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    I have only ever been to an twice escort twice in my life and each time was a disaster because I was so nervous I just couldnt perform, I want to make a trip up to dublin and visit a girl again but the thought of not being able to perform puts me off,this is the reason I have asked about sex pills in past posts, are the better escorts able to make even the most nervous punter perform

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrpink View Post
    I have only ever been to an twice escort twice in my life and each time was a disaster because I was so nervous I just couldnt perform, I want to make a trip up to dublin and visit a girl again but the thought of not being able to perform puts me off,this is the reason I have asked about sex pills in past posts, are the better escorts able to make even the most nervous punter perform
    I think that you can deal with this easily if you go about it in the right way.

    Most important, you need to find the right escort and tell them about this first.

    Look for a profile that appeals to you that belongs to an escort who has a lot of good reviews and who is active on the forums. You do not have to go for the hottest lady that you can find, as long as she is sufficiently attractive to you that is enough. More important is to find somebody who is good as an escort - hence the need to look for good reviews - and with whom you can communicate beforehand - hence the need to find somebody who is active on the boards.

    Then, get in touch with them and explain the situation. Get that out of the way by pm before you meet the lady. When you meet, book a longer appointment, an hour at least. That way, your chosen escort will have the time that she needs to make sure that you have a good time.

    There are plenty of ladies who are able to help you out as long as they understand beforehand. It is harder if you simply turn up and have the problem as they do not know what is wrong, perhaps they think that you just do not like them or that you are drunk or stoned.

    Find the right lady and tell her about this and, while you may well walk in as nervous as anything, one hour later she will have you leaving her apartment not believing that you could have done that.

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    Also mate, its happened to me a bunch of times: soemtimes an appointment dosent work out for whatever reason, don't sweat it and don't be tying yerself up in knots about it.

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    man dont panic it happens, the chemistry is not right
    good advice form the guys above

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    The nervous thing has nothing to do with the fact im going to visit an escort, its the fact im about to have sex.I am very inexperienced sexually and the closest thing to being a virgin without being one

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrpink View Post
    I have only ever been to an twice escort twice in my life and each time was a disaster because I was so nervous I just couldnt perform, I want to make a trip up to dublin and visit a girl again but the thought of not being able to perform puts me off,this is the reason I have asked about sex pills in past posts, are the better escorts able to make even the most nervous punter perform
    Maybe you are gay?




    Only kidding fella! Finding the right girl is key!
    A lady that takes a very relaxed attitude is Emma in Naas. Lovely girl and makes you feel at home.
    Oh and also Nick in Naas she is a lovely lady.

    Stay away from Shirley though she will scare the bejasus out of ya with Mr. Pinky!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrpink View Post
    I have only ever been to an twice escort twice in my life and each time was a disaster because I was so nervous I just couldnt perform, I want to make a trip up to dublin and visit a girl again but the thought of not being able to perform puts me off,this is the reason I have asked about sex pills in past posts, are the better escorts able to make even the most nervous punter perform

    Don't worry too much about it, mrpink, as that is probably part of your problem. You are not there to perform, you are there to enjoy the company of a sexy lady, so try and relax.
    It happens to a lot more punters than you would think, and that are likely to admit it.
    I know my first 2 or 3 'punts' were not great in one respect, but eventually I got more comfortable with the whole process, and you can too.

    I think Sharkskin has given you some great advice. Pm a few ladies, let them know that you are nervous, have a bit of banter so that when you arrive you are not a complete stranger.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrpink View Post
    I have only ever been to an twice escort twice in my life and each time was a disaster because I was so nervous I just couldnt perform, I want to make a trip up to dublin and visit a girl again but the thought of not being able to perform puts me off,this is the reason I have asked about sex pills in past posts, are the better escorts able to make even the most nervous punter perform
    Happens to the best of us Mrpink. (Although no man readily admits to it). May I suggest that you book for at least 1 hour. That way you are not rushing, which will only add to the pressure. One drink before may settle your nerves. But just one as any more will compromise performance (a medical fact). And yes pills do help - Viagra (Sildenefil) or others - Levitra, Cilas all help but must be taken approx 30 mins before the encounter.

    The most important ingredient is the one you've mentioned - which is the lady in concern. It should be someone completely comfortable with herself, who is able to make you relax. It also helps if she is a good conversationalist which will take your mind off the obvious. (Plus being bloody gorgeous is a plus ).

    Can I recommend three ladies from my limited punting experience who fit the above bill:

    Selena, Dublin Female Independent Escort, profile on Escort Ireland

    VanessaVanny, Kildare Female Independent Escort, profile on Escort Ireland

    Jasmin, Dublin Female Independent Escort, profile on Escort Ireland

    I am sure there are many other girls who are understanding and relaxed, but i am just going by my own experience.
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    I was nervous as fuck the first few times.

    Do your homework like you're going into battle. Make sure you exactly what you want and who you want to do it with. Once you have the business side dealt with beforehand, you can relax during the appointment itself. Send lots of PMs - most escorts are really nice people

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    [QUOTE=dannyboy10;382730]Maybe you are gay?




    Only kidding fella! Finding the right girl is key!
    A lady that takes a very relaxed attitude is Emma in Naas. Lovely girl and makes you feel at home.
    Oh and also Nick in Naas she is a lovely lady.

    Stay away from Shirley though she will scare the bejasus out of ya with [COLOR="

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    Danny Danny what will we do with you.

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