Dilemma

[OnlyMe]

james
full marks,spot on,we delude ourselves that we are different,but, your right just a client to be dealt with

I don't think that's true. I have been with several women who provided a very good service, but who gave me the idea they didn't like me. They did nothing wrong I just got that idea.
On the other hand, I see some girls regularly, and I am convinced they do like me.
Everyone is different.

Personally regarding the original topic, I would give the girl another chance.

I find it interesting that there is a perception among many here that seeing a girl many times improves the experience.
A practice makes perfect scenario.
Not sure I agree here, I like the practice, but I like seeing new people more.

[wanted the best 69]

I don't think that's true. I have been with several women who provided a very good service, but who gave me the idea they didn't like me. They did nothing wrong I just got that idea.
On the other hand, I see some girls regularly, and I am convinced they do like me.
Everyone is different.

Personally regarding the original topic, I would give the girl another chance.

I find it interesting that there is a perception among many here that seeing a girl many times improves the experience.
A practice makes perfect scenario.
Not sure I agree here, I like the practice, but I like seeing new people more.

i am for him going to meet again, but i am also the last of the romantics

[john connor]

if it was a really crappy visit i would move on. if you think she was just having an off day maybe give her the benefit of the doubt but from what you describe i think its time to find a new favourite

[Fitzy]

if it was a really crappy visit i would move on. if you think she was just having an off day maybe give her the benefit of the doubt but from what you describe i think its time to find a new favourite

To be honest well was it an of day I don't know I wasn't a fly on the wall but I think it's worth giving it a second chance the lad likes the girl so why not.

[dr love]

First time I saw this particular girl it was a fantastic experience, so the next time she was in town I saw her again, also a great experience, great body,very chatty and friendly and the cutest pussy you ever did see, definitely becoming a my must see regular when she's in town.However, the third time I saw her (this was over a few months) it was a totally different experience, I felt rushed, no connection, basically in and out the door as quickly as possible. I know that I'm not 'special' to any of the girls but it really put me off seeing her again Now I know girls have bad days and busy days, but my dilemma is now that my visits to escorts have become less,more like a special occasion rather than a more regular affair, should I risk seeing her again next time shes in town or carry on exploring fresh pastures ?

I would give her another chance mellors but respect is a two way street , if the same move on , loads of nice escorts out there .: lol doc

[JAMESCORK]

Actually I take back what I said Mellors... feck her... go out and find a new piece of ass and start all over... Gowan ya good ting...

[Fitzy]

Actually I take back what I said Mellors... feck her... go out and find a new piece of ass and start all over... Gowan ya good ting...

Life is never that easy

[JAMESCORK]

Life is never that easy

Pfff... course it is...

[mellors]

Don't get me wrong lads (thanks for that Fitzy), I'm a pretty level headed guy, I certainly don't think you become 'special ' to any girl, business is business. I'm well past the vanity stage, and know these girls wouldn't look twice at me in the street. i approach every appt in the same way, some go well, some not so good. I certainly didn't turn up proposing marriage (it would be me running away)or treating it any different from any others. I do think in general, repeat visits do work better, you know what your getting, you might 'know' each other a little bit and that initial contact has already been made.

[Morpheus]

First time I saw this particular girl it was a fantastic experience, so the next time she was in town I saw her again, also a great experience, great body,very chatty and friendly and the cutest pussy you ever did see, definitely becoming a my must see regular when she's in town.However, the third time I saw her (this was over a few months) it was a totally different experience, I felt rushed, no connection, basically in and out the door as quickly as possible. I know that I'm not 'special' to any of the girls but it really put me off seeing her again Now I know girls have bad days and busy days, but my dilemma is now that my visits to escorts have become less,more like a special occasion rather than a more regular affair, should I risk seeing her again next time shes in town or carry on exploring fresh pastures ?

I sort of know the feeling Mellors. Am in a similar situation right now. Wondering do I/don't I go back? Case in point - have left on most occasions walking on air, but have on two occasions left feeling really frustrated .

I think the decision unfortunately will depend on how horny I am on the day. My head tells me to move on, but on a given day my small head will tell me otherwise. It all honesty, it will also come down to who else is available or not available on the day. (Unfortunately time and money come in to it - limiting the number of escort visits I can make - so have to choose carefully).

After all that waffle, I am probably going to go back (and you'll hear about it if I'm kicking myself). At the end of the day Mellors the question you have to ask youself is - " How hot is she??" And if the answer is 'hell fire'!! - then she's definitely worth the risk of revisiting.