again mayb you's do that, so as Abby says keep telling her that you love how great she smells down stairs thats y you love going down so much.

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    there may be an issue with confidence on her behalf some girls are paranoid about how they look as sort of shyness she seems to enjoy it but if your telling her it smells lovely I would stop there and don't say anything about smell don't even mention the word that could be part of the problem.. Irish society is a funny place you could just be saying the wrong things and that could be triggering the wrong nerve also I bet the light is offer your under the quilt when you do it. Maybe I'm wrong but that's my advisce cos I bet you 80% of the replys will tell you a woman loves you to go down on her

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    ya...im trying all that positive reinforcement stuff at the moment. probably will take a while. where did she ever get this idea? seriously?? must have been some guy she went out with before who just didnt like it (his loss).
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    Quote Originally Posted by sperminater View Post
    there may be an issue with confidence on her behalf some girls are paranoid about how they look as sort of shyness she seems to enjoy it but if your telling her it smells lovely I would stop there and don't say anything about smell don't even mention the word that could be part of the problem.. Irish society is a funny place you could just be saying the wrong things and that could be triggering the wrong nerve also I bet the light is offer your under the quilt when you do it. Maybe I'm wrong but that's my advisce cos I bet you 80% of the replys will tell you a woman loves you to go down on her
    not a bad suggestion. lights off. under quilt. will give it a go.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mature abby View Post
    keep telling her
    nothing like oral off a guy that truly enjoys it xx
    Not for everyone babe, I hate oral, it kills the mood for me.. Strange as it may be..
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    tried getting her in position for reverse a couple of times. was nae chance of that happening. pity.
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    Used to have a G/f that loved receiving but hated giving. Everyone is different i guess
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    Quote Originally Posted by bhoywonder View Post
    not a bad suggestion. lights off. under quilt. will give it a go.
    To be fair if it's a smell she is paranoid about lack of lights and being under the covers ain't gunna make a difference is it? Be careful she doesn't get paranoid that you don't want to look at her whilst your having sex!
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