Do you think escorts should express themselves more?

[Alec Horan]

We are going off topic and i really don't want that,i am sorry.I am interested to hear some opinions on what i've just posted.Thanks

Sorry !

It depends on the individual punter I guess, I have been a bit pissed off in the past when a girlfriend directs me and vice versa especially if getting a particularly toothy bj........pretty sensitive area really

[rusty squeezebox]

Yesterday,during one of my appointments something happened that made me think.During "the action" I've stopped for a second,suggesting my client that he is not touching me on the wright place,in the wright way.The reaction amazed me a bit.He felt so offended about me telling him he was not doing the things wright,saying that nobody complained before me about that.After a bit of chatting,things went just great.
I guess that most or some of the escorts don't communicate with people,don't express themselves and don't say what they do or don't like,so he was unused with this kind of behavior.
So what do you think,should escorts communicate more,or they should just close their eyes and wait for the time to finish,just not to "offend" the client's ego?
I've picked the first option,i prefer to say what i like,in a nice way,of course!Like this,things become better for everybody.

Thats what makes you different to most escorts you just dont tell people what they want to hear..... ye probably done the chap a favour his wife is probably delighted with his new trick ..

[dannyboy10]

We are going off topic and i really don't want that,i am sorry.I am interested to hear some opinions on what i've just posted.Thanks

Sorry about that!

I would have no problem being told if the Lady was uncomfortable or something. But at the end of the day the appointment if for the satisfaction of the client not the Lady. If it was a lady I had met for the first time I imagine I would not be too impressed with a lesson.
However if it was a Lady I had met a few times and was friendly with I would make an effort to make the experience pleasurably for both of us. If that meant a few tips of guidance I would have no problem!

(I probably need all the help I can get!)

[Alec Horan]

can i ask where the client was touching you ?

the reason i ask is that a previous gf of mine would not let me finger her......no fucking way whatsoever......so if he was used to a certain practice he may be pretrained to a certain way as it were and not practiced enough or confident in certain areas due to previous sexual activities.

[Ric Hardgear]

wow i love it when an escort moves my hand to stimulate her ,it shows that she is into the sex ,i take it as a compliment that she is enjoying her time with me ,i love been corrected, win win all round i say

[JessicaJessy]

Sorry about that!

I would have no problem being told if the Lady was uncomfortable or something. But at the end of the day the appointment if for the satisfaction of the client not the Lady. If it was a lady I had met for the first time I imagine I would not be too impressed with a lesson.
However if it was a Lady I had met a few times and was friendly with I would make an effort to make the experience pleasurably for both of us. If that meant a few tips of guidance I would have no problem!

(I probably need all the help I can get!)

Ok,i perfectly understand that the appointment is for the satisfaction of client and i respect that,but if i am uncomfortable and i feel sore,should i just shut up an resist,just for the client to be satisfied?Ohh,not me!

[dannyboy10]

Ok,i perfectly understand that the appointment is for the satisfaction of client and i respect that,but if i am uncomfortable and i feel sore,should i just shut up an resist,just for the client to be satisfied?Ohh,not me!

Sorry Jessie but you are misrepresenting what I said.

In the first line I said "I would have no problem being told if the Lady was uncomfortable or something."

[JessicaJessy]

can i ask where the client was touching you ?

the reason i ask is that a previous gf of mine would not let me finger her......no fucking way whatsoever......so if he was used to a certain practice he may be pretrained to a certain way as it were and not practiced enough or confident in certain areas due to previous sexual activities.

He was trying to stimulate my clitoris and is well known that if it's not done wright,it can be sore and very uncomfortable.

[hd7055]

Jessie

I think that, if done tactfully, your approach is the right one - personlly I would much prefer to have a session where both parties genuinely enjoyed themselves rather than a few fake moans and groans. Most men would appreciate a few tips and pointers if truth be told but the key really is to be as tactful as possible, i.e.:
- NOT, "do you not know what you're doing!"
- but something like "that's great but here's a slightly different technique I really love; would you mind trying it for me?"

By the way I think your blog idea is a really good one and look forward to reading it. I think it would cover topics of interest to all posters on the site (escorts and clients) and should attract a large following.

Regards

hd.

[Alec Horan]

Ok,i perfectly understand that the appointment is for the satisfaction of client and i respect that,but if i am uncomfortable and i feel sore,should i just shut up an resist,just for the client to be satisfied?Ohh,not me!

i think it would be unacceptable and totally undesireable for the escort to be sore or uncomfortable......the more both partners enjoy it the better of course.......unles its a sadist or masochist involved