Guide for single men.

[ThomasJ]

A good friend of mine sent me this - my peer group have begun to despair as I am 46 and single.

You have to get out of your comfort zone if you want to succeed in game. If you allow fear to run your life you will never get good.

Your physical appearance matters… but not even CLOSE to as much as you think. You need to look the best you can with the body you have, if you don’t like you she won’t either.

Don’t take anything personally. If you take rejection personally you will stop trying. Believe me these girls are just as fucked up as you a lot of times. Stop taking shit personally

Don’t assume anything negative. If you assume she hates you, you will freeze up, stop doing this.

Grow BALLS…. Stop crying about a blow out, stop sitting for hours hoping to find the perfect line and go try shit. Advice is useless unless you do something with it. You don’t need to read more you need to try more.

Women like nice guys… They DON”T like WEAK GUYS. This doesn’t mean break out the Ed hardy shit and pump iron it means set boundaries for acceptable behavior and don’t let her walk all over you, but don’t treat her like a slave… unless she wants that…

Creepy is the worst word in a girls vocabulary, learn NOT to be it.. If you are called it, game is over.

Don’t be afraid of girl friends… Friends who are girls?!?! Yup, they can teach you a lot about how women react.. Stop trying to fuck everything that moves and learn from people

To win the game you have to be willing to lose the game… Most people play safe and bet small so when they lose it doesn’t hurt. Stop that BS and start putting yourself out there and taking risks. If you don’t go for the things that make you uncomfortable you will always be a pussy.

Self Confidence matters more then you know…If you don’t believe in you she won’t either and it will cause you to suck at everything you do. Fix this.. It’s more important than pussy.

[warmcome]

a lot of good points there Thomas. the main thing that
annoys me about women is there inability to show interest.

a female friend told me when she likes a guy, she will be extra standoffish
when around him? it can be difficult to know 'how things lie'.

girls command perhaps too much attention 17-27, but they should
bare in mind that it will change after this.

[ThomasJ]

a lot of good points there Thomas. the main thing that
annoys me about women is there inability to show interest.

a female friend told me when she likes a guy, she will be extra standoffish
when around him? it can be difficult to know 'how things lie'.

girls command perhaps too much attention 17-27, but they should
bare in mind that it will change after this.

The whole thing just confuses the hell out of me - case in point

I met this great girl a while back and we seemed to hit it off, each time I met her we had a great time and I was really into her. Well I must be some fool because I obviously misread the signals as I got the dreaded line “let’s be friends”.

It got worse because recently she asked to meet and again I thought that we were getting on great – at the end of what I thought was a nice time she turned to me and said that she was just using me – bloody hell I felt like a piece of …….. Well you can imagine.

I am no angel but I would never treat anyone like that. So now I have retreated to lick my wounds.

[dr love]

Thank feck I'm out of the singles game .: doc

[Doozer]

Thank feck I'm out of the singles game .: doc

Unless she catches you on here Doc lol

[ksteve]

a lot of good points there Thomas. the main thing that
annoys me about women is there inability to show interest.
a female friend told me when she likes a guy, she will be extra standoffish
when around him? it can be difficult to know 'how things lie'.

girls command perhaps too much attention 17-27, but they should
bare in mind that it will change after this.

Dont agree, sorry. I think guys like to think this sometimes. If a woman is really into you , she will find a way to get to you,dont worry !

[ksteve]

A good friend of mine sent me this - my peer group have begun to despair as I am 46 and single.

You have to get out of your comfort zone if you want to succeed in game. If you allow fear to run your life you will never get good.

Your physical appearance matters… but not even CLOSE to as much as you think. You need to look the best you can with the body you have, if you don’t like you she won’t either.

Don’t take anything personally. If you take rejection personally you will stop trying. Believe me these girls are just as fucked up as you a lot of times. Stop taking shit personally

Don’t assume anything negative. If you assume she hates you, you will freeze up, stop doing this.

Grow BALLS…. Stop crying about a blow out, stop sitting for hours hoping to find the perfect line and go try shit. Advice is useless unless you do something with it. You don’t need to read more you need to try more.

Women like nice guys… They DON”T like WEAK GUYS. This doesn’t mean break out the Ed hardy shit and pump iron it means set boundaries for acceptable behavior and don’t let her walk all over you, but don’t treat her like a slave… unless she wants that…

Creepy is the worst word in a girls vocabulary, learn NOT to be it.. If you are called it, game is over.

Don’t be afraid of girl friends… Friends who are girls?!?! Yup, they can teach you a lot about how women react.. Stop trying to fuck everything that moves and learn from people

To win the game you have to be willing to lose the game… Most people play safe and bet small so when they lose it doesn’t hurt. Stop that BS and start putting yourself out there and taking risks. If you don’t go for the things that make you uncomfortable you will always be a pussy.

Self Confidence matters more then you know…If you don’t believe in you she won’t either and it will cause you to suck at everything you do. Fix this.. It’s more important than pussy.

Yes. Confidence, confidence is key and of course more than a bit of cash helps !!

[ksteve]

girls command perhaps too much attention 17-27, but they should
bare in mind that it will change after this.

Ouch !! That would make a lot of girls 'standoffish' !!

[Fitzy]

Thank feck I'm out of the singles game .: doc

Lucky you doc it's a bloody minefield .

[dr love]

Unless she catches you on here Doc lol

If I was doozer it's surgery I'd want or an undertaker .: lol doc