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    So I have finally come to the conclusion that this inst really for me after all!!!

    I have just seen an escort in Dublin and it wouldn't really be fair to review her because I think my disappointment would be based more on how I feel than how she "performed" or looked.

    Each time I have come away after visiting an escort I have always had a slightly strange feeling in the pit of my stomach. I now realize that punting isn't for me, I think I might need a slightly deeper connection to stop me feeling guilty. Now that's not say I have a moral objection to girls offering the service or to guys using escorts. I just don't feel right about it for me. So best of luck guys and ladies.

    I gave it a shot anyhow!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by daftscouser View Post
    So I have finally come to the conclusion that this inst really for me after all!!!

    I have just seen an escort in Dublin and it wouldn't really be fair to review her because I think my disappointment would be based more on how I feel than how she "performed" or looked.

    Each time I have come away after visiting an escort I have always had a slightly strange feeling in the pit of my stomach. I now realize that punting isn't for me, I think I might need a slightly deeper connection to stop me feeling guilty. Now that's not say I have a moral objection to girls offering the service or to guys using escorts. I just don't feel right about it for me. So best of luck guys and ladies.

    I gave it a shot anyhow!!

    If visting escorts makes you feel down or disappointed you should definitely stop.

    Certainly visiting escorts is not for everyone same as working as an escort is not for everyone.

    People visit escorts for different reasons but afterwards you should feel satisfied, have a smille on your face or at least not to regret of having done it, otherwise, you are going to feel guilty which is not a good thing to feel.

    Good luck in whatever you decide
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    Quote Originally Posted by daftscouser View Post
    So I have finally come to the conclusion that this inst really for me after all!!!

    I have just seen an escort in Dublin and it wouldn't really be fair to review her because I think my disappointment would be based more on how I feel than how she "performed" or looked.

    Each time I have come away after visiting an escort I have always had a slightly strange feeling in the pit of my stomach. I now realize that punting isn't for me, I think I might need a slightly deeper connection to stop me feeling guilty. Now that's not say I have a moral objection to girls offering the service or to guys using escorts. I just don't feel right about it for me. So best of luck guys and ladies.

    I gave it a shot anyhow!!
    You're very honest Scouser. Nothing daft about you!

    I think being honest with oneself is one of the most important and yet one of the hardest things to do. You seem to have a good handle on it. If punting isn't for you then it just isn't. You gave it an honest shot and at least you know.

    I presume you have tried seeing a few different escorts? I don't mean to deter you from your decision but before you give up entirely just be sure that you have given it a proper chance. There are a couple of girls that I've seen (and keep seeing) that make me feel on top of the world (both before, during and after the encounter). They did take a little finding though. And reviews by trusted reviewers were very helpful in this regard.

    All in all if you've made your decision after careful consideration - I wish you all the best. Once again, well done on the self honesty front. Its something all of us can work on.
    "Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"

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    Best of luck and thanks for your honest post. It isn't for everyone and if you haven't got it in you to step aside from your emotional ties to whomever you are with (if you are in a relationship) and just enjoy visiting an escort for what it is then yes you are right to walk away..

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    Sorry it didn't work out for you best of luck in the future.

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    Sure every time is!

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    Hi honey!
    Your not alone with how you feel, visiting an escort doesn't suit everyone.
    I have met gentlemen in the past that have felt so guilty after the visit and no matter how much you try to reassure them, they still feel so much guilt. The best thing in this situation is to try and work on the emotions your feeling that brings you to an escorts door. And if you are in a relationship that has problems, you should try and either work on them or dissolve the relationship. Because if you'r seeking the comfort of an escort and then feeling such guilt afterwards, you are at conflict with yourself.

    I wish you all the best with everything Scouser. We all deserve happiness.

    Fiona xxx

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    Well done on making the decision and I wish you the very best of luck in the future.
    If you have any doubt at all then you are best to leave it all behind and take a different path.
    You will be much better off emotionally for doing so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fiona View Post
    Hi honey!
    Your not alone with how you feel, visiting an escort doesn't suit everyone.
    I have met gentlemen in the past that have felt so guilty after the visit and no matter how much you try to reassure them, they still feel so much guilt. The best thing in this situation is to try and work on the emotions your feeling that brings you to an escorts door. And if you are in a relationship that has problems, you should try and either work on them or dissolve the relationship. Because if you'r seeking the comfort of an escort and then feeling such guilt afterwards, you are at conflict with yourself.

    I wish you all the best with everything Scouser. We all deserve happiness.

    Fiona xxx
    Think Fiona and Jasmin are spot on, it should be an experience that enriches your life,not one that leaves you feeling guilt. No matter how friendly or sensitiv.e an escort might be they can never bridge that gap that a relationship brings. Good post and best of luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by daftscouser View Post
    So I have finally come to the conclusion that this inst really for me after all!!!

    I have just seen an escort in Dublin and it wouldn't really be fair to review her because I think my disappointment would be based more on how I feel than how she "performed" or looked.

    Each time I have come away after visiting an escort I have always had a slightly strange feeling in the pit of my stomach. I now realize that punting isn't for me, I think I might need a slightly deeper connection to stop me feeling guilty. Now that's not say I have a moral objection to girls offering the service or to guys using escorts. I just don't feel right about it for me. So best of luck guys and ladies.

    I gave it a shot anyhow!!
    I respect you honesty pal,best of luck out there.

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