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    Question Houston we may have a problem

    recently had a bit of a domestic with her in doors and so bedroom activity dried up for a while but ever resourceful i came upon this site.
    its early days but every girl so far i have met has been super.
    so whats the problem u ask, well now myself and her indoors are getting on fine again but i find myself putting off sex in order to be fighting fit when i go to meet one of the girls.
    sadly i am not one of these guys that can bang every day, 1-2 times a week is fine by me.
    so what i am trying to work out is why am i not banging my girl now as much.
    is it an early reaction to having started visiting escorts and will settle down or have any of you found yourself in a similar position.
    before you assume it my girl is an ex model with good looks and body so i am a little confused.
    i worry i have opened a pandoras box in me that i may not be able to close and i may become addicted to the buzz of sleeping with different women which i know is normal but with the escorts here their availabilty and service is so good it is not like going out to try to pick someone up.
    do you have to set limits, or does the urge ever lesson
    just wondering what are your thoughts as its wrecking my head a bit as i seem to be lining up more girls rather than less

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    Quote Originally Posted by john connor View Post
    recently had a bit of a domestic with her in doors and so bedroom activity dried up for a while but ever resourceful i came upon this site.
    its early days but every girl so far i have met has been super.
    so whats the problem u ask, well now myself and her indoors are getting on fine again but i find myself putting off sex in order to be fighting fit when i go to meet one of the girls.
    sadly i am not one of these guys that can bang every day, 1-2 times a week is fine by me.
    so what i am trying to work out is why am i not banging my girl now as much.
    is it an early reaction to having started visiting escorts and will settle down or have any of you found yourself in a similar position.
    before you assume it my girl is an ex model with good looks and body so i am a little confused.
    i worry i have opened a pandoras box in me that i may not be able to close and i may become addicted to the buzz of sleeping with different women which i know is normal but with the escorts here their availabilty and service is so good it is not like going out to try to pick someone up.
    do you have to set limits, or does the urge ever lesson
    just wondering what are your thoughts as its wrecking my head a bit as i seem to be lining up more girls rather than less
    The thrill of the chase. With the lady at home, it is the same old same old. With each new escort, there is the thrill of discovery that is no longer there in a long term relationship. YOu will have to decide what is more important to you. High flying horny sex, or the familiarity of the known?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Violette View Post
    The thrill of the chase. With the lady at home, it is the same old same old. With each new escort, there is the thrill of discovery that is no longer there in a long term relationship. YOu will have to decide what is more important to you. High flying horny sex, or the familiarity of the known?

    I disagree, he could manoeuvre his lady to do things he has learned from the ladies he met then they are both winners, not all escorts provide 'High flying horny sex' as we read in some reviews. I say good luck John in what should be your new quest.


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    the way you phrase it violette just made me realise high flying horny sex is more important to me right now.
    i am a couple of years off 40 so maybe i'm having a harley davidson moment.
    christ i hope it passes

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    John- thats a lot to digest in one sitting.. but from your SO's description you've put your finger on that old saw- No matter how hot a woman is there's a guy somewhere who's sick of her shit LOL,
    You may want to consider putting limits on what you do- financially etc.. & start taking some multivitamins & perhaps Vitamin V so you can manage more than twice a week with whoever. This game is addictive so enjoy but be careful!

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    thanks franken yeah i think i am going to have to start training again and get a second job.
    i agree with you it is very addictive, very very addictive!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by john connor View Post
    thanks franken yeah i think i am going to have to start training again and get a second job.
    i agree with you it is very addictive, very very addictive!!!
    Slightly different situation but know the feeling, was married then seperated, about a year later saw my first escort. Sort of got carried away to begin with but found it did decrease after the initial kid in a sweet shop feeling. It is addictive but i think you have to try and limit it (not easy there's always another gorgeous women you want to see !)
    Can't help with the wife problem I'm affraid.
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    Quote Originally Posted by john connor View Post
    recently had a bit of a domestic with her in doors and so bedroom activity dried up for a while but ever resourceful i came upon this site.
    its early days but every girl so far i have met has been super.
    so whats the problem u ask, well now myself and her indoors are getting on fine again but i find myself putting off sex in order to be fighting fit when i go to meet one of the girls.
    sadly i am not one of these guys that can bang every day, 1-2 times a week is fine by me.
    so what i am trying to work out is why am i not banging my girl now as much.
    is it an early reaction to having started visiting escorts and will settle down or have any of you found yourself in a similar position.
    before you assume it my girl is an ex model with good looks and body so i am a little confused.
    i worry i have opened a pandoras box in me that i may not be able to close and i may become addicted to the buzz of sleeping with different women which i know is normal but with the escorts here their availabilty and service is so good it is not like going out to try to pick someone up.
    do you have to set limits, or does the urge ever lesson
    just wondering what are your thoughts as its wrecking my head a bit as i seem to be lining up more girls rather than less

    Everytime I feel a bit down about being single at present, along comes a thread like this and I thank my lucky stars that I'm single!! I'd need a psychiatrist to help me work out the above psychological riddle.

    No offence intended John. I have been in relationships before and know how wonderful things can be. However, when it come to punting, there's a lot less complications when one is single.
    Last edited by Morpheus; 25-02-11 at 22:59.
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    god man thats a tough one, but i guess its easy if ur brutally honest with urself
    do u love yor wife/partner?
    are u prepared to ruin your marriage to continue punting
    or like most married guys here, can you stay in the marriage ad continue to see a few girls occasionally
    best of luck
    its a lot lesss complicated when single

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    Very simple. Escorts go where I dream my partner would go. Have spent many years of frustration and yes I HAVE "discussed" it with her. I enjoy my sessions a lot and think it is an Irish solution to an Irish (Catholic guilt) problem. EWithout escorts I would go completely mad!

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