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    I have been pondering over this for a while now but I really feel this forum has lost some of its fundamental essences because we are afraid of how we are perceived by the ladies that interact on these boards and hold back what we really want to say, especially in certain areas.
    Several times now I have read threads asking for advice on ladies that I know have sketchy histories yet I am unwilling to share because of the wraith I received in the past for doing so. Surely we cannot afford to lose one major aspect of this forum and that is to alert/advise/warn each other of potential problems in seeing certain escorts for fear other ladies will gang up on us saying a ladies past should be private and she has changed her ways, do they feel the same about a bad client when he is added to the ugly mugs section, is he afforded the same luxury of having his past erased for good behaviour, I donít think so..
    Surely they can see why we as clients would wish to advise each other and not see it purely through escortís eyes and protect each other; I would like to share more than I do but in this current climate on the boards I canít, I miss the likes of Bigpaws that werenít afraid to call a spade a spade, maybe we all should start to look at the way we threat other clients without worrying how it will affect our credibility with certain ladies.
    Iím not saying we should disrespect ladies in any way, on the contrary they should always be afforded the utmost courtesy and if provoked avoid lowering yourself to their level but at the same time we should also try to be honest with our fellow clients.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anon361 View Post
    I have been pondering over this for a while now but I really feel this forum has lost some of its fundamental essences because we are afraid of how we are perceived by the ladies that interact on these boards and hold back what we really want to say, especially in certain areas.
    Several times now I have read threads asking for advice on ladies that I know have sketchy histories yet I am unwilling to share because of the wraith I received in the past for doing so. Surely we cannot afford to lose one major aspect of this forum and that is to alert/advise/warn each other of potential problems in seeing certain escorts for fear other ladies will gang up on us saying a ladies past should be private and she has changed her ways, do they feel the same about a bad client when he is added to the ugly mugs section, is he afforded the same luxury of having his past erased for good behaviour, I don’t think so..
    Surely they can see why we as clients would wish to advise each other and not see it purely through escort’s eyes and protect each other; I would like to share more than I do but in this current climate on the boards I can’t, I miss the likes of Bigpaws that weren’t afraid to call a spade a spade, maybe we all should start to look at the way we threat other clients without worrying how it will affect our credibility with certain ladies.
    I’m not saying we should disrespect ladies in any way, on the contrary they should always be afforded the utmost courtesy and if provoked avoid lowering yourself to their level but at the same time we should also try to be honest with our fellow clients.
    That is quite true in parts. You should be able to speak freely, its your forum too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by anon361 View Post
    I have been pondering over this for a while now but I really feel this forum has lost some of its fundamental essences because we are afraid of how we are perceived by the ladies that interact on these boards and hold back what we really want to say, especially in certain areas.
    Several times now I have read threads asking for advice on ladies that I know have sketchy histories yet I am unwilling to share because of the wraith I received in the past for doing so. Surely we cannot afford to lose one major aspect of this forum and that is to alert/advise/warn each other of potential problems in seeing certain escorts for fear other ladies will gang up on us saying a ladies past should be private and she has changed her ways, do they feel the same about a bad client when he is added to the ugly mugs section, is he afforded the same luxury of having his past erased for good behaviour, I donít think so..
    Surely they can see why we as clients would wish to advise each other and not see it purely through escortís eyes and protect each other; I would like to share more than I do but in this current climate on the boards I canít, I miss the likes of Bigpaws that werenít afraid to call a spade a spade, maybe we all should start to look at the way we threat other clients without worrying how it will affect our credibility with certain ladies.
    Iím not saying we should disrespect ladies in any way, on the contrary they should always be afforded the utmost courtesy and if provoked avoid lowering yourself to their level but at the same time we should also try to be honest with our fellow clients
    If you've had a bad experience with and escort, and someone posts asking about her, then of course you should share your experience, politely if possible. Don't worry about the response. If you know someone else has had a bad experience, which has been mentioned on the boards, then it's best to give a link rather than a summary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by El Gordo View Post
    If you've had a bad experience with and escort, and someone posts asking about her, then of course you should share your experience, politely if possible. Don't worry about the response. If you know someone else has had a bad experience, which has been mentioned on the boards, then it's best to give a link rather than a summary.
    Ok, done that on another thread, lets see the reaction..

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    Quote Originally Posted by El Gordo View Post
    If you've had a bad experience with and escort, and someone posts asking about her, then of course you should share your experience, politely if possible. Don't worry about the response. If you know someone else has had a bad experience, which has been mentioned on the boards, then it's best to give a link rather than a summary.
    You're preaching to the choir ElGordo but there's very little sharing and an awful lot of ass licking of late..

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    wow where is big paws ? these days ?

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    I get a good few PMs from dudes asking about various escorts I have been with and I like to think I am straight up with my responses.

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    I really believe that both clients and escorts shall be fair and honest about each other when it's about recommending,and give all the positive and/or negative reasons about their opinion and recommendation..


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    Quote Originally Posted by anon361 View Post
    I have been pondering over this for a while now but I really feel this forum has lost some of its fundamental essences because we are afraid of how we are perceived by the ladies that interact on these boards and hold back what we really want to say, especially in certain areas.

    Yep I'd agree with that Anon and i'd extend your point to practically all escort industry related threads, not just the ones concerning advice/warning about certain escorts.
    Maybe i'm wrong but it seems to me there're many posters now overly concerned with saying what they think others want to hear, rather than what they really believe. I think it's not only board-escorts perception they're concerned about but also fellow posters. Compared to even 6 months ago there seems to be far fewer people willing to go against the grain, and as you said call a spade a spade if they think it'll be an unpopular move. I also think this is a big reason why the boards have gone fairly flat and stagnant over the last month or so.
    Anyway.. that's deviating from your OP, just my 2 cents.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ChiefHandker View Post
    Yep I'd agree with that Anon and i'd extend your point to practically all escort industry related threads, not just the ones concerning advice/warning about certain escorts.
    Maybe i'm wrong but it seems to me there're many posters now overly concerned with saying what they think others want to hear, rather than what they really believe. I think it's not only board-escorts perception they're concerned about but also fellow posters. Compared to even 6 months ago there seems to be far fewer people willing to go against the grain, and as you said call a spade a spade if they think it'll be an unpopular move. I also think this is a big reason why the boards have gone fairly flat and stagnant over the last month or so.
    Anyway.. that's deviating from your OP, just my 2 cents.
    Yes, I agree with that too. Unfortunately.
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