Tonight is the "perfect date"...

[ciara]

Rodders :"This is my friend Ciara, yes she is gorgeous and yes she does normally give me a BJ under the table when we meet up for dinner" uummm plausible

only when theres a floor legth table cloth on the table so choose the restaurant carefully pmsl

[ksteve]

KidCool has a point though.

I went on a dinner date with a client in Belgium once. He was over 3 times my age, swedish origin and wore rather funny purple suits. I was 18, the only black girl in the restaurant and wearing a very high pair of heels at his request. I was a good 3 inches talle than him- an interesting sight.

We bumped into a friend of his and his friends partner at the restaurant and they insisted we joined them. Very awkward. At the top of my head I said I worked for his company when questioned as to how we knew each other.

He turned out to be a fecking marine biologist

Thats a great story EA !!

I take my hat off to you. If I had been in your position I would not have been so co-operative. He should have made sure that you were not put into that situation. Thats his fault.Otherwise, if that was a possibility the two of you could have prepared your story. Well done for keeping calm in the circumstances.

[Rodney69]

In my head?? haha

Your in denial buddy!! Again if any of us had friends that looked like either of these ladies or many others on E-I... We wouldn't be here!!

I'm being realistic about it..if i was walking through town with one of the ladies on here and was stopped by a friend it opens up a can of worms, how do you know each other? how did u meet? is this your first date? etc etc etc!!!

To me dates are just asking for trouble...don't mind parting with a reasonable amount of cash but paying for dinner dates and over night stays is too much in my opinion!!

Each to their own I guess but longer appointments / dinner dates etc would not be my thing!!

Agree it is not something you would want to do every time, but the risk adds to the thrill.

I'm sure you've had the pleasure of spending time with good looking women in a social sense,not necessarily getting BJs under the table. In work there's this gorgeous romanian girl. I've had lunch and drinks with her, no funny business. she's married. just friends. I bet the rest of pub weren't thinking she's an escort.

[ksteve]

i like a mix of longer apointments and quick ones

quick ones are easier in the sense of the wham bam thank you mam so its a bit more impersonal

longer ones u really get to know the others personality and well let ur guard down a lot more, but theres only so many times u can do this and with so many ppl... thats why a mix of both are good, for me anyway!!

and to hobbyist jealous of the lucky lady xxxx

Good post !

Being 'stuck' with an eejit on a long dinner date or an overnighter must be the pits, no matter what the money !

[kidkool]

Agree it is not something you would want to do every time, but the risk adds to the thrill.

I'm sure you've had the pleasure of spending time with good looking women in a social sense,not necessarily getting BJs under the table. In work there's this gorgeous romanian girl. I've had lunch and drinks with her, no funny business. she's married. just friends. I bet the rest of pub weren't thinking she's an escort.

All depends, no offence as I don't know you but think of Ambers story... he was hardly a looker I'm sure and 3 times her age!!
In your example your both around same age and most people didnt think much of it other than your a couple maybe... or thinking how the fuck did he get her haha

Every time I read of a review or a post of a guy spending a night with a lady on here I think its foolish for so many different reasons!!! Just my own opinion...others love it that way suppose...

[Ebony Amber]

In my head?? haha

Your in denial buddy!! Again if any of us had friends that looked like either of these ladies or many others on E-I... We wouldn't be here!!

I'm being realistic about it..if i was walking through town with one of the ladies on here and was stopped by a friend it opens up a can of worms, how do you know each other? how did u meet? is this your first date? etc etc etc!!!

To me dates are just asking for trouble...don't mind parting with a reasonable amount of cash but paying for dinner dates and over night stays is too much in my opinion!!

Each to their own I guess but longer appointments / dinner dates etc would not be my thing!!

KidKool I don't think that is true. I may look a bit of alright when dolled up in my stockings and what have you but to my mates I'm just me. One of my friends is a 25 year old decent looking guy who visits escorts. I think having a hot friend isn't going to stop you from visiting escorts. Having a hot friend who is prepared to shag your brains out is.
Dinner dates and longer appointments are obviously not for everyone.

Thanks Amber... I think what were both trying to say is....


Can.... WORMS.... EVERYWHERE!!!!!


Awkward moments...Indeed!!!!!

