compulsion or fun

[El Gordo]

just wondering is it just me.
have found recently that i am visiting girls even when i am not that particulary horny.
i am even a little removed from what i am doing. this seems a little odd to me. not sure if i am trying to flag up my sex drive or not willing to accept that my desires are failing a little bit.
up to now my sex drive almost defined me in that it occupied a large part of my thinking now it seems my head and body are not in sync. my ability to have sex is pretty much the same its just like something is different and i don't know what.
just curious if any others find themselves going through the motions even with girls that should be blowing their minds. this is seriously scaring me as its seems sex is not the spark to me it once was. is this some sort of male menopause i am only 37 ffs.

One question is, how far in advance are you booking? My schedule usually requires me to book in advance. Sometimes when the time comes I find I am not feeling very horny. I still go, as it would be unfair to book and then not show up. Sometimes the feeling returns when the appointment starts, and sometimes it doesn't.

[Riplayne]

I think it can be both, depending on the situation. Might be time to take a break though if you feel you're leaning more towards compulsion.

[lovethegirls]

For me its purely fun. When i feel in the humour for a bit of naughty fun i make appointment. Id stop if i was doing it just for the sake of it TBH.

[wanted the best 69]

have to say alot what has been said here rings a bell,being a shy guy sometimes i find having booked and just like a previous poster said the mood just not there,but you go ahead anyway,
the times i find that turn to gold are often the ones you think will not be, i think the word i am looking for is click, if that happens then,wow

[jammy69]

Visiting escorts is fun rather than a compulsion for me.

I think visiting escorts is fun and hopefully will remain fun - this site however has become a bit of a compulsion. Find myself on it a few times a day since I became aware of the forums. And the adverts do give a 'kid in a candy store' feel.