The Secret Life Of An Escort !!!

[Areeya]

I certainly hope you don't feel you are judged by any of your clients or users on these boards Areeya? That would make me sad. I am certainly indebted to all the girls (escorts) who've been willing to see me. They've each provided me with something special in their own unique way.

I've said it before - that I'm always amazed by the resilience you escorts show. I know it isn't easy putting up with difficult clients or even just meeting ordinary clients demands. Not to mention dealing with women who aren't escorts and their attitude to what you do. (I think the harshest critics of escorts are likely to be other women?). Also this career must play havoc with your own family life and love life. Not to mention planning for retirement or getting out eventually?

Hats off to you ladies. I'm sure that all the gentleman on the forum will agree with me that we certainly appreciate all you do and have to put up with.

Hi There,

I did and do feel judged by clients sometimes. Some men think that they coz they paid, they have a right to insult you and touch you in a manner is abusive. Some women get off on it , but I cant. What rights do escorts have ?

Is this an opportunity for some men to take advantage of women ?

It is definately the good men out there that make it much easier. Like most of the guys on the msg board here

I dont plan to be an escort forever, lol, I have big dreams, and am doing all I can to achieve it. The escorting is helping me out a great deal in that respect & have to say I have met some Amazing gentlemen.

It also sucks when you get your heart broken by clients that fall for you, but it builds strenght from within. A learning experience indeed.


Have a lovely sunday
Kisses
xxx

[rover]

I don't know, but I hope the majority of clients you encounter are courteous and act in a civilised manner and treat you in the way that they would like to be treated. Unfortunately you will always get an occasional ignorant gobshite who will push his luck and you must get a sick feeling in the pit of your stomach with a self preserving warning saying uh oh! what have we got here.
But however Areeya, I wish you well and hope that all your punters will be charming hunks like myself.

Keep the good work up, we all luv you.

[Lincoln]

Hi Areeya, I fully support total and complete mutual respect between client and escort at all times.

I never lose sight of the person behind the escort appearance...

Which is partly the reason why sometimes we have to take a step back from time to time: Sometimes you start developing strong feelings for a girl, sometimes you meet a girl who you sense is extremely uncomfortable escorting, an escort might encounter a mean bastard at an appointment etc

Whatever the reason it gives you pause and I suppose you have to re-evaluate what you are doing.

[Alhazred]

I did and do feel judged by clients sometimes. Some men think that they coz they paid, they have a right to insult you and touch you in a manner is abusive.

I don't really understand the "I paid for you, I own you" attitude.

As far as I can see, in this world the payment is largely to allow the ladies to maintain the lifestyle where they can make themselves available to their clients, a gesture of recognition for the time, and often the artifice they dedicate to their craft.

Isn't this kind of respect necessary to elevate these pursuits beyond mere friction?

[john connor]

i think genuine clients and genunine escorts hava a mutual respect for one another
judge not lest you be judged

[kelso]

i think all the posters here (male clients) understand full well the risks and dangers in this job and appreciate how tough it can be
some of us have had relationships with the girls and fully understand the stresses
the problem is i think with the other types of client who do mistreat girls and they are unlikly to be using the forums as much as the good clients

[Sam Spade]

This is by far your best post Areeya and one that makes me respect you totally.
It shows a greater depth of your being, and as such makes you a person many would find a privilege to meet, and I for one would be honoured.

Believe me when I say this, most men do not want to here fantasy stories of sexual doings, conquests, and fantasy's, but truthful heartfelt experiences, especially if they are real.

On a personal note, as this is an online community, I personally use this as a means to show my true feelings.
What you see of me in this community is the real me, I don't make any pretences as there is no point as no one knows me in my real life so there is no come-back.

Many occupations are difficult, I know as I have experienced more than most, but what we must all remember is that each and every one of us has feeling, and as such each individual must be treasured, no matter what.

You have touched a number of people Reeya - whatever you do, do not loose sight of what is precious in this life!

Thank you Areeya.

[sweet rebeka]

yes,some people judge us,but to be honest i don't care when someone offend me or at least i don't let it to see that. i know myself,i know how i am, so no one who came to me can't judge me because you can't know a person in 30 min or one hour!

[hornylimerick]

I really admire escorts for what they do, it's probably on of the toughest jobs i can image, sure there are a lot of good clients, but unfortunately there are a lot of bad ones also.

while i'm sure it's possible for an escort to enjoy their job, it must be hard not knowing who's coming through the door next, being expected to do whatever the client asks, or being treated like a piece of meat by some, can't be easy.

All escorts fully deserve respect and admiration from us..

[Areeya]

This is by far your best post Areeya and one that makes me respect you totally.
It shows a greater depth of your being, and as such makes you a person many would find a privilege to meet, and I for one would be honoured.

Believe me when I say this, most men do not want to here fantasy stories of sexual doings, conquests, and fantasy's, but truthful heartfelt experiences, especially if they are real.

On a personal note, as this is an online community, I personally use this as a means to show my true feelings.
What you see of me in this community is the real me, I don't make any pretences as there is no point as no one knows me in my real life so there is no come-back.

Many occupations are difficult, I know as I have experienced more than most, but what we must all remember is that each and every one of us has feeling, and as such each individual must be treasured, no matter what.

You have touched a number of people Reeya - whatever you do, do not loose sight of what is precious in this life!

Thank you Areeya.

Thank You Kindly for those really deep words. I have to say that I love the forum as I feel I can express my deepest feelings of what is really within my thoughts and heart. Most of all I will not be judged.

I had the pleasure of meeting a few other escorts and realised that we all are beautiful, intelligent yet we lead secret lives. We are real people, we do deserve to be loved and to find love just like any other working class women of today, except for the fact that we have a really high sex drive, that we should not be judged for ! We all have dreams, and real Hope and Belief will make them a REALITY

I am glad my thread was well recieved , and thanks to all the gentlemen out here that give us respect like you Mark !!!

Kisses
Reeya