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    Hi, I've just joined to clear something up, although I may be staying on in a more permanent role lol.

    Anyway, I recently have been looking through escorts and considering seeing one. I decided today on English Alex. As my first time arranging an escort, I was quite nervous, and chose her because her reviews indicate she is friendly, genuine, and speaks native english.
    I called her today around 2 with no answer. I phoned again around 3:30 and she answered. Communication was a little dodgy as my phone didn't have great reception, I arranged for 7pm for an hour, and was told to call at 6:30 to confirm.

    The location was belfast, and I live about an hours drive away, so I planned to reach belfast for 6:30, phone her and have time to find the location. I phoned her at 6:40 twice without answer (was a little late phoning her because I was driving and had to find somewhere to park first). I assumed if she was temporarily unable to reach her phone she'd call me back, but it never happened and I went home. I was somewhat disappointed, especially since i'd spent the last 2 hours striving to be as hygienic and neat as possible lol.

    So i'm just wondering if she reads this whether or not she could clear this up. I'm concerned that I somehow came across wrongly on the phone and put her off. I hope this is just a misunderstanding. I was initially going to post a neutral review but even a neutral review can be damaging to an escorts reputation and I wouldnt want to cause that unnecessarily.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fonduman View Post
    Hi, I've just joined to clear something up, although I may be staying on in a more permanent role lol.

    Anyway, I recently have been looking through escorts and considering seeing one. I decided today on English Alex. As my first time arranging an escort, I was quite nervous, and chose her because her reviews indicate she is friendly, genuine, and speaks native english.
    I called her today around 2 with no answer. I phoned again around 3:30 and she answered. Communication was a little dodgy as my phone didn't have great reception, I arranged for 7pm for an hour, and was told to call at 6:30 to confirm.

    The location was belfast, and I live about an hours drive away, so I planned to reach belfast for 6:30, phone her and have time to find the location. I phoned her at 6:40 twice without answer (was a little late phoning her because I was driving and had to find somewhere to park first). I assumed if she was temporarily unable to reach her phone she'd call me back, but it never happened and I went home. I was somewhat disappointed, especially since i'd spent the last 2 hours striving to be as hygienic and neat as possible lol.

    So i'm just wondering if she reads this whether or not she could clear this up. I'm concerned that I somehow came across wrongly on the phone and put her off. I hope this is just a misunderstanding. I was initially going to post a neutral review but even a neutral review can be damaging to an escorts reputation and I wouldnt want to cause that unnecessarily.
    Im sorry ur dissapointed for ur first time, but if there wasnt any appointment u couldnt submit neutral review if u meant n/a im sorry....i advice you try to get in touch with Alex first to clear things up...
    Good bye Ireland!

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    know this thread is directed to English Alex and I do apologise for posting on it but as you said you are new in seeing escorts I make myself comfortable to give an opinion to what usually happens form the point of view from an escort.

    I believe most escorts have asked for confirmation half an hour before the time the client wishes to arrange, this is due to the big number of time wasters that make appointments well in advance and then just don't bother to send a text message cancelling the appointment.

    As you said you live an hour drive away from the escort's location, It would help if you let the escort knows that, then you could ring her an hour before the arranged time and let her know that you are on your way.

    When an escort tells the client ring me half an hour before the time you want to see me, at that point no appointment was arranged as we get loads of calls/PMs everyday from people that seem to be very interested in a date but never ring to confirm their booking.
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    Ah this is the price genuine clients have to pay for all the timewasters out there.
    This has only happened me once and it is a shitty feeling. It made me register and changed my approach to making appointments
    Now if I'm meeting an escort for the first time, earlier in the day I'll always let her know approx the time I will be leaving. And then near the time I'm leaving will contact again just to make sure. At least this way both of us are sure the appointment will go ahead
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    Jasmins advice is spot on there.
    I usually travel at least an hour to an appointment, so I usually ask to re-confirm an hour beforehand, and then get in touch again when I'm 15-20 mins away for directions ect..

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    Well, like I said, I did ring 20minutes before as agreed (although ill admit was 10mins late in doing so), so I dont think thats the problem. Are you guys saying that because I wasn't on time for the confirm that she gave up perhaps?

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    Quote Originally Posted by fonduman View Post
    Well, like I said, I did ring 20minutes before as agreed (although ill admit was 10mins late in doing so), so I dont think thats the problem. Are you guys saying that because I wasn't on time for the confirm that she gave up perhaps?
    30 mins means 30 mins, I'm sorry but when someone asks you to do something at a certain time and you don't well then don't expect them to keep up their end of the bargain

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    Quote Originally Posted by fonduman View Post
    Well, like I said, I did ring 20minutes before as agreed (although ill admit was 10mins late in doing so), so I dont think thats the problem. Are you guys saying that because I wasn't on time for the confirm that she gave up perhaps?
    Possibly she may have taken another booking, or could have been in the shower. But I would not have waited for her to return your call. She may not have had credit. And you have no idea how many missed calls some ladies can get. They can't ring everyone back.
    Personally I would have rang her a few more times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by monster_monster View Post
    30 mins means 30 mins, I'm sorry but when someone asks you to do something at a certain time and you don't well then don't expect them to keep up their end of the bargain
    Ok fair enough, it just didnt occur to me that it'd matter that much.

    Thanks for the answers, I half expected to get flamed or something lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fonduman View Post
    Ok fair enough, it just didnt occur to me that it'd matter that much.

    Thanks for the answers, I half expected to get flamed or something lol.
    No worries, and welcome

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