compulsion or fun

[john connor]

just wondering is it just me.
have found recently that i am visiting girls even when i am not that particulary horny.
i am even a little removed from what i am doing. this seems a little odd to me. not sure if i am trying to flag up my sex drive or not willing to accept that my desires are failing a little bit.
up to now my sex drive almost defined me in that it occupied a large part of my thinking now it seems my head and body are not in sync. my ability to have sex is pretty much the same its just like something is different and i don't know what.
just curious if any others find themselves going through the motions even with girls that should be blowing their minds. this is seriously scaring me as its seems sex is not the spark to me it once was. is this some sort of male menopause i am only 37 ffs.