Good bye

[CoolJay]

Love the little misogynistic dig there. Have to be honest Cooljay I always thought there was a vaguely unpleasent undertone to many of your posts.

Well whatever man,i know i didnt mean it to sound like that,i have huge respect for escorts and all the guys here who go see them,i just have to stop.

What i ment by that was the girl who i had seen more that once i know her more than anyother escort,there for i know how she looks after herself,its not like i go around asking escorts do you check youself.

[theqm]

Well the lack of intimacy for one. I'd say most of my enjoyment from meeting an escort comes from the chatting. I've never had much luck with women and certainly have no interest in having a relationship at this point in my life. I just like being fussed over for an hour or so. The amount of stress I have to deal with sometimes is unbearable, but visiting the ladies just dissipates all that. But that is just me so I obviously can't speak for other singletons.

Yep, same here LDM. Its good to spend time with some-one and just be yourself & relax.
My mates who are married/ in relationships generally never stop complaining about it...lol
Makes me glad I'm single

[Lincoln]

Well whatever man,i know i didnt mean it to sound like that,i have huge respect for escorts and all the guys here who go see them,i just have to stop.

What i ment by that was the girl who i had seen more that once i know her more than anyother escort,there for i know how she looks after herself,its not like i go around asking escorts do you check youself.

perhaps i am being far too harsh

[ladiesman217]

Yep, same here LDM. Its good to spend time with some-one and just be yourself & relax.
My mates who are married/ in relationships generally never stop complaining about it...lol
Makes me glad I'm single

Damn straight! It's crazy though, I can actually be myself when I'm with escorts but whenever I'm around people I know I just kinda bottle everything up.

[Ebony Amber]

This is why i have decided that this isnt for me anymore esp that when i have a girlfriend,and lets face it i get to have sex with her and shes gorjus plus i dont need to wear a condom which of course is sooo much better,so for now im just going to be happy with what i have got and im going on holiday in 3 weeks for 10days so im going to soak up some sun and enjoy myself.

Well whatever man,i know i didnt mean it to sound like that,i have huge respect for escorts and all the guys here who go see them,i just have to stop.

What i ment by that was the girl who i had seen more that once i know her more than anyother escort,there for i know how she looks after herself,its not like i go around asking escorts do you check youself.

Well my point is just because you know an escort doesn't mean she gets checked out and just because you don't know one doesn't mean she doesn't get checked out. I just found your point a little silly if I'm honest.
I understand your paranoia but don't let yourself think that just because you know someone that they can't give you an sti. A lot of people contract them from your partners. I know that I as an escort who is very sexually active get checked out a lot more now then I did when I was in a long term relationship.

Anyway, good for you for wanting to stop punting and put more into your relationship. Don't go overboard with trying to be nice to your girlfriend though. In my experience when a man is over the top nice it usually means he is feeling guilty.

Good luck with life etc and take care x

[Rayden]

Bye bye Jay.

[ksteve]

Love the little misogynistic dig there. Have to be honest Cooljay I always thought there was a vaguely unpleasent undertone to many of your posts. No major condemnation here mind, its possible you are a bit oblivious to that sort of thing, some blokes just don't really consider what they are saying. Anyway if you have a relationship you should certainly be trying to preserve it.

I'm too lazy to multiquote but I will also refer briefly to KSteves illuminating contribution: why do single blokes visit escorts.

Unbelieveably condescending and obtuse beyond comprehension. But why am I expressing disbelief, its no more than the usual smug, complacent line of the "relationshiped"

Well to be fair I did intimate that I was being less than serious for the sake of the conversation and yes it is a valid point of discussion I think. I never thought of it from the 'smug ' point of being relationshipped. Where a single guy has good access to available girls socially, why would he not prefer to channel his efforts into non paid, real consensual sex ? I understand that it is a different matter if girls in civvy street are not available to the guy for whatever reason or if they find it very challenging to click with girls they do find very attractive. Perhaps these guys in fact really want to avoid relationships and this is why escorting holds such an attraction.?

[Fitzy]

Best of luck in the future buddy .

[lovethegirls]

Well whatever man,i know i didnt mean it to sound like that,i have huge respect for escorts and all the guys here who go see them,i just have to stop.

What i ment by that was the girl who i had seen more that once i know her more than anyother escort,there for i know how she looks after herself,its not like i go around asking escorts do you check youself.

You back then???