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    Quote Originally Posted by Violette View Post
    You are not technically cheating. Cheating would involve forming a new relationship and forming emotional bonds, which can lead to the breaking up of your marriage. Visiting an escort for an hours of fun and returning home to your wife a happier and better husband is over all a good thing for everyone. I personally am in a relationship-well three to be exact-and I can tell you I as a woman like the variety of dealing with different personalities. But I am not a typical female.
    Viollete that really is rubbish!!

    If you are in a committed relationship or married and you have sex with another woman other than your partner without their knowledge or consent...It is cheating!!! Full stop!!! It's not up for debate..it can't be argued..It is...What it is!!!

    Swinging on the other hand is different as it is mutual and consenting...both are there and getting sexual pleasure with the knowledge and consent of their partner!!!

    Me..I'm single so I don't have to worry about this, also... I can honestly say I have never cheated!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheCelticDream View Post
    Im not judging a married man seeing escorts but its is ridicules to say that it is not cheating, if u are married and seeing escorts u could at least man up instead of giving some half hearted excuse that the women u actually love is ur wife and escorts are just for sex.
    +1

    I think it's better than the other option, leaving your wife for another woman.

    I'm single (22 years old) and never seen an escort before so I'm a bit jealous tbh


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    Quote Originally Posted by akasomeoneelse View Post
    +1

    I think it's better than the other option, leaving your wife for another woman.

    I'm single (22 years old) and never seen an escort before so I'm a bit jealous tbh


    How come AKA? Just curious... I'm sure you have good reason..

    Go enjoy yourself, your young and single...go for it I say!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kidkool View Post
    How come AKA? Just curious... I'm sure you have good reason..

    Go enjoy yourself, your young and single...go for it I say!!!
    I will, the biggest problem is who do I go for? So many to choose from and so little money

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    Such a quandary... at what point do the decisions made by the little head undermine the commitments that you've made with your heart and the big head?

    It's ultimately your own decision where you're going to delineate between the black and white... and how subtle your shades of grey are going to be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by akasomeoneelse View Post
    I will, the biggest problem is who do I go for? So many to choose from and so little money
    thats reality for most of us man!

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    My stance is if you engage in sexual relations with someone other than your partner it is cheating. Unless however your partner is fine with it- then it is an open relationship.

    The morals I won't go into to deeply as it is long and complicated but the simplest way I can put my opinion is this.
    If your partner found out what you were doing would it upset them? If yes then what you are doing is not very nice. But if it is going to happen I think it is better to go and have a casual meeting with an escort where discretion is normally assured than indulge in a full blown emotional affair. As cynical as this sounds- men are men. The majority of them cheat. And so do women!
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    Quote Originally Posted by kelso View Post
    thats reality for most of us man!
    I suppose it would be worse if ye had money and nobody to see lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnycash26 View Post
    Before anyone starts i am not a troll and i am not trying to stir up trouble im just looking for ordinary decent opinions.
    I am a happily married man to a wonderful woman and enjoy a good sex life with my wife. I frequent escorts occasionaly just to have something different a bit of variety if you like.
    The question i am asking for your opinions on is i suppose is it fair to her am i demeaning my marriage and my love for her.
    i do know that i love her very much and i suppose if it was the other way around i know it would destroy me if she was cheating on me regularly.
    What are your opinions sorry to break anybodys mood but id love some opinions and thoughts on this from both punters and escorts
    Wow, this stuff never ceases to amaze me. Why in the name of God get married if you are still going to want to have loads of casual sex. Why bother getting married??? Why not live the free and single life and when you are tired of that THEN get married.

    You are betraying your wifes trust. I don't doubt that you love and worship her but come on.

    I'm single I am hurting no one and so in this instance I do get to be a little bit judgemental. The predominant reason for this is because of the amount of patronising condescension I get from a lot of married blokes I know because I am single.

    Yeah I'm single but I ain't a hypocrite.

    That being said, I havent walked in anyone else's shoes so believe me when I say I am not judging too harshly. I do have large amounts of respect for most folks.
    Bada Bing!!!

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    Thank funk I am not in a relationship. Meet all the escorts I can guilt free.

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