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    Right a couple of words from me about private messages.

    It seems that lately a few people have been giving out about lack of replys to private messages. When getting no answer they are sending the same message countless times and in some cases even mentioning it on the boards!

    Private messages are useful. I like to arrange appointments via pm as you get a chance to chat a little to the person, find out about any special requests and hopefully it proves they are genuine. However there are times when I- and other lades are not replying to them.

    I think it needs to be understood that we recieve a seriously high amount of messages on a daily basis. Some from fellow escorts, some from genuine clients and a lot from people just trying to engage in some chat. Now if an escort wants to chat casually to you via pm that is her perogative. But I think it needs to be known that you may not always get a reply. So getting annoyed when you don't is not right. I will always prioritise messages. You want a booking- I will reply to you first. If you want to talk about what the weather is like you will need to wait.

    I know I'm not the only lady that feels like that. And it pisses me off to no end when people have a go at me or not replying to there messages. I feel it is because I'm always on the boards having a laugh it is assumed I am always on line. Well yes I do post a fair bit but trying to reply to a 500 word message isn't the same as just posting a smiley on a thread.

    If I replied to every message I recieved instantly I would bever actually work.

    So. This isn't meant to be a rant. Just a kind reminder that if an escort does not instantly get back to your message it is not her being rude. It is because she has things to be doing. Sending the same message 4 times or having a go at her is not going to make it any better.

    This post isn't intended to scare people away from pming me but hopefully just stop abuse I'm getting for not replying.
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    Amber should you be getting to much hassle from pms let me and I will help sort it out for you .
    What you say in your post I completely agree with you .;
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    I would normally reply to this but I'm too busy answering unsolicited texts from gorgeous girls !
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    Quote Originally Posted by dr love View Post
    Amber should you be getting to much hassle from pms let me and I will help sort it out for you .
    What you say in your post I completely agree with you .;
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    Thanks doc- but not to worry about me. I have no problems with telling these individuals to stop. If it does get to a ridic level I will of course let ya know.

    For now it is more of just a couple of words to those not too familiar with PM Etiquette
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    How rude................. PM on the way

    Well said Amber, can't understand why people use the PM system with escorts for anything but organising a meeting. I think people fail to realise that at the end of the day you are a service provider not a possession. Anyone that takes to the boards to give out about an escort not replying to them needs a kick in the arse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by monster_monster View Post
    How rude................. PM on the way

    Well said Amber, can't understand why people use the PM system with escorts for anything but organising a meeting. I think people fail to realise that at the end of the day you are a service provider not a possession. Anyone that takes to the boards to give out about an escort not replying to them needs a kick in the arse.
    A little bit of banter is fine with me by all means though. It's when you get shit for not replying that annoys me. Apparently I am a "stuck up english c*nt" which is just bloody charming.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EbonyAmber View Post
    A little bit of banter is fine with me by all means though. It's when you get shit for not replying that annoys me. Apparently I am a "stuck up english c*nt" which is just bloody charming.
    What??? I hope you reported him whoever he was. Dirty git!
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    Quote Originally Posted by EbonyAmber View Post
    A little bit of banter is fine with me by all means though. It's when you get shit for not replying that annoys me. Apparently I am a "stuck up english c*nt" which is just bloody charming.
    such fantastic grasp of the english language these people have!!!!! If anything they should have their profiles publicly named and shamed, I hope you let the other girls know who's sending what so that they can be blacklisted by all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EbonyAmber View Post
    A little bit of banter is fine with me by all means though. It's when you get shit for not replying that annoys me. Apparently I am a "stuck up english c*nt" which is just bloody charming.
    You never replied to my PM.

    Do you want the spiderman suit or not..... Ffs

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    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    You never replied to my PM.

    Do you want the spiderman suit or not..... Ffs
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