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    Default A victim of their own success ?

    I have seen posts and reviews made where it seems that business success for an escort can also have a downside. Sometimes it seems to me that a lady will become so popular for a time that it smacks of a feeding frenzy.

    Guys complain that they dont get responses to calls,texts , pms etc from the girls,that the girls are tired or mechanical at the booking. The ladies complain that they cant be all things to all men all of the time and need time and space and understanding.

    Could it be that some fault for this lies with these ladies themselves as perhaps they are trying too hard to capitalize on their own success in a relatively short space of time and/or can the guys be faulted for allowing themselves to get too hot under the collar and all chasing bookings like sheep with the same ladies around the same time ?

    Any thoughts ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ksteve View Post
    I have seen posts and reviews made where it seems that business success for an escort can also have a downside. Sometimes it seems to me that a lady will become so popular for a time that it smacks of a feeding frenzy.

    Guys complain that they dont get responses to calls,texts , pms etc from the girls,that the girls are tired or mechanical at the booking. The ladies complain that they cant be all things to all men all of the time and need time and space and understanding.

    Could it be that some fault for this lies with these ladies themselves as perhaps they are trying too hard to capitalize on their own success in a relatively short space of time and/or can the guys be faulted for allowing themselves to get too hot under the collar and all chasing bookings like sheep with the same ladies around the same time ?

    Any thoughts ?
    I agree with you as I've spoken about this to a few escorts and they have felt that they might be a victim of their own success. However, the successful life of an escort can be relatively short in a lot of cases - not all obviously - so they have to make hay while the sun shines. Re-invention is not always successful. Being an escort can be very lucrative short term, but the downside can be with you for the rest of your life.

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    I see you point but i think guys are definitely at fault for allowing themselves get hot under the collar, i think is is only a handful of men that get lost in their fantasies though, i dont see it as a problem for a busy escort as most intelligent men can differentiate between a client/escort relationship and a friendship.guys get caught up in a fantasy when an escort is nice to them and all of a sudden acts like a bf if he doesnt get the attention he thinks he deserves.

    luckily i think most men are understanding that if u have seen an escort before or had some good conversations through pm's and she doesnt reply she is probably busy and will get back to u when she has the time.

    anyways if the escort is busy it means they are having lots of sex which we all know that they.................LOVEEEE ITTTTTT!!!

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    it's not the escorts fault if she's popular and wants to work 5,6,7 days a week. At the end of the day she can only fit in so many appointments in a single day, why should she have to take days off that she may want to work, just so she can answer her phone and say, no sorry I don't work Thursday - Sunday anymore as I was just too busy. All that will do is move the stampede to the days she is working and we are back to square one.

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    i think it honestly depends on certain situations but escorts have a busy life and you cant really expect them to be all nice everyday and think they can see everyone.its not possible for them.they work very hard changing one experience to another.wen we get with an escort its just one fantasy or one style we want played out but if several guys want several dif fantasies then the escort is working over time and always doing so with a smile.but in some cases i reckon escorts can try to take on to much on demselves not realising this may not be possible and end up getting run down or go tru a bad period wer sum clients didnt feel they got value 4 der money.im sure escorts at times take on to much and that can cause problems for everyone but i do think its up to the escort to draw the line with how much der willing to comunicate with clients,some escorts are very clear and some escorts are not so clear ,the more qualified escorts and the wiser the escorts the less chance of miss understandings.

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    From what I fathom the more sucessful an escort is the less she feels she needs to work. This is just my opinion but if you are an established lady with a high volume of calls you can comfortably say I will only work Monday- Friday with the weekends to myself. This is because they know that they will recieve a lot of buisness the days that they do work and clients will generally go to more effort to book in advance. Where as a lesser known escort might feel she has to work more days to recieve the same amount of buisness. It is especially difficult when your are a touring escort like myself. At home I work only when I can be bothered but when I book a weeks touring there is a certain amount of pressure I have to put on myself to work as there is a lot of expense I need to cover.

    It is all relative. In my opinion clients should realise that an escort that is seen to be sucsessful (high amount of positive reviews etc) will generally have a very high level of demand thus less likely to get back to a text or be able to pick up a call. This isn't everyone as the more established ladies seem to be very organised- at least compared to myself who puts my phone on bloody silent and loses it in my apartment haha.

    At the end of the clients need to realise that the more "sucessful" an escort is the harder it will be to get an appointment. And in regards to escorts- if they try to capatalise too much by working every day and not responding to a high number of calls etc they are going to get a name for being hard to reach and thus becoming less sucessful.

    In my opinion it is all just about balance and moderation. I feel problems are caused by certain gentlemen only willing to see ladies with 10 + reviews or whatever. If nobody goes to visit a lesser reviewed escort she will never get any reviews and we are stuck in a cycle. Obviously I understand that punting means spending your hard earned cash so you want to be careful about how you spend it so try to stick to ladies you can trust but sometimes it is obvious that an escort is genuine with verified pics, her own website etc but clients will avoid her untill someone else has been their first!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ksteve View Post
    I have seen posts and reviews made where it seems that business success for an escort can also have a downside. Sometimes it seems to me that a lady will become so popular for a time that it smacks of a feeding frenzy.

    Guys complain that they dont get responses to calls,texts , pms etc from the girls,that the girls are tired or mechanical at the booking. The ladies complain that they cant be all things to all men all of the time and need time and space and understanding.

    Could it be that some fault for this lies with these ladies themselves as perhaps they are trying too hard to capitalize on their own success in a relatively short space of time and/or can the guys be faulted for allowing themselves to get too hot under the collar and all chasing bookings like sheep with the same ladies around the same time ?

    Any thoughts ?
    I,m luck i,m no sucessful escort and aswell i take break every time i feel streessful or tired
    I travel about 4 times per Year to my cowntry.
    I,m independent so i can take off when i want
    some escort are adict of money,so they want every days more clients and that isent good because if we escort tired or streesful we can do very good our job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by monster_monster View Post
    it's not the escorts fault if she's popular and wants to work 5,6,7 days a week. At the end of the day she can only fit in so many appointments in a single day, why should she have to take days off that she may want to work, just so she can answer her phone and say, no sorry I don't work Thursday - Sunday anymore as I was just too busy. All that will do is move the stampede to the days she is working and we are back to square one.
    Who is independent can take off when want...
    Thanks GOD i love freedom and i have
    so sorry for some escorts dont have freedom.

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    I visited an escort once who specifically asked me NOT to leave a review.
    She escorted casually and didnt want to generate huge numbers of calls because she didnt work enough to meet the demand and she also felt that a high number of reviews would put people off and set them wondering how many men she has been with before them.

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    I hate to admit this (and its a generalisation )but I am sometimes put off an escort who has a lot of reviews. I sometimes think (wrongly I know) that because she is popular, that time might be limited,might be hard to get in contact with and just too busy.
    I know this is how the business works, but I don't like to think of myself as a client on some type of conveyor belt (crude analogy)
    one guy out another guy in. You can't blame the escort, whose star might not burn so brightly indefinetly, why should she turn down work ?
    I think the 'feeding frenzy' mentioned by the OP tends to happen to escorts who appear on the scene and tend to stand out in some way,I can think of a couple of examples of must see girls recently. I assume the more established girls have a more regular client base and therefore can be a bit more selective.
    Come in she said "I'll give you shelter from the storm "

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