Will you ever?

[Morpheus]

Hy guys

I am courious cause i saw that some of you were writing here that at least once they fall in love with an escort...but..will you ever consider that you can involve in a relationship with a girl that is escorting...maybe even thought to marry her..?

Great thread Alexa. My simple answer to your question is "Yes". I would certainly consider going out and even marrying a girl who is/was an escort.

However, life isn't that simple!

For starters I am extremely conscious that this is a fantasy world. I have been treated wonderfully by all the lovely escorts I've seen. And in the case of girls that I see regularly, there is some sort of relationship/ understanding that has developed. I would go so far as to say that the relationship can border on friendship. I say 'border on friendship' because clearly it still is a client- escort relationship and there are strict boundries.

And just because a gorgeous escort has sex with me and treats me better than any girlfriend might, doesn't mean I should be deluded into thinking that this is reality. This is afterall what I am paying her for. And the more conclusive the illusion, the better the job that the escort has done.

So while my answer to the above is yes, i don't think it will ever happen and I am careful to protect myself from being deluded that this is anything other than a professional relationship. I'm sure every escort dreads having a regular good client, declaring his undying love for her. Cause thats the end of the business deal.

From a practical point of view - I wouldn't stand a chance in hell of getting near any girl as gorgeous as the escorts I've been with, in the real world. So conversely there is little chance of an escort falling for me.

And if by some miracle it ever did happen to me - i think I would reasonably have to give up seeing other escorts. Which will be very difficult because I am an addict!

So I'm sorry to say Alexa that while my initial answer was "Yes", I think from a practical point of view it is a "No".

[medicine man]

I did go out with an escort in the UK for a year. It certainly was a curious turn of circumstance.
It was tricky sometimes but mainly as she occasionally worked evenings when I wanted to take her out
Never really had a problem with what she did, after all she had done her job on me....
And a saturday night at home with her was definitely a different experience, at least that's how the thing played out in my mind
We only parted company as she had to move back to USA and it kind of fizzled out.
But was a great year....
So it can work but I would say not for everyone or even most.

[Forrest]

Cause i think it won't be only one exboyfriend...so if he can't handle with an escort girl life how will he handle with a girl ...i don't see a big difference ...

Sorry Alexa, I was joking. I knew what you meant and you make a good point.
If two people fall in love it shouldn't matter what they did for a living in the past.
It's the future that matters, and working on the relationship going forward is far
more important than thinking about past actions. But human emotions will always
dredge up the past, and it's how you both deal with it that will determine whether
the relationship can last. I know that escorts/clients have developed relationships
in the past, but I would think the success rate is low, more's the pity.
We can all live in hope rather than expectation.

[monster_monster]

Hy guys

I am courious cause i saw that some of you were writing here that at least once they fall in love with an escort...but..will you ever consider that you can involve in a relationship with a girl that is escorting...maybe even thought to marry her..?

When I'm dating a girl I don't use escorts, so I doubt I'd be able to have a proper relationship with an escort while she was still working.

[dark-knight]

I wouldn't be able to go out with an escort nevermind marring an escort. Especially if we met on escort/client terms. Couldn't see it working.

[TheCelticDream]

not sure if i could, really depends on the situation. its unfair on both of you if u arent totally comfortable with it from the start...if half way through the relationship u decide u cant deal with the whole escort thing anymore it would be unfair on the escort who has committed herself emotionally to u. its a really tough question though...i suppose u would have to wait and see if u were really into the girl enough.

[petethedub]

Yes I could with you Alexa but would you let me continue to punt

[10inchesandcounting]

Yes I could go out and marry an escort, but she will have to be out of the game.!!

[TheH]

Hy guys

I am courious cause i saw that some of you were writing here that at least once they fall in love with an escort...but..will you ever consider that you can involve in a relationship with a girl that is escorting...maybe even thought to marry her..?

It's hard not to fall in love a little with some of the amazing escorts out there I mean after a great appointment or when you hit it off just right and u are having a great laugh together...... but it's a respect for the Girls that stops you falling in love with them because I would be thinking how much of a pain it must be having loads and loads of people falling in love with them on a daily basis and how out of necessity they are usually too professional to ever fall in love in return......

Having said all that I did date an Escort a couple of years back and we had a great time ! It didn’t work out but I can safely say that was nothing to do with her profession

So it can happen, and when it does it can be Great !

[Blonde Alexa]

Let's make another scenary...what if you are going out and meet a nice girl, date her for a while and when the relationship seems to go further she decides to tell you that she was an escort...will you change your attitude regarding her, do you think you will act different, will that affect your feelings for her???