I hate to admit this (and its a generalisation )but I am sometimes put off an escort who has a lot of reviews. I sometimes think (wrongly I know) that because she is popular, that time might be limited,might be hard to get in contact with and just too busy.
I know this is how the business works, but I don't like to think of myself as a client on some type of conveyor belt (crude analogy)
one guy out another guy in. You can't blame the escort, whose star might not burn so brightly indefinetly, why should she turn down work ?
I think the 'feeding frenzy' mentioned by the OP tends to happen to escorts who appear on the scene and tend to stand out in some way,I can think of a couple of examples of must see girls recently. I assume the more established girls have a more regular client base and therefore can be a bit more selective.
Come in she said "I'll give you shelter from the storm "