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    Default Are u married/in a serious relationship and do u feel guilty?

    I'm not gonna make any excuses, I gave up trying to justify alot of my actions a long time ago. TBH, I just got bored! No matter who I was with even when I was in Love, I just get bored having sex with the same person. I used to meet other women when I was out without my OH and I'd have these clandestine meetings but it was such hard work, time consuming and bloody expensive bringing a mistress out, paying for hotels etc. The sneaking around was also hard to manage so now I visit escorts. In and out, come and go as I please and don't have to fork out for a hotel room. There's also no danger of a disgruntled mistress threatening to tell the OH.

    I'm not naieve enough to think that I'm the only one. Curious to know other peoples experiences, did you feel guilty or do you still feel guilty, how long into ur relationship before you started to wander?
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    Heck! I'm not even married or in a relationship and I already feel guilty!!! (Nothing like good all Catholic guilt!!)

    It will be interesting to see what the attached men among you say?
    "Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"

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    I was seeing escorts long before meeting my OH so now have cut down to 2 or 3 times a year.

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    I fuckin hate reporters !! Piss off !!!

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    Here's something that might minimize the guilt feeling
    According to some scientific researches, the only specie that don't commit adultery is flatworms...so the rest are genetically programmed to cheat

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lisa007 View Post
    Here's something that might minimize the guilt feeling
    According to some scientific researches, the only specie that don't commit adultery is flatworms...so the rest are genetically programmed to cheat
    By god eh.... That is a staggeringly useful fact that I'm sure has helped a lot here. I feel quite more comfortable with myself after reading that. Fair play to ya Lisa. I bet you were awake in school. ..... Lol.

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    I was never particularly good and being faithful albeit that I managed it for 5 years after getting married (mainly I'd say because a fuck buddy i had for couple of years got engaged at the same time I did!),

    The first straying (after marriage) was a casual encounter all cards on the table.... availing of escort services came afterwards when I realised it was possible to have the random encounters which were much more convenient than hoping to get hit on when out the very odd time with the lads!

    I was guilty the first time I did the dirt, soon got over it.... so many fish in the sea...

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    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    By god eh.... That is a staggeringly useful fact that I'm sure has helped a lot here. I feel quite more comfortable with myself after reading that. Fair play to ya Lisa. I bet you were awake in school. ..... Lol.
    I'm glad i can help ...yeah,i was pretty awake in school,specially at biology classes :P

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    I have been seeing a girl now for 2years,i do feel alittle quilty but i know i wont cheat on her when were married,ill always still feel single untill im married.
    Last edited by CoolJay; 20-04-11 at 11:55.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lisa007 View Post
    I'm glad i can help ...yeah,i was pretty awake in school,specially at biology classes :P
    I'd say the boys in your class were awake too......

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