Sleeping in the sofa !!

[kelso]

great q ciara; its often crossed my mind as well; from the sample so far i guess we have our answers!!

[Bruno69]

Me too. Marriage must be a living hell!

The posters here are hardly the greatest advocates of the institution of marriage !

[warmcome]

it ain't what it isn't cracked up to be?

[Sam Spade]

Logg on during day at work, when it's not busy.
Spend around three evenings a week at home working in the office.
Use this time to relax, clear up some paperwork have a couple of drinks and then check out the boards for a bit of light entertainment. Better that than watching T.V.
Boards can get interesting at time but I always try to logg off by mid-night, otherwise the wife will chase me to bed.

Does she know what I'm doing? I think so, she is aware I am posting on an adult site, caught me one time!
Hopefully she doesn't check out my profile, as that will open up the proverbial can of worms.

[anon361]

I'm usually online on my phone, I don't listen to music that much so instead I tend to read the boards if I'm driving along, in my office I would have e-I open on one of my screens and periodically check it. At home it's the same, the wife could be sitting with me and not would she have a clue I'm here, for all she knows I'm emailing but we do have separate TV's and my PC is hooked up through mine so again E-I would be minimised and every so often I'd have a look. We never went to bed together as im a night owl and she would go to bed at 10, even on the nights where we're horney i would get up after because there'd be no hope of me going to sleep that early, either that or i wake her up when i do eventually go to bed. I actually spend quite a lot of time with my family but I'm very good at multitasking, like right now I'm in the country one eye on this screen, the other watching a football game with my lads playing

[ciara]

Snap I'm the same thank god for iPhones to fill in any boring moment lol

Good question. I've often wondered about how long certain posters spend online.

My reason is my iPhone. Once I log in, I'm logged in forever until I log out, even though I've exited the browser.

Therefore I appear to be permanently online. I can also easily check the boards or send a post, whenever I get a spare moment, whether at home, in work, in bed (such as now), having a crap, walking in the street, or in the car. I often send a post while driving (just one of the many things I excel at with one hand).

So, whereas many of the other posters are saddoes going gradually blind and are not sure whether this is through excessive masturbation or the 20 hours a day they spend in front of the laptop, I am seamlessly integrating my online activity into my exciting and balanced lifestyle !!

[JAMESCORK]

Im in a similar boat to Mark. As I work in IT I am constantly behind a keyboard, be it mine or clients. At home I have an office where I can continue working on projects using a remote desktop connection to a client. So in theory I can justify being on line for as long as I deem necessary as I could be working. I have been asked when I arrive up to bed “what were ya doing till this time”, I usually answer “checking out porn” with tongue in cheek and that’s that.

I tell ya a good one. I used to post from a clients PC while working on a project there. The machine developed a fault and was sent back for repair. The hardware company rang me to explain the repair and pointed out laughingly that my client is fond of EI. Oooops…lol.

[Forrest]

I was actually going to say come upstairs your wife and I have a surprise for you and the codeword is banana PMSL

I'm so glad you told me the codeword, Donna, otherwise I could have missed the best Friday night of my life........................

[westcorklad]

Im not in a relationship at the moment so can check out this site whenever I feel like it.
However if there was someone else in the house I think I would be too scared of being caught to look this site up.

[Forrest]

jeez reading some of the posts from married guys on threads like this makes me somewhat relieved that I've never married...

I had 15 great years, so I wouldn't knock it ExP.
But circumstances and needs change. I prefer to visit escorts than develop a new relationship, by having an affair.
I know I am cheating either way, but we get on a lot better now that I'm not being too demanding in the bedroom, as she lost interest in that side after an operation about 8 years ago.
She probably has suspicions but I don't spend more than I can afford, my wife doesn't suffer financially, and emotionally she has no desire for anything more at the moment. If those circumstances changed and our sexual relationship returned I would be gone from here.