How many suffer from anxiety during meeting with an escort?

[69patrick69]

you know ..its the encounter ,..the date i like ,the ejaculation lasts a mere second its the quality of the hour or half that counts..if its all about cuming...then your missing the point,..you would be better off wanking alone to a pic off halle berry

I totally agree with you on that Ric. The climax is not as important as the overall experience. It's never been important to me but, as KSteve says, some ladies don't consider their job to be complete, if the client doesn't cum.

As to the op, there are a lot more malfunctions by clients than would be readily admitted.
It has happened to me on occasion but I still enjoyed the company of a beautiful lady, so no biggie(excuse the pun)
The important thing is to just relax and enjoy yourself and let it all happen in it's own good time.

i agree. its not all about the climax
its the quality of the time spent together

[captivated]

Yip, that's me! I have failed to climax and keep an erection on a number of occassions. Never happens with my wife, never happens with porn. I just don't get it. Would be keen for some advice.

Me too. You are not alone. It can be very disheartening sometimes. On my own I am fine but put me in certain situations with an escort and it is a different scenario.

[DaithiMac]

we are none of us machines lads, tiredness, stress etc affect us......if ur nervous u can get distracted.....just b sure to realise ur certainly not the only fellow this has happened to. If u can climax/maintain on ur own then its basically ur mood etc...if u cant on ur own u may have a medical issue and should go to ur doc.
so go easy on urself.......chalk it down!
Daithi

[Monkeynut]

Ladies .... help here .... contribute please

[lbb2010]

Ladies .... help here .... contribute please

Would be interesting to hear. I have only been with one Escort who didn't lay the towel on the bed before the session began, she was amazing, totally natural, real lover experience but it still didn't work for me. I guess it's the whole implausible scenario that I find myself in, it isn't believable. What I mean is within seconds of meeting a stranger she is letting you do whatever to her, she is young, beautiful and sexy. In the real world this would never happen.
How do, guys, deal with that? If you go down the line of I know why I am in this position is because I paid for it then it's mechanical. If I forget about the payment, for me, the whole thing doesnt add up and a think then flop!

[kelso]

Would be interesting to hear. I have only been with one Escort who didn't lay the towel on the bed before the session began, she was amazing, totally natural, real lover experience but it still didn't work for me. I guess it's the whole implausible scenario that I find myself in, it isn't believable. What I mean is within seconds of meeting a stranger she is letting you do whatever to her, she is young, beautiful and sexy. In the real world this would never happen.
How do, guys, deal with that? If you go down the line of I know why I am in this position is because I paid for it then it's mechanical. If I forget about the payment, for me, the whole thing doesnt add up and a think then flop!

man you are analysing this too much imo
for most gyus this fantasy element eg a sexy younger girl sleeping with an older guy is a major turn on?
of course its unreal but its only an hour long fantasy?
diff strokes for diff folks i guess!

[Mousey]

I was absolutely terrified for my first few appointments and paid the droopy penalty. When you read scare stories about guards raiding apartments or pimps staking out places to photograph clients, you'd be forgiven for not being a nervous wreck everu minute of every appointment.

It gets a bit better, though, with experience. More you do it and all that.

[Forrest]

How do, guys, deal with that? If you go down the line of I know why I am in this position is because I paid for it then it's mechanical. If I forget about the payment, for me, the whole thing doesnt add up and a think then flop!

Just be thankful that you have the opportunity to have a relaxing encounter with a hot, sexy younger lady.
With the top class escorts, there's absolutely nothing mechanical about it.
It's a professional, yet very personal, service where you enter a dream world and enjoy a bit of escapism for an hour or two or three.
As Kelso says, don't over analyse, and just be happy as long as it continues.