would you

[lonely]

I did a thread some time ago asking posters what would they think about me telling my new gf at the time that I slept with escorts It was interesting such differing opinions some said I would be mad to, others said tell her I actually told her & she was horrified dropped me straight away I'm not exaggerating when I tell u it was the most regretful thing I ever did I still meet her sometimes & it breaks my heart to think of what might have been had I kept my mouth shut.....

lesson learned foolishly
a man can never be totally honest with a woman

[Morpheus]

lol
hmm your fairly sure then morph!??

Yes, very, very very sure! A Woman will never understand this sort of thing regardless of how liberal or open she is. Take EP's advice above from real life experience. This mularkey about sharing everything about oneself is a load of balls! Who wants to know everything about your partner? There will always be some secrets - and this is definitely one of them.

Even if she doesn't dump you on the spot, she'll be suspicious of you for the rest of your life!

Then again you may be a braver man than I am!

[kelso]

Yes, very, very very sure! A Woman will never understand this sort of thing regardless of how liberal or open she is. Take EP's advice above from real life experience. This mularkey about sharing everything about oneself is a load of balls! Who wants to know everything about your partner? There will always be some secrets - and this is definitely one of them.

Even if she doesn't dump you on the spot, she'll be suspicious of you for the rest of your life!

Then again you may be a braver man than I am!

by braver morph you mean more foolish right?!!!

[CoolJay]

would you ever tell your new girlfriend that you had availed of the services of the lovelies here, before you met her.....

No def not,she would prob not trust you even tho it was before you met her.

[kelso]

No def not,she would prob not trust you even tho it was before you met her.

thanks lads
last time we were out and we had a lot to drink and we were at the stage of opening up it was getting to 50/50 whether i was gonna tell her, i changed the subject but it was a close one, bloody glad now!!
gotta slow down the pints next time and go slap some sense into myself

[mellors]

Not unless I was HL going out with Sweet Rachel (I like to be topical)

No, no, no, Some things are better off not talked about. You can have trust and honesty in a relationship without exposing every detail of your life.
Just to turn it round, would you mind if your new partner told you she used to be an escort, or would you rather not know ?

[El Gordo]

would you ever tell your new girlfriend that you had availed of the services of the lovelies here, before you met her.....

Would you want her to tell you about everyone she had shagged? Probably not. So why tell her who you have shagged?

[kelso]

Not unless I was HL going out with Sweet Rachel (I like to be topical)

No, no, no, Some things are better off not talked about. You can have trust and honesty in a relationship without exposing every detail of your life.
Just to turn it round, would you mind if your new partner told you she used to be an escort, or would you rather not know ?

yea i take your point man, but i wud prefer to know, honestly; for a few reasons, health, trust etc, and i have dated escorts, & its not all cake and ice cream i ll tell you; i just dont publicise it like HL/R!!!

[mellors]

yea i take your point man, but i wud prefer to know, honestly; for a few reasons, health, trust etc, and i have dated escorts, & its not all cake and ice cream i ll tell you; i just dont publicise it like HL/R!!!

Must admit I'd find it difficult

[Morpheus]

by braver morph you mean more foolish right?!!!

No I do mean braver. I like the idea of honesty in a relationship but this is one area that I will never, never divulge. Likewise should I ever cheat or have an affair on a girlfriend/wife - I won't ever tell (assuming the affairs ends). Seen and heard too many stories - where all that the revelation does is to hurt the offended partner and it never seems to end well.

While it sounds fickle, I do believe that "what she doesn't know, won't hurt her." Just make sure she never finds out!!!

thanks lads
last time we were out and we had a lot to drink and we were at the stage of opening up it was getting to 50/50 whether i was gonna tell her, i changed the subject but it was a close one, bloody glad now!!
gotta slow down the pints next time and go slap some sense into myself

Ohh..!! Watch the alcohol man! SO often what seems a great idea under the influence - is blantantly ridiculous in the cold light of the morning after!

Not unless I was HL going out with Sweet Rachel (I like to be topical)

I don't think it would make a difference if she was an escort - havent' you seen "secret diary of a London call girl"? She (Belle) destroyed the life of her then boyfriend, when she found out he was sleeping with escorts.

Of course if you met during an appointment, then its all out in the open! Happy days!