this was probably done before(like every other thread bar my ones!) but on 2 occasions I've got pm's from 'ladies' saying Hi sending pm's regularly kinda saying after a while When are we gonna meet? tell u this much I'd be the first to say I'd love to meet someone for a r/ship etc but it dont half play on my mind that this could be genuine & I could be missing out on something/someone very nice by not meeting then again I won't ever meet them as life is such that I feel this is a set up or something ungenuine I'm certainly not a naive sort What do u think about meeting a faceless username?...