Not always. This was one particular time where things went a bit pair shaped. I have been on many other outings with clients without hiccup.

Y'see the zing-the-back-of-yer-balls detail there is the "I was 18 and escorting in Belgium..."

Bloomin heck...what a prospect

Thats a great story EA !!

I take my hat off to you. If I had been in your position I would not have been so co-operative. He should have made sure that you were not put into that situation. Thats his fault.Otherwise, if that was a possibility the two of you could have prepared your story. Well done for keeping calm in the circumstances.

Exactly. He was not very smart- taking me to the place that his friends frequent. Not providing me with much of his backround info etc. This was a job I was sent on via an agency and had never previously met or spoken to the client before. Nowdays as an indie I work differently. I will never commit to a DD or longer appointment if I haven't had previous posative communication with a person. I won't even do outcalls without a reference. This is to ensure I am happy spending long hours with someone. It is not everyone I want to be with for 3 hours- money or not.

[Rodney69]

KidKool I don't think that is true. I may look a bit of alright when dolled up in my stockings and what have you but to my mates I'm just me. One of my friends is a 25 year old decent looking guy who visits escorts. I think having a hot friend isn't going to stop you from visiting escorts. Having a hot friend who is prepared to shag your brains out is.
Dinner dates and longer appointments are obviously not for everyone.



Not always. This was one particular time where things went a bit pair shaped. I have been on many other outings with clients without hiccup.





Exactly. He was not very smart- taking me to the place that his friends frequent. Not providing me with much of his backround info etc. This was a job I was sent on via an agency and had never previously met or spoken to the client before. Nowdays as an indie I work differently. I will never commit to a DD or longer appointment if I haven't had previous posative communication with a person. I won't even do outcalls without a reference. This is to ensure I am happy spending long hours with someone. It is not everyone I want to be with for 3 hours- money or not.

good points Amber, for it to work, both parties need to comfortable with it, not just the client. You should know each other and be comfortable with each other. Also good to have a story in case you do bump into someone

[Ebony Amber]

All depends, no offence as I don't know you but think of Ambers story... he was hardly a looker I'm sure and 3 times her age!!
In your example your both around same age and most people didnt think much of it other than your a couple maybe... or thinking how the fuck did he get her haha

Every time I read of a review or a post of a guy spending a night with a lady on here I think its foolish for so many different reasons!!! Just my own opinion...others love it that way suppose...

Also bear in mind the fact that I was dressed like a D&G sales rep with a side job at Venus' go go bar. I wasn't very subtle but I think that was part of it for him. He wanted people to turn and look. As for me I didn't care. He was a nice guy, paying me well and I don't know anybody in Belgium!
Normally when dressing for an outing with a client I am a lot more demure and subtle with being sexy. I am young but a bit of make up and the fact that I am able to hold a good conversation helps.

As for you think it is foolish- that is your opinion of course. I personally think it is lovely. The fact that there is no rush. The anticipation at dinner when all you can think about is dessert. The cab ride back And of course the waking up in the morning. What is not to love about morning sex!?!

[kidkool]

[QUOTE=EbonyAmber;459759]KidKool I don't think that is true. I may look a bit of alright when dolled up in my stockings and what have you but to my mates I'm just me. One of my friends is a 25 year old decent looking guy who visits escorts. I think having a hot friend isn't going to stop you from visiting escorts. Having a hot friend who is prepared to shag your brains out is.
Dinner dates and longer appointments are obviously not for everyone.


When i say that if he had hot friends like some of the ladies on here, he would no doubt try his luck with them and law of averages he will be succesful!

I am not trying to tar all longer appointments with the same brush but over all I do think they are a very bad idea!! Anything from the overall cost of the meet up, which I think is an insane amount of money to be spending on one night for one lady...

If were honest about it, the clients meet the ladies on here primarly for sexual pleasure and the add ons Im sure are nice and you build up a rapport etc which could also lead to you falling for the lady in question... or vice versa!!

[kidkool]

As for you think it is foolish- that is your opinion of course. I personally think it is lovely. The fact that there is no rush. The anticipation at dinner when all you can think about is dessert. The cab ride back And of course the waking up in the morning. What is not to love about morning sex!?!

Of course you would love it.. you were just paid €1k for one night of having sex, had dinner and drinks bought for you!!

Who wouldnt like that?!