Respect???????

[johnycash26]

Before anyone starts i am not a troll and i am not trying to stir up trouble im just looking for ordinary decent opinions.
I am a happily married man to a wonderful woman and enjoy a good sex life with my wife. I frequent escorts occasionaly just to have something different a bit of variety if you like.
The question i am asking for your opinions on is i suppose is it fair to her am i demeaning my marriage and my love for her.
i do know that i love her very much and i suppose if it was the other way around i know it would destroy me if she was cheating on me regularly.
What are your opinions sorry to break anybodys mood but id love some opinions and thoughts on this from both punters and escorts

[n73]

And the guilt kicks in like a big old mule being attacked by a wild dog !!!

[johnycash26]

And the guilt kicks in like a big old mule being attacked by a wild dog !!!

Its not really a case of guilt mate its just the aspect of the reason behind doing it that i cant figure out

[n73]

Its not really a case of guilt mate its just the aspect of the reason behind doing it that i cant figure out

Quite simple mate,
1) variety is the spice etc. etc.
2) you have testicles !

[dr love]

Married a long time , punting a long time, always looked on it as a bit of fun with beautiful women .
Never cossed my mind as cheating .If that's what it has become to you time to take a break .: doc

[johnycash26]

Married a long time , punting a long time, always looked on it as a bit of fun with beautiful women .
Never cossed my mind as cheating .If that's what it has become to you time to take a break .: doc

Thats a very good statement and thank you very much for your reply it sums up a littlt how i feel and i dont think i need to take that break lol

[dr love]

Thats a very good statement and thank you very much for your reply it sums up a littlt how i feel and i dont think i need to take that break lol

Fair play , you are probably wondering with the good sex life at home why you see escorts ,we are but simple men , when you start to bring the guilt home with you ,well that is entirely different .: doc

[timdog]

I don't know what percentages of guys on here are married, but I'd guess in the majority, but it is a fair point, and one which I think was covered well by another poster a few days ago in this thread: https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...t=63956&page=2

"i love my wife more than anything else on this planet,i never met anyone as kind hearted or good looking and i do feel guilty the very very odd time i meet an escort but the way i see it,if my wife cant deep throat and wont take it up the ass,or even let me cum inside her mouth. . -I mean we only live life once and its something i just have to get out of my system every once in a while. . . In every other way possible i treat her as best i can. I have a fault and no ones perfect?

The answer to your question is yes, it does demean a marriage, breaks the contract that you both entered into (presuming you both claim to be monogamous). Does it diminish your love, no I feel the emotional connection that I have with my wife as a result of our combined experiences with each other do not diminish because I like to have random girls give me blowjobs.

But good topic and I think it's interesting to see what reaction comes to the post.

[Forrest]

Before anyone starts i am not a troll and i am not trying to stir up trouble im just looking for ordinary decent opinions.
I am a happily married man to a wonderful woman and enjoy a good sex life with my wife. I frequent escorts occasionaly just to have something different a bit of variety if you like.
The question i am asking for your opinions on is i suppose is it fair to her am i demeaning my marriage and my love for her.
i do know that i love her very much and i suppose if it was the other way around i know it would destroy me if she was cheating on me regularly.
What are your opinions sorry to break anybodys mood but id love some opinions and thoughts on this from both punters and escorts

Whatever way we try to look at it, it is cheating. I have said it before, and I'm not being critical of them, but I cannot understand those guys that visit escorts when they have a good sexual relationship at home.
I only started visiting escorts several years after my home sex life disappeared and I would stop if things changed at home, but that is highly unlikely. Either way, it is demeaning to the marriage, and my love has dissipated over time, but it has kept me sane.

[TheCelticDream]

Im not judging a married man seeing escorts but its is ridicules to say that it is not cheating, if u are married and seeing escorts u could at least man up instead of giving some half hearted excuse that the women u actually love is ur wife and escorts are just for sex.