References

[piggi]

What good is a reference??? i can write my own up right now, speak very highly of myself & sign it, but i could really be a Serial killer like Richard Ramirez. How are they going to know if i did up my own??????????????????

I agree that the idea is a bit over the top, and as I said, I've never been asked for this.

But I think you might be missing the point.

Nobody is talking about a written reference - the idea is that you tell the escort you want to visit the name of another escort that you have been with. Then she 'phones her and checks that you are a nice guy. Your identity is established by your 'phone number - which many of the girls save. That's all.

They don't want a note from your employer

[Doom]

I agree that the idea is a bit over the top, and as I said, I've never been asked for this.

But I think you might be missing the point.

Nobody is talking about a written reference - the idea is that you tell the escort you want to visit the name of another escort that you have been with. Then she 'phones her and checks that you are a nice guy. Your identity is established by your 'phone number - which many of the girls save. That's all.

They don't want a note from your employer

Still a fucking joke, I wouldnt say the escorts keep the numbers of every person that they see in their phone & remember them all, 10 or more people a day. People change their numbers all the time so what use is it. written or by phone it stupid.

Bad enough some people have there wives or girlfriends checking up on them, now you have escorts checkin up on you too hahahahaha.

[piggi]

Still a fucking joke, I wouldnt say the escorts keep the numbers of every person that they see in their phone & remember them all, 10 or more people a day. People change their numbers all the time so what use is it. written or by phone it stupid.

Bad enough some people have there wives or girlfriends checking up on them, now you have escorts checkin up on you too hahahahaha.

It's a bit much, I agree

[Alyssa Jenkins]

Firstly I really do not know which escorts exactly you are talking about that see 10 people a day lol....Think that may be a bit tiring and all that.....Maybe a bit machanical as well......Secondly its just a name of someone you have met or a few security questions that can have absolutly no effect on you so theres no harm...Basically when I provide a service I intend to provide it well and when I am nervous and not relaxed I dont want to waste your time by not treating you well because of that this is why the reference system actually helps and benfits all...Would you prefer to meet someone who is mad nervous or someone who actually is relaxed and provides you with a nice and relaxed time as well as atmosphere....Regarding pictures mine are all in order and you can check me out when watching my movies checking my site etc etc and regards reviews i accept them at anytime so in all honesty and fairness sweetie its just a matter of personal safty and having a truly enjoyable meeting.....For those of you that prefer not to work on a reference system or participate in security questions as you think its over the top thats ok there are plenty of providers to chose from so we all have choices in the end.....
Really I think its over the top when ladies get attacked or other things done to them when they are just trying to have a bit of fun...So somewhere there certainly must be a middle ground that makes everyone happy and relaxed kisses hugs and snuggles xxxxx

[Doom]

Firstly I really do not know which escorts exactly you are talking about that see 10 people a day lol....Think that may be a bit tiring and all that.....Maybe a bit machanical as well......Secondly its just a name of someone you have met or a few security questions that can have absolutly no effect on you so theres no harm...Basically when I provide a service I intend to provide it well and when I am nervous and not relaxed I dont want to waste your time by not treating you well because of that this is why the reference system actually helps and benfits all...Would you prefer to meet someone who is mad nervous or someone who actually is relaxed and provides you with a nice and relaxed time as well as atmosphere....Regarding pictures mine are all in order and you can check me out when watching my movies checking my site etc etc and regards reviews i accept them at anytime so in all honesty and fairness sweetie its just a matter of personal safty and having a truly enjoyable meeting.....For those of you that prefer not to work on a reference system or participate in security questions as you think its over the top thats ok there are plenty of providers to chose from so we all have choices in the end.....
Really I think its over the top when ladies get attacked or other things done to them when they are just trying to have a bit of fun...So somewhere there certainly must be a middle ground that makes everyone happy and relaxed kisses hugs and snuggles xxxxx

Good luck with it

[damron]

I would have to say that I wholeheartedly support Alyssa on this topic.What's the worst that can happen a guy when he visits an escort ,go away disappointed ???
Whats the worst that can happen the girl ??? Well I won't go there. Cheers Dam.

[piggi]

Really I think its over the top when ladies get attacked

Not much to argue with there -- fair point

[bigpaws]

References do not work ................... I personally rang Alyssa and when asked for references I lied and I still got an appointment!! I also used an un-registered sim card in my phone so she was no safer at all by using her "system".
I cancelled the appointment as the thought of her, or any escort, saving my number registered or not put me right off her.
We all participate in an "underground" activity full of risks but we choose to do it anyway .............. Alyssa you are fooling yourself completely if you think you can prevent a dangerous individual from attacking by using a reference system. There are ways of making you safer but making nervous punters even more nervous is not the way to do it.

Paws

[Doom]

References do not work ................... I personally rang Alyssa and when asked for references I lied and I still got an appointment!! I also used an un-registered sim card in my phone so she was no safer at all by using her "system".
I cancelled the appointment as the thought of her, or any escort, saving my number registered or not put me right off her.
We all participate in an "underground" activity full of risks but we choose to do it anyway .............. Alyssa you are fooling yourself completely if you think you can prevent a dangerous individual from attacking by using a reference system. There are ways of making you safer but making nervous punters even more nervous is not the way to do it.

Paws

Thats it Paws, well said

Doom

[Alyssa Jenkins]

Well sorry bigpaws but you are dead wrong in fact we have had this converstion before on another thread where you insuted my intelligence if I remember correctly...Anyhow by chatting to you on the phone no perhaps I am not avoiding an assault 100% but I am certainly getting a feel of the person I am chatting to and if I felt 1% uncomfortable with you on the phone I would not have agreed whatsoever to see you...Point taken its not 100% foolproof but in fact it is a help to avoid trouble...Also am I not correct in saying even though we had agreed on an appointment you still never had my exact location hun and you wouldnt till our appointment took place...Sorry dear but my safety and me feeling comfortable are paramount to me offering a good service so most people I see cooperate with me and have no trouble with all of this as they understand my safty concerns....
Thank you to damron and piggi for taking part in this conversation and supporting this and respecting the safty of other people...Sorry Bigpaws my main concern is not over making someone who is nervous more nervous but for my own personal safty...We all have different priorities in life and the point is to respect peoples opinions not to agree with them but to respect them.....There are other choices for people who prefer not to use the reference system.....
Thanks everyone kisses hugs and snuggles xxxx