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    So, when I was growing up I was taught its more important to be interesting then pretty. Looks fade and an empty husk is just a husk. Men of course, tend to go for the latter and think about the former at leisure.

    What is your take on it? Is it nice to be nice or not important at all?


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    It's essential to be nice. Doesn't mean it'll get you laid though.

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    I think a nice personality can bring out someones looks.
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    Definitely personality......after 10 hours of sex I like to have 1 hour of stimulating intellectual chat.

    (Can somebody please edit this post for me............I think I've got it arseways again).

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    When you are younger you go for the latter , but with time and experiences the former stands the test of time . To sum up hollow bastards us men .: lol doc
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    I'd always go for an average looking escort with a great attitude rather than vice versa.
    I've been with a few stunning looking girls who clearly were under the misimpression that their sh1t don't stink- but their service sure did!

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    It depends on the conditions you meet. Mutual interests and chemistry can easily overcome the "difficulties" of not beeing good looking (unless you are very ugly). The personality is very strong for seduction, as much as look, and has the advantage to work on the long run. It lasts. The look is changing, eventually, fading, in competition with other men or women. It can be boring after a while. There's actually no definite rule.

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    I have to say I am shallow at first! It is looks that attract me to a lady! But my interest will soon waver if I find them dull or uninteresting! There are some very beautiful women on EI that I would not go near as I find them far too sharp!

    And you Ms. Chambers what do you go for in your personal life??
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    Good looks on their own do nothing to me. The complete package is fantastic but hard to find.
    I "compromise" happily for someone with a great personality and some interesting nice features.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    So, when I was growing up I was taught its more important to be interesting then pretty. Looks fade and an empty husk is just a husk. Men of course, tend to go for the latter and think about the former at leisure.

    What is your take on it? Is it nice to be nice or not important at all?


    Why one or the other? Why not both!

    Seriously though I know what you are asking.

    I, like most men (well I shouldn't really taint them all, as there are some good ones out there, just not me) am incredibly shallow and get all excited by a pretty girl.

    If I don't fancy a girl, I'm never going to take it further romantically. However, the looks bit only goes so far, and its the girls personality that would make me really fall in love.

    So in answer to your question - Yes, being nice is really important, and more important than physcial beauty in the long run. Beauty is important too but you know what - a bit of effort- make up ,nice dress and a nice smile and I'm smitten.
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