Spilling Over into Real Reality

[Morpheus]

This website spoils us men. We can look, lift the phone, dial a number and meet what we fancy. I for one think it's fantastic. It's like an adult version of being in the a sweet shop, only with nobody to tell you "no, you can't have that".

My question is, has anyone else become so acustomed to the ease with which we can meet the lovely ladies that it seems frustrating when we cannot do the same with girls we meet in everyday life ? Like colleagues for example. I'm lucky enough to work in an office where the majority of staff are female, young, pretty, good looking and damn sexy. In fact I think there's a competitiveness among them over who can look the hottest and attract the most attention .... how fantastic is that ?? For me and the rest of the minority male population in my office like !

Anyway back to my point. I can't just look at one of my office colleagues and choose to have sex with her. And like I was saying about the sweet shop, when you're so in the habit of having what you want it becomes a real pisser when you've got to behave yourself out in the real world.

Anyone identify with that ?

I get what you're saying Banjo. I can completely relate to it. I knew I was going to be in trouble the first day that I visited an escort. So I have no one else to blame but myself.

Visiting escorts is easy, uncomplicated and and for the most extremely satisfying. Trying to attract or seduce a woman in real life is way harder and in my case universally unsucessful. So i have become spoiled and don't both with the real world anymore.

Should I ever venture back into the whole dating scene, I have no doubt that I will find it very hard, and will probably lack the patience to persevere.

[john connor]

meeting the girls here is fantastic and is pure fantasy.
if you were ever to go out with any of them you would soon realise that the same old shit arises as it does in any relationship.
meeting a girl and paying for her time for a brief period can never be compared to a relationship.
the former is physically gratifying the latter spiritually so.
very few men in relationships arrive home to a women in 7" heels and a thong ready for sex hence the reason for this site.
long live the fantasy

[kelso]

yes man best to keep fantaasy and reality separate, altho i do recognise myself getting very very lazy
when it comes to meeting girls to date

[ksteve]

This website spoils us men. We can look, lift the phone, dial a number and meet what we fancy. I for one think it's fantastic. It's like an adult version of being in the a sweet shop, only with nobody to tell you "no, you can't have that".

My question is, has anyone else become so acustomed to the ease with which we can meet the lovely ladies that it seems frustrating when we cannot do the same with girls we meet in everyday life ? Like colleagues for example. I'm lucky enough to work in an office where the majority of staff are female, young, pretty, good looking and damn sexy. In fact I think there's a competitiveness among them over who can look the hottest and attract the most attention .... how fantastic is that ?? For me and the rest of the minority male population in my office like !

Anyway back to my point. I can't just look at one of my office colleagues and choose to have sex with her. And like I was saying about the sweet shop, when you're so in the habit of having what you want it becomes a real pisser when you've got to behave yourself out in the real world.

Anyone identify with that ?

I can see from posts on many boards that single men , having availed of bookings with escorts,are deterred from making an effort to meet women in civvy street and personally I find this a shame. Much as I love escorts, they are not a sustitute for civvy street partners. Why do women in civvy street allow a situation to exist where many many men find it so difficult to socialise easily with them ?

[warmcome]

the last night i was out, myself and my mate
chatted to a group of girls from tipperary. we bought them drinks
and made polite conversation with them.

half way through the night, a guy that had been going from girl to girl
came around to our group. he was cocky, he was confident. when he went
the girls dissed him and ridiculed him.

at the end of the night we said cheerio to the girls and went to get chips etc.
an hour later, im walking to my car in the car park, i saw that guy fucking one
of those girls with her freind holding her bag and takeaway...

[Bruno69]

the last night i was out, myself and my mate
chatted to a group of girls from tipperary. we bought them drinks
and made polite conversation with them.

half way through the night, a guy that had been going from girl to girl
came around to our group. he was cocky, he was confident. when he went
the girls dissed him and ridiculed him.

at the end of the night we said cheerio to the girls and went to get chips etc.
an hour later, im walking to my car in the car park, i saw that guy fucking one
of those girls with her freind holding her bag and takeaway...

I'm sure I'm not the only one here who winced in pain on reading this!

[warmcome]

I'm sure I'm not the only one here who winced in pain on reading this!

i lay awake thinking about it for a bit too!
it demonstrates the gulf between what people say-
and what people do.

[Rayden]

I'm sure I'm not the only one here who winced in pain on reading this!

I lol'd tbh.

[Banjo]

at the end of the night we said cheerio to the girls and went to get chips etc.
an hour later, im walking to my car in the car park, i saw that guy fucking one
of those girls with her freind holding her bag and takeaway...

Classy lady ey ??!

[warmcome]

Classy lady ey ??!

hi banjo, the two i were talking with were school teachers.
i'd say its the alcohol thats gives rise to such behaviours.
classy or not-i found it pretty arousing.