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    Hi,Ive been trying to connect with a couple of providers and they are not responding. Im not hounding them and I will leave it for a few days in between calls texts etc... Im wondering what the deal is here as I am a newbie is there something Im missing or something Im not doing right???

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    Quote Originally Posted by sullystreet View Post
    Hi,Ive been trying to connect with a couple of providers and they are not responding. Im not hounding them and I will leave it for a few days in between calls texts etc... Im wondering what the deal is here as I am a newbie is there something Im missing or something Im not doing right???
    PMs for you will be useless, as you are not known to them. The same will go for texts. Just call a few hours before. If your calls are not answered then you are just damn unlucky so far. Keep trying.

    Good Luck and welcome to the boards.

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    calling with hidden number perhaps ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by sullystreet View Post
    hi,ive been trying to connect with a couple of providers and they are not responding. Im not hounding them and i will leave it for a few days in between calls texts etc... Im wondering what the deal is here as i am a newbie is there something im missing or something im not doing right???
    they should answer calls, make sure your number is not private, happens to me for about a week, could get no girl to answer my calls, then one hottie did answer and told me to call back with my number shown and i did but she then told me she had finished for the week there and moving on,,, jusy check in case, welcome anyway

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    Quote Originally Posted by mearse View Post
    they should answer calls, make sure your number is not private, happens to me for about a week, could get no girl to answer my calls, then one hottie did answer and told me to call back with my number shown and i did but she then told me she had finished for the week there and moving on,,, jusy check in case, welcome anyway
    i remember calling a girl who said she had enough of today and was finished even though it was about 4pm
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    Quote Originally Posted by joggon View Post
    i remember calling a girl who said she had enough of today and was finished even though it was about 4pm
    yes some work unsociable hours

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    As above forget about PMs and texts if you are unknown.You could chance a text after an unanswered call saying you would like to meet at a certain time for so long and telling them if and when they could text or call you back-such a text may of course still be ignored).

    Call in the late morning or early afternoon (leaving it till later may lessen your chances).If no answer you could try once or twice later.Sometimes I would call 3 times on the hour or half hour.If no response leave it and try at some future date again.Call a couple of minutes just before the hour or half hour,they may be doing nothing or you may have hit on when they are waiting on a client-then calling right on the hour lessens your chance of being answered.
    If an escort answers you ,keep it brief and to the point ,as they do not know you and may have other things to do.Speak in a calm ,clear voice.You should already know details from their profiles like rates and favourites.You may of course wish to confirm particular services or enquire of any extras.Having confirmed a time you should be asked to confirm your booking before turning up.If you are not asked ,suggest how you should confirm.This is often by a text half an hour before the meeting.If you hear of 15 minute confirmations try and steer it round to confirming 30 minutes before and then when you actually do go to confirm do it 35 minutes before.If you have made a booking for hours later in the day say you will also send a text in the middle of the waiting period (to ensure you are not forgotten).
    Outside of Dublin and to a degree Cork ,where many escorts may stay put for long periods ,escorts mostly tour.Often they may stay a couple of days or a week in your area.Sunday is often a day for moving on.Some stay all day,some may do a half day and travel in the afternoon/evening.Some may take the day off but their ad may still be active.
    Others can leave earlier than expected if they feel they are not busy ,if they dislike the accommodation they have booked or for many other potential reasons,so you may be ringing an active ad but no answer.As I say Sunday I have found to be notorious for this.This weekend there was someone I could have met on Saturday but laziness kept me till Sunday-all week she was advertised in my location till Sunday night.Sunday comes ad is partially deactivated till today she pops up again on the other side of the country in Sandyford.Also beware those whose ads may over run Sunday into Mon Tue etc.They can still leave Sunday night and change location on the ad Monday morning.

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    A lot of escorts here never use or look at PMs even though the thing may be set up on their profile,others only very infrequently read PMs.The fact that you have one review should help you a little in getting a response through the PM system (if you contact some of those escorts that actually use it) but calling may still be your best bet for the moment.Escorts likely get a lot of garbage in PMs and texts,it's easy to be ignored in the middle of guys looking for free conversations and amidst what is essentially spam.

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    thanks for the info...

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    no, my number is always visible.....

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