PM for appointments what are your opinions?

[dave1dave]

You are a bad influence on Dave1Dave. He was a good boy until you came along.

Hmmm Dave ponders the pros and cons of being a good boy v's bad boy.....

[Shirley Joy]

You are a bad influence on Dave1Dave. He was a good boy until you came along.

no he wasn't ..

[Torturedarc]

awwhhh...destroying my domme reputation...

I think i may have to visit u Shirley and see just how Domme you are !!!!!!

[anitasizzle]

I'm not into receiving PMs from clients as I don't feel the need to know too much details about them, or what might be expected from an appointment. It's sexual encouter where information about my 'favorites' are stated on a profile; PMs are way too serious, and I like thngs that are light-hearted and spondaneous. If I wanted to write correspondences with people, I could have been a secretary

[Morpheus]

What do you believe are the pros and cons of pms to arrange appointments?

My own opinion is divided in pro and con.

Pro.
It is nice that if you know each other from the forum, there is better chance of a connection between you at the appointment.
The Ladie can check your reviews and your forum persona and decide on whether she would be comfortable meeting you! (Security and services provided issues etc)
The Lady having looked at reviews and forum comments may be able to judge your likes and dislikes and the appointment goes in the right direction from the start.

Con
Can be used by more established and trusted posters to their own advantage especially in relation to the low reviewed and less established Ladies.
If you have built up a strong friendship with a person, before a meeting, it may lead to a difficult appointment that suddenly introduces intimacy and bussiness.
You may feel you have to leave a positive review due to online friendship.

I am sure there are many other issues...

I like to book my appointments in advance rather than leaving it to the day itself. PM is ideal for this.

The main disadvantage from my perspective is that not all girls use PM and therefore I can't use this system for everyone. Also some girls just prefer the tried and trusted phone call, so I won't argue with that.