I think I need stop visiting escorts.

[blueforever]

ah heather if he met u he'd never stop

[SupaSteve]

Rehab is for quitters!

[mikemacc]

do what you gotta do man. i dont punt when im not single, but thats just me. if its becoming an issue and you feel you got to stop, then just stop. mind over matter my friend! but that's another valid point in a previous post, this site makes it too easy. personally, now that im unattached again, i cant wait to get one under my belt

[bhoywonder]

i really dont think its a just as simple as mind over matter for some people. if it has slipped in the realm of proper addiction then you are going to have to seek professional help. compulsive behaviour cannot simply be stopped, unless metally you are rock solid, which for most of us mere mortals is not the case. if you are feeling guilty about the hurt you could cause to your family, then you should be. if your wife/partner found out about this then it is probably game over, do you want that to happen? if it is compulsive behaviour then your real problem will be in seeking the help you need. people with obsessive behaviour tend to justify that behaviour to themselves rather than look at their situation from the outside. what you might perceive as harmless fun is probably self destructive behaviour. think about what is important to you in your life, dont be selfish about it. make the right choices.

[sperminater]

Ok friend why do we do it ? Before we go you get that raised hartbeat fear, during you get uphoria, after a big grin a buzz you put up a review to boast to gloat and to inform others of good and bad and the reason we do this is we're men we've got big egos now there's nothing wrong with a big ego it's in our makeup it's containing it and we don't have to on this site cos of animity. Also it's like smoking, speeding it's a habit you get 6 penelys points and you slow down or thak a chance on a windy road, drink is a different story. So how do you stop? Answer why you do it are you not sasitified by wife/ partner etc I bet you when you do have sex it's fantastic and you can lie there after words happy and sleep in the comfort of you own bed (ring a bell anyone ) but like most Irish men that ain't happening for whatever reason stress etc. I'm no fool to know this is the major cause of punting I'm less stressed since I started but all things come to an end so what am I suggesting wait for it. I'm thinking of suggesting that me frustration is going to drive me to see escorts..!! And see how that goes down it might open a whole can of worms but it might wake everyone up to know that men are dogs we need fed pampering and SEX!!!!! If we get at home we would be happy also but if that doesent work ah week we fucked anyway so the choice is yours

[pez]

I too have a partner and have an occasional punt and feel remorse afterwards but I feel its better than having an affair. The possibility of catching an std is an added worry but condom use reduces this and most escort girls have excellent hygine and look after themselves really well.
I'm not the richest in the world but my family don't go without because of the odd meeting with am escort. I probabl will hang up my boots but not yet! I might get out tonight!