Watching the clock

[ksteve]

maybe she thought , she was you know with a talker and not a doer, some girls told me that some guys just pay for the company, .....but yea ,the girls do always get right down to it after the initial chit chat, so the girl in question here was soaking up the time to do as little physical activity as possible, this in my experience happens alot during 1hour bookings with girls who have met you for the first time, that is why i always go for the half hour on my first dates so to speak..

To be fair, I am happy to say that this has not been my experience generally . When it does happen, it gives out the wrong signals and has the effect of making the short bookings far more attractive.

[ksteve]

With this arrangement romantic guy should make a booking of 3 h or more longer or overnight(i charge 600 e 11pm-6am) if in case want more relaxing time and not to rush in things.
But if guy wish 1.5 hour appoitment i always organise time and to be time for everything:chat,a drink,shower,going to showing bedroom

Romantic guy !

There is no question of being 'romantic' with an escort. Having said that, I dont see anything wrong with trying to create a nice atmosphere ! Maybe, I will have to re-think this.

[Cable87]

I understand your issue here Steve; not wanting a 'rushed' experience, but then the shock of hearing "10 minutes left" right when the action was about to start? What a disappointment! I can also agree with the essentials of Anna's post though, as it can't be left fully to the lady, as she could face accusations of clock-watching from speeding things up or of 'running out the clock', which it seems is what happened in your situation.

It's a subtle little dance, and a difficult line to tread, for both escort and client. I suppose both parties should try to stay aware of the time, at least discreetly, as there's few things that are more off-putting for me than a lady constantly checking her watch during an apointment! SO at least now you know for next time to keep things moving along-- but to tell you my own honest opinion on this situation, the girl ran out the clock on you, plain and simple.

[Bruno69]

Ok, here goes. Some escorts will allow you spend extra time chatting for 'free' depending on their mood, how you get on and how busy they might be later. The same escort may not feel like this or have time for it on a subsequent visit.

I say never expect any extra time regardless of past experience.

In that case you/me/the client should manage the expectation of how the time will be spent.

In my experience no escort is shy about talking about the commercials so don't be shy about taking the lead in these matters and clarifying everything in advance.

Once everything is agreed, you can both relax and get back in the mood for whatever experience you are paying for.

[wanted the best 69]

Romantic guy !

There is no question of being 'romantic' with an escort. Having said that, I dont see anything wrong with trying to create a nice atmosphere ! Maybe, I will have to re-think this.

no, do not rethink it its part what the fun is in all of this, so enjoy it the trick is to find the right lady who will guide you through the timing better, or go for a longer time ,i have often got for an hour and stayed much longer, the trick is always ask at the beginning is she stuck for time ?ie, next appointment if she says not then let it flow, but i stress ask her at the beginning first,

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Romantic guy !

There is no question of being 'romantic' with an escort. Having said that, I dont see anything wrong with trying to create a nice atmosphere ! Maybe, I will have to re-think this.

But candles,small dinner,wine and nice atmosphere is not romantic ?I thing it is and is nice.So don't re-thing your plan.

[monster_monster]

A guy goes to a lot of trouble on a 1.5 hour outcall to create a great atmosphere -- low lighting,candle, champagne , choccies, music--- you get the picture. He drinks most of the bubbly as she will have to drive back from the outcall. For a variety of reasons the conversation is interesting,great fun and lots of laughing. The time absolutely flies. At some stage the guy thinks its time to take things to the next stage and the glasses are put down and both start to get a bit more intimate but not long after the lady whispers " 10 mins left ". In other words, ten minutes to ' get stuck in and get on with it '. What a bummer, what a deflater.

The guy chooses the length of the booking, pays the fee and is encouraged to relax and ' go with the flow'. However, does the escort, the professional, have a responsibility in the scenario outlined above ( slightly longer booking ), to play her part in the management of that time ? Should she subtelty have upped the tempo in order to ensure that there was a reasonable amount of time for the more fundamental activities of the booking, mindful that she would like to leave a happy client behind ? Any thoughts ?

IMO I think the onus of blame lies with the client in this case. He knew how much time he had, feck all the peripheral stuff (chocs, champers etc.) he was trying to drag out the appointment, the escort has other customers too and may have other bookings to service. Why should she hang round off the clock? If you don't state the reason the girl is there then you can't blame her for trying to have an easy day.

[Army Girl]

I'am not clock watcher but if somebody paid for half h he will get 30 mins I don't think any girls should stay longer for free 10mins whatever I saw last this kind of adv. Is the same like if somebody going for saloon massage not longer after time if u wanna longer pay extra but otherwise If I ve clients regular I can chat no rush. I thinks that's fair

[jayf1]

i think some posters have missed the op's point i dont think he was looking for free time i think he wanted the escort to make the first move sooner rather than 10 - 15 mins from the end of the appointment.
i know i would expect the escort to make the first move 10-15 mins from the start of the appointment and if we finished sooner then have some chat time at the end not almost 1hr and 15 mins of chat then make the first move.

[Cable87]

i think some posters have missed the op's point i dont think he was looking for free time i think he wanted the escort to make the first move sooner rather than 10 - 15 mins from the end of the appointment.
i know i would expect the escort to make the first move 10-15 mins from the start of the appointment and if we finished sooner then have some chat time at the end not almost 1hr and 15 mins of chat then make the first move.

Spot-on assessment Jayf1, I'd say that's exactly the issue at hand. Having the lady initiate things is a central part of the fun for me, and I'm sure loads of other punters love it when the lady takes the inititive in that regard! While some criticism might be levelled at the punter in these circumstances, as he wanted to have some conversation in the beginning and didn't want to be too rushed to get into it, I still hold that the lady in question simply ran out the clock on him, and that he drank most of the bottle of champagne in front of her and still she didn nothing until he finally made the first move is case-in-point.