When does this become obsessive?

[Rodney69]

When do you think that the amount of time you see escorts becomes obsessive.

This will vary from person to person based on their personal circumstances, financial means and how they choose to spend their finances.

Me personally, I try to limit myself to 1 escort / month as a special treat. Something to look forward to and appreciate. Sometimes I do stick to that, but my will power goes out the window and I’ll always make an exception when someone in particular is in town.

If I started to see more than 2 per month then I would say it has become obsessive for me.

Now I know there are guys here with the financial means to see as many escorts in a week or a few days, that I see in a year. But lets say I did have unlimited finances, personally if I started to see escorts on a daily basis I would consider it obsessive for me.

And if I started to see multiple escorts per day that would be OCD imo, unless I had a long prison sentence ahead. Or just once wanted to live out some fantasy.

So where’s your limit for it being under control and taking over your life?

[warmcome]

i notice that you prefer an hour with your monthly escort,
whereas half hour is my norm about every 10 days.

[dave1dave]

Good poll

I went with More than one per week, but it varies. Usually repeat appointments but maybe two new a month lately.

[dr love]

Possible two new , and repeat appointments a month , varies though month from month .: lol doc

[Rodney69]

Good poll

I went with More than one per week, but it varies. Usually repeat appointments but maybe two new a month lately.

thanks for sharing, decided to leave the poll anonymous for those that didn't want to

[denise89]

is it realy an obsession? specialy if your a horny,rich divorced pounter?if i would be a male....i would have exceeded mr. fussys comments a long time ago even double

[Bruno69]

6-7 a month and almost never less than an hour. Had a 3hr and 3.5hr session with my favourite regular recently in the space of a little over a week and decided it was getting too much. She's gone for a while and the lovely Ciara is not in Dublin the rest of this month, so have decided I need to break out of the spiral and am taking a break, or trying to for the month of march at least.

[Rodney69]

is it realy an obsession? specialy if your a horny,rich divorced pounter?if i would be a male....i would have exceeded mr. fussys comments a long time ago even double

thanks for your reply Denise. obviously horny rich divorced punters are good for business. Good luck to them. I wish I had their finances to make that choice.

What's an obsession for one may not necessarily be an obsession for another, hence the question

[Sam Spade]

The problem on seeing escorts on a daily basis is that the experience can be less special.
I think it is best to hold off as long as possible, and once you get that itch, just go ahead and scratch it.

It may be obsessive, but it's certainly one enjoyable addiction.

I don't think it's obsessive to see several escorts a week. Enjoyable yes, excessive no.

[Rodney69]

The problem on seeing escorts on a daily basis is that the experience can be less special.
I think it is best to hold off as long as possible, and once you get that itch, just go ahead and scratch it.

It may be obsessive, but it's certainly one enjoyable addiction.

thanks Mark, spot on. It's a bit like a drug. After a while if you do it too often, the buzz is not the same. But that level of buzz you're looking for will be different for everyone