Perhaps some more experienced members could comment?
Is it up to the punter to come up with the imagination when meeting an escort.
My experience whilst great has been the same format every time.
If it is the punter who comes up with ideas is this best on the phone before or at the meeting because favourites aren't always available to all every time. My last punt was great but predictable!
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best to have a chat on fone in my exp fella, as long as its not full on crazy the best girls will have no problems and some even welcome diversion form the 'norm' what ever that is!!
Well it takes two to tango
Seriously - of course it is up to you to say if want something in particular.
You'd be surprised how explicit some guys are at choreographing a session so feel free (within the bounds of decency & reason).
It's like any encounter between two people: you act, the escort will react & vice versa.
It's not unusual to request any particular things you might want to try, if you are uncomfortable saying over the phone what it is you want then once a booking has been made I think most escorts would permit a text with details. After all it makes their job easier: if they can accommodate your requests then they can keep you happy and potentially retain you as a regular customer.
Remember of course that your requests are just that: requests. Naturally you cannot demand anything that is outside of a particular escort's comfort zone, and each escort is different. In fact I'd go further: each escort+client pairing is different, i.e., just because an escort is comfortable doing something with one customer does not mean that they will be comfortable doing the same things with every customer. There are questions of trust and issues around personality on both sides.
If you are looking for role play etc it's best to give some notice, give the escort a chance to get in tune with your thinking, get on your wavelength. The great thing is to develop a rapport with an escort by visiting regularly. In this way it can get hotter & hotter every time. You can expand and develop and build on your fantasies or desires as you get to know each other better.
Works for me anyway - ymmv.
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Best lady I have met for initative was Lucy Chambers, great at keeping an appointment alive...
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Thanks for the advice. Will try a text after booking which sounds like a great plan. Perhaps I need to be less shy! I guess I was hoping for professional escorts which lets face it charge a right bit to let me experience something different to the norm. It's like a boring porn movie after a few 'dates'. I suppose I don't really know what I want in the end of the day which is not helpful for me or the girl.
have found the same thing myself, tend to follow a set routine and after a while it can get repetitive.
unfortunatly the girls are seeing more than just one client a day and so the onus i guess is on us to ask for something if we require it.
Personally I leave it up to the girl. Maybe that's wrong .....
Usually it goes like she asks me what I'd like and I come out and say something like "whatever" or "I'll leave that up to you". The reason I do this is a touch of shyness I think, but also I leave it in her court because I don't want any awkward moments where I might ask for something and she says no.
Again, maybe my approach is all wrong .....
Though in mid event if something comes to mind I might whisper it in her ear and see if she's up for it. Having said that I'm very much a bread and butter man. I don't really have any fetishes etc. Don't like anal for example.
Interestingly enough once or twice when asked what I'd like I answered with a "nothing fancy, just vanilla please", and she seemed relieved and would say something like "oh good, that's easy". Maybe that's because they get some demanding requests and are glad of something a little less strenuous !
I don't really know my girls at all do I ??!
Once a prick - always a prick.
Nick ???? lol
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Once a prick - always a prick.