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    im wondering what people really think about punting.yes its all fun and its great to meet beautiful women but are we in danger of ruining our lives with our future wives?
    i heard once that a mans marriage was ruined because he slept around so often but when he settled down the woman he loved just didnt do it for him in the bedroom.
    he couldnt have sex with his wife because he was comparing her to all the past women he slept with,he loved her very much but he just couldnt tell her the truth to why he no longer wanted sex with her.he felt sick for this and he hated himself for it but der was nothing he could do his marriage was over.
    maybe this story is untrue and it was just created to send a messege to young men wanting to get loads of notches on der bed posts but it has me thinking now.
    i do believe that one day ill fall in love but am i at risk of ruining something before it even starts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by itstimenow View Post
    im wondering what people really think about punting.yes its all fun and its great to meet beautiful women but are we in danger of ruining our lives with our future wives?
    i heard once that a mans marriage was ruined because he slept around so often but when he settled down the woman he loved just didnt do it for him in the bedroom.
    he couldnt have sex with his wife because he was comparing her to all the past women he slept with,he loved her very much but he just couldnt tell her the truth to why he no longer wanted sex with her.he felt sick for this and he hated himself for it but der was nothing he could do his marriage was over.
    maybe this story is untrue and it was just created to send a messege to young men wanting to get loads of notches on der bed posts but it has me thinking now.
    i do believe that one day ill fall in love but am i at risk of ruining something before it even starts?
    Dunno mate, depends on how much importance you attribute to sex with a long term partner. That story could also just as easily have been about a guy with no sexual experience or 'notches' who felt he might'nt be able to satisfy his partner.
    Only thing i know is, of the couples i've known over the years, the most important thing is always compatibility.

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    Quote Originally Posted by itstimenow View Post
    im wondering what people really think about punting.yes its all fun and its great to meet beautiful women but are we in danger of ruining our lives with our future wives?
    i heard once that a mans marriage was ruined because he slept around so often but when he settled down the woman he loved just didnt do it for him in the bedroom.
    he couldnt have sex with his wife because he was comparing her to all the past women he slept with,he loved her very much but he just couldnt tell her the truth to why he no longer wanted sex with her.he felt sick for this and he hated himself for it but der was nothing he could do his marriage was over.
    maybe this story is untrue and it was just created to send a messege to young men wanting to get loads of notches on der bed posts but it has me thinking now.
    i do believe that one day ill fall in love but am i at risk of ruining something before it even starts?
    I must be honest here - yes

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    i wudnt panic man, keep it in perspective, salways remember that this is fantasy, and stick to the ladies here!! much simplr life that way!

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    Quote Originally Posted by itstimenow View Post
    im wondering what people really think about punting.yes its all fun and its great to meet beautiful women but are we in danger of ruining our lives with our future wives?
    i heard once that a mans marriage was ruined because he slept around so often but when he settled down the woman he loved just didnt do it for him in the bedroom.
    he couldnt have sex with his wife because he was comparing her to all the past women he slept with,he loved her very much but he just couldnt tell her the truth to why he no longer wanted sex with her.he felt sick for this and he hated himself for it but der was nothing he could do his marriage was over.
    maybe this story is untrue and it was just created to send a messege to young men wanting to get loads of notches on der bed posts but it has me thinking now.
    i do believe that one day ill fall in love but am i at risk of ruining something before it even starts?
    it can maybe be viewed a different way,it could bring a dead marriage back too,
    your story does point to problem, and that is maybbe the two people may not have been suit from the start
    taking a break, but not gone

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    A relationship no matter how important it is can't be based on sex along.
    Yes sex is important, but is only a small element of a long term relationship.
    I have been married for 24 years, only had two sexual partners prior my wife
    and have only lately explored the escort scene.

    Has visiting escorts affected my relationship with my wife?
    No, I still love her the same and still enjoy our encounters together.
    I just separate the escort word to that of my own world.
    Yes, I am cheating on my wife and that she doesn't deserve.
    Sometime in your life you have to explore something new, for me this is my time.

    Remember sex with escorts can be very different, as each lady offers a different experience
    and are happy to explore your desires if this is what you wish.
    However making love to someone you love reaches a much higher level level,
    and that is something an escort can never achieve.

    Can escorts affect your future life with a wife?
    I dont think so, it depends on how mature your outlook in live is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by itstimenow View Post
    im wondering what people really think about punting.yes its all fun and its great to meet beautiful women but are we in danger of ruining our lives with our future wives?
    i heard once that a mans marriage was ruined because he slept around so often but when he settled down the woman he loved just didnt do it for him in the bedroom.
    he couldnt have sex with his wife because he was comparing her to all the past women he slept with,he loved her very much but he just couldnt tell her the truth to why he no longer wanted sex with her.he felt sick for this and he hated himself for it but der was nothing he could do his marriage was over.
    maybe this story is untrue and it was just created to send a messege to young men wanting to get loads of notches on der bed posts but it has me thinking now.
    i do believe that one day ill fall in love but am i at risk of ruining something before it even starts?
    Having been married to my ex for 25 yrs I can assure you that sex with a woman you truly love is far greater on so many levels than anything an escort can provide.
    Sometimes just waking up beside them can bring a smile to your face.
    Knowing they are doing things like owo,cim ,anal and playing out your fantasies because they enjoy them and want to make you happy because they love you is something really special and no escort can compete.
    I say this with the the greatest of respect to escorts and the commitment and effort they put into every meeting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by happygolucky View Post
    Having been married to my ex for 25 yrs I can assure you that sex with a woman you truly love is far greater on so many levels than anything an escort can provide.
    Sometimes just waking up beside them can bring a smile to your face.
    Knowing they are doing things like owo,cim ,anal and playing out your fantasies because they enjoy them and want to make you happy because they love you is something really special and no escort can compete.
    I say this with the the greatest of respect to escorts and the commitment and effort they put into every meeting.
    sex is sex ..... love is love.... completely dif things plus the lady you wake up to every morning is usually the mother of your children
    you just need to separate the two
    abby xxx
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    Quote Originally Posted by itstimenow View Post
    im wondering what people really think about punting.yes its all fun and its great to meet beautiful women but are we in danger of ruining our lives with our future wives?
    i heard once that a mans marriage was ruined because he slept around so often but when he settled down the woman he loved just didnt do it for him in the bedroom.
    he couldnt have sex with his wife because he was comparing her to all the past women he slept with,he loved her very much but he just couldnt tell her the truth to why he no longer wanted sex with her.he felt sick for this and he hated himself for it but der was nothing he could do his marriage was over.
    maybe this story is untrue and it was just created to send a messege to young men wanting to get loads of notches on der bed posts but it has me thinking now.
    i do believe that one day ill fall in love but am i at risk of ruining something before it even starts?
    I'm not sure exactly how big a proportion of punters the "we" in your post is.....I didn't punt before getting married but I did have a lot of sex, i had better sex than I did/do with my wife but while that is important in itself its just a part of a much bigger jigsaw....

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    Quote Originally Posted by mature abby View Post
    sex is sex ..... love is love.... completely dif things plus the lady you wake up to every morning is usually the mother of your children
    you just need to separate the two
    abby xxx

    Reminds me of a movie scene with Robert De Niro, when asked why his wife didn't indulge him in his love of oral, looks absolutely horrified, and responds

    "You're talking about the lips that kiss my children".

    Just remember that escorts= fantasy while love=real life, and don't ever confuse the two.
    Last edited by scotus; 10-03-11 at 11:27.
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