Have just had an exchange (see my Reviews) with a lady who didn't like what I said about her.
I pride myself on being fair and out of over 40 reviews, only 3 were negative (and for good reasons in each case). When looking for an escort I rely heavily on previous reviews where available - but over the last 6 months I've been burned a few times by assuming that reviews were accurate and genuine. For example someone says "great kisser" and then she doesn't do much more than a brush of the lips - and I don't smoke and usually use mouthwash beforehand just to be sure there is no reason not to....
Nowadays I just have reviewers I know I can trust and I'll ignore the rave reviews I think. If an escort gets a negative or so-so review, alarm bells ring for me now. It's usually the accurate one.
But what I think is needed is a better description of what is DEFINITELY provided, what is "at discretion", and what is extra. If OWO is advertised, you shouldn't have to pay extra for it, it should be listed as extra in the ad?
Interested in what both punters and escorts think of this.
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Well obviously anything advertised as a favourite on a profile should be just available without any prevarication and I think if you politely ask if extra can be paid for anything not listed this this can be politely refused or negotiated.
Unfortunately Victor appointments can be a fairly individualistic thing, the few reviews I have written my self I have tried to be as honest as possible but who's to say that maybe my positive experience wouldnt be only so-so for someone else.
Ultimately the "mixed-bag" experience is actually part of the over-all unending appeal of punting would you not agree??
this old chestnut- the topic goes to the core of why the board exists so it's vital it comes up regularly-
apart from subjectivity- beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc, there's always going to be the YMMV element...but ultimate;y there's a reason why most reviews are positive.. for the likes of yourself it's clear you do your homework, scoping out options in advance beforehand but for many reasons there's plenty of guys who don't- this can be for a myriad of reasons- they're new & anything that's on offer seems fantastic ( even if a seasoned punter would be underwhelmed)/ in some cases people (even in Pay for Play) can 'click' and it leads to a super session that the next guy in the door just wouldn't get replicated/ some guys get deluded in thinking that shilling/WKing may get them discounts/freebies etc... thus- even with the best of intentions & screening etc it's evident that a big chunk of reviews engage in what might politely be termed "hyperbole"...
best way to avoid it is to find a bunch of Reviewers who clearly share your tastes & have credible track records,
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Hard to say. Maybe she mix up u with somebody else. Yr reviews looks honest. Very long with all details but honest But i am always glad if girls say smth as well for their defence.
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For me I tend to think of everything being discretionary.
I think appointments can vary widely from person to person.
Escorts aren't robots so no-one can assume that every favourite is going to be performed. Sometimes there just may not be a chemistry there.
I've never had a problem with favourites not being available.
I have noticed with a few escorts profiles stating wheather all favourites are included which is helpful.
When it comes to reviewing, I just try to be honest and relate my experience. But it is not always going to be the same for everyone.
When looking at other peoples reviews, I have found a few reviewers that I seem to be "compatable" with. That come away from an encounter with a similar experience. So I would tend to gravitate towards their reviews when looking for guidance.
But all in all, no two people are going to come away from an appointment with the same experience, reviews are just a guideline to help us make an informed decision.
Favourites too are just a list of possibilitys.
But as you say if there is a certain favourite that without it would ruin an appointment, then I would certainly check beforehand. I think the initial contact between client and escort has to be a two way passing of information.
But also bear in mind though an escort may offer French Kissing as a favourite, and confirm its availability on the phone. Only to be confronted with a guy with a head on him like Worzle Gummidge. French kissing may not happen in this case
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If you look at the wording of all the advertising profiles you will see that it states they you are paying for the escorts time and companionship and that anything else that might happen is a matter of pure coincidence between consenting adults......or words to that effect. In other words, escorts are informed that they can only list their sexual favourites, i.e. sexual practices which they are prepared to engage in within certain reason, but should not list extras seperately together with the prices of these extras. In such a case it could be argued that you were paying money for specific sexual acts.
The best way to find out, is to ask the escort when calling her or pming her, if she will do all the favourites listed, if all of them are included in the advertised price and if some are extra and how much these extras cost.
Some escorts may even be reluctant to go into this much detail about services and prices on the phone.
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Well ist so hard sometimes. I had this problem this morning. I met nice and friendly guy. Who smells as ashtray. I am NON smoker and never smoke. And honestly i hate it. He took shower and use mouthwash. He smells nice. But still i wasnt able to do FK. I try to kiss with him,but when he open his mouth that smell. God. Thats killing me and i cant. I better to return money then do it. Sorry sometimes isnt all about money but about our feeling and if we feel confi to provide that service which we usually do. But really depends on client. and we arent robots...
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Totally pissed off now....had typed a long response and lost it all!!
Nikky - thanks for sharing that with us. Punters like me can demand a lot and sometimes we forget the existence of an emotional human being who has to cope with random strangers demanding intimacy at every level.
When I started punting there was NO kissing, very little oral and most of it covered etc. Nowadays it's amazing what is allowed and expected! But I have a very small number of escorts whose company I really enjoy, and I know they look forward to seeing me too!!
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Different strokes for different folks. That's why the reviews will never be completely something you can rely on. What might turn me on might turn another woman off. Remember, we can only play with human nature up to a point. However, at the end of the day, the performance will be based on how two pleople connect. An instant attraction to another human being is an inbuilt reaction, we have little control over it..
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Firstly I agree with the girls nikki/jane and am aware of the human and emotional element of each appointment - all makes total sense as each meeting is an "of the moment experience" .
However I submitted a review yesterday (not yet uploaded!) where I had to ask for a shower - owo was on the menu and was then told E30 extra.This was a first for me-i always make sure I am well presented for meetings and have never been charged or asked for extra.Am not G Clooney but not bad looking either and i have out of approx 50 appointments had mainly good ones(i stopped reviewing as EI started going into dialogue re one review so I stopped altogether) so the only negative ones I have had are on my reviews. My other gripe is like Vic - all the escorts previous reviews are positive and none mention or seem to have had my experience - so to this end I fell your frustration!