I'm not gonna make any excuses, I gave up trying to justify alot of my actions a long time ago. TBH, I just got bored! No matter who I was with even when I was in Love, I just get bored having sex with the same person. I used to meet other women when I was out without my OH and I'd have these clandestine meetings but it was such hard work, time consuming and bloody expensive bringing a mistress out, paying for hotels etc. The sneaking around was also hard to manage so now I visit escorts. In and out, come and go as I please and don't have to fork out for a hotel room. There's also no danger of a disgruntled mistress threatening to tell the OH.
I'm not naieve enough to think that I'm the only one. Curious to know other peoples experiences, did you feel guilty or do you still feel guilty, how long into ur relationship before you started to wander?