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    just wondering is it just me.
    have found recently that i am visiting girls even when i am not that particulary horny.
    i am even a little removed from what i am doing. this seems a little odd to me. not sure if i am trying to flag up my sex drive or not willing to accept that my desires are failing a little bit.
    up to now my sex drive almost defined me in that it occupied a large part of my thinking now it seems my head and body are not in sync. my ability to have sex is pretty much the same its just like something is different and i don't know what.
    just curious if any others find themselves going through the motions even with girls that should be blowing their minds. this is seriously scaring me as its seems sex is not the spark to me it once was. is this some sort of male menopause i am only 37 ffs.

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    Yea I agree I think it's the buzz you get it's like smoking you think you want it you know it's not good for you but you get a bigger buzz from all the lovely ladies so my my friend your like me we are addicts!! Long live the addicts !!!! Likes to short mate

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    First - great post.

    For me I have found that it is a very fine line between fun and compulsion. I had to make a concious decision to cut down as I was veering towards compulsion and the fun was going out of the visits. As they say too much of a good thing is bad for you so now I try and space out my visits. It is hard as there are just so many fantastic girls on EI.

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    If I were to visit girls when I am horny, I'd be doing it every day. So I try to restrict my visits to once or no more than twice per month.

    I still get a buzz and I am yet to find myself where I am going through the motions, maybe it depends on how often you visit.

    Maybe like a drug, it loses it's buzz if you do it too often.
    Thank you all the ladies I had pleasure of meeting. Forever grateful for the memories

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    It is a bit like an itch you have to scratch. I am single and could easily meet someone in a bar or nightclub but I find myself using EL more and more, which is not good at one level as I am not working and it is costly. All that having been said I have met some wonderful women, and the sex is only for me an introduction, I get nearly as much fun out of communicating and learning about new people. I am 46 so maybe my drive is lower, certainly my personal circumstances don't help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doodlebug View Post
    It is a bit like an itch you have to scratch. I am single and could easily meet someone in a bar or nightclub but I find myself using EL more and more, which is not good at one level as I am not working and it is costly. All that having been said I have met some wonderful women, and the sex is only for me an introduction, I get nearly as much fun out of communicating and learning about new people. I am 46 so maybe my drive is lower, certainly my personal circumstances don't help.
    8 reviews in 2 months and you're not working. Fair play, you're at least having fun
    Thank you all the ladies I had pleasure of meeting. Forever grateful for the memories

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    Totally agree and have found myself in the same situation.
    Visiting ladies too often can desensitise yourself to the whole process.
    When this happens you have to cut down, although cutting down is very difficult.
    Trust me, I've tried!

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    Quote Originally Posted by doodlebug View Post
    It is a bit like an itch you have to scratch. I am single and could easily meet someone in a bar or nightclub but I find myself using EL more and more, which is not good at one level as I am not working and it is costly. All that having been said I have met some wonderful women, and the sex is only for me an introduction, I get nearly as much fun out of communicating and learning about new people. I am 46 so maybe my drive is lower, certainly my personal circumstances don't help.
    There is another thread here where this is discussed. If you are single and find it easy to meet girls, why do you want to visit escorts, particularly when you say the communicating etc is the most enjoyable part for you ?

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    i certainly dont get the buzz i once did it does help to try diffrent things sometimes something you would not dream of trying you might just surprise yourself

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rodney69 View Post
    8 reviews in 2 months and you're not working. Fair play, you're at least having fun
    Yes and meeting wonderful women who deserve praise when its due, been a long time out of the saddle so taking all opportunities to get the practice in.

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