Goodbye to Love

[Experienced Punter esq]

Ever get those days when u feel thats your lot in life u ain't gonna find that special someone to love & share the rest of your life with?, of course the only way to find love again is to let go of the past & embrace the future and all that I've done that sure I've had my chances but in my early 40's now I have come to the realization it ain't gonna happen I'd have made a good husband good daddy and all twas all a fantasy Somebody out there will make u feel happy content & loved? theres someone out there for everyone? no it aint gonna happen I've closed the door on Love ..
(violins playing)

[magicalman9357]

Ever get those days when u feel thats your lot in life u ain't gonna find that special someone to love & share the rest of your life with?, of course the only way to find love again is to let go of the past & embrace the future and all that I've done that sure I've had my chances but in my early 40's now I have come to the realization it ain't gonna happen I'd have made a good husband good daddy and all twas all a fantasy Somebody out there will make u feel happy content & loved? theres someone out there for everyone? no it aint gonna happen I've closed the door on Love ..
(violins playing)

[lucifersam]

it's like finding something in the last place you would look, trying to remember something but being unable to then suddenly hours later it comes into your head with zero effort - finding love can be just that way.

[mellors]

Embrace your independence,enjoy it and make the most of it, you will be suprised, happiness will sneak up when you least expect it.

[monster_monster]

don't think of it that way, sometimes you are better off the way you are

[vampirejackie]

don't think of it that way, sometimes you are better off the way you are

I so agree

[lonely]

Ever get those days when u feel thats your lot in life u ain't gonna find that special someone to love & share the rest of your life with?, of course the only way to find love again is to let go of the past & embrace the future and all that I've done that sure I've had my chances but in my early 40's now I have come to the realization it ain't gonna happen I'd have made a good husband good daddy and all twas all a fantasy Somebody out there will make u feel happy content & loved? theres someone out there for everyone? no it aint gonna happen I've closed the door on Love ..
(violins playing)

at least you have the knicker collection to remind you of the good times

[Experienced Punter esq]

it used to be so different... she'd arrive on the train I'd wait hardly able to breathe choked with the anticipation of her arrival as the train pulled in, she'd be one of the first out we rushed towards each other smiling holding each other tightly holding hands cuddling all the way to the hotel we couldnt wait to check in at reception get to the hotel room & literally tear each others clothes off.. this particular day the train pulled in she walked slowly towards me I knew something was wrong we talked in the nearby public park she told me she didn't love me anymore & was returning home on the train later that evening I never saw her again I couldnt believe it.. I decided to check into the Clarion Hotel on the edge of the Shannon there I was to check in to a room on the highest floor I could get I would end up in the Shannon no messing I did this a few times I'm glad I didn't jump thats what love can do to u...

[vampirejackie]

it used to be so different... she'd arrive on the train I'd wait hardly able to breathe choked with the anticipation of her arrival as the train pulled in, she'd be one of the first out we rushed towards each other smiling holding each other tightly holding hands cuddling all the way to the hotel we couldnt wait to check in at reception get to the hotel room & literally tear each others clothes off.. this particular day the train pulled in she walked slowly towards me I knew something was wrong we talked in the nearby public park she told me she didn't love me anymore & was returning home on the train later that evening I never saw her again I couldnt believe it.. I decided to check into the Clarion Hotel on the edge of the Shannon there I was to check in to a room on the highest floor I could get I would end up in the Shannon no messing I did this a few times I'm glad I didn't jump thats what love can do to u...

The end of relationships can do this to you, but time heals, i know its a cliche, but it does. Many years ago i felt the same about a break up, but now i think back and cant beleive what thoughts went thru my head and im so glad i never went thru with those thoughts. Dont beat yourself up about it hun xx

[willyup]

I'm in my mid-forties, divorced 8 years ago, the wife walked out with our son and shacked up with the guy who used to live across the road!! Fcuker.

Anyway I had the same thoughts about not finding someone as you and had a years dry spell. I was miserable and despaired that I may never find anyone.
Then one day I had a eureka moment and just thought fcuk it, I'm letting these thoughts rule my life, just get out and enjoy yourself. What helped me was that I went out and tried something new every month be it mountain biking, archery or asking an escort for something new ;-)....
This all helped to alter my mindset and things have just got better and better since. There has been low points of course but everybody has them. The good far outweigh the bad.
It was when I stopped looking for a girlfriend that I actually found one!!

The last 7 years or so of my life since that eureka moment have been fantastic and full of adventure. I live it to the full to the best of my abilities.
It might not seem like it at the moment but everyone has moments like these, it will pass and that special woman in your life will appear before you one day when youre not looking.

Chin up and remember it's good to talk!